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Lady331
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posted September 22, 2005 08:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lady331     Edit/Delete Message
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Gemini Nymph
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posted September 22, 2005 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Nymph     Edit/Delete Message
Seriously, it would help if you posting your info too.

And secondly, this guy, who probably is a very sensitive, is likely a "stalker magnet." That means he can give certain girls the feeling that there's a connection when there's none, yet the girl feels it so intensely she can't beleive he doesn't feel the same. That called an obsession. It is a very irrational and unrealistic feeling. There's a good chance he's already picked up on your obsessiveness and probably doesn't feel comforable with that. The more you obsess over him the more he's going to be uncomfortable. Whatever you do, you need to stop thinking you know what he's feeling - that's a stalker way of thinking. If you don't talk to him and don't really interact with him, you simply don't know, and whatever you think he's feeling is likely just an illusion.

I wouldn't test your luck with this guy either - if you start getting pushy and intrusive, he'll repell you in a heartbeat. With a Scorpio Sun and Aries mars, he'll be pretty harsh about it too. This guy needs his pesonal space and privacy respected....which of of course begs the question, how did you get his birthtime if you don't talk? If you're already sneaking around and digging up info on him without his knowledge, you pretty much doomed any potential with this guy. He needs to knwo he can trust a person before he'll open up, and if he finds out you're snooping on him, even before you two really know each other, he's going to write you off as someone he could never trust.

Lastly, you're young and your hormones are pretty intense. I know young people HATE it when adults tell them that, but you know, I was a teenager too once and I remember. So you really need to chill out and focus on something else for a while. I seriously SERIOUSLY doubt he's the "one".

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Lady331
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posted September 22, 2005 12:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lady331     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks,
I know his birthtime because once we were in a group and I asked the others so I asked also him.HE told me his birthtime! I'm not sneaking around at all!! In fact there is not so much I know about him... I know only what he himself says!
In moments he spoke to me ,he always spoke with a very soft voice and always behaved gently to me. And I REALLY don't know how he feels... Alright..

This is ME:
Sun Aries 21°26'32 10/11 direct
Sun is technically near the end of house 10 and is interpreted in house 11.
Moon Cancer 02°07'10 12 direct
Mercury Aries 28°53'26 11 direct
Venus Aries 23°04'54 11 direct
Mars Gemini 18°59'44 12 direct
Jupiter Gemini 05°26'49 11/12 direct
Jupiter is technically near the end of house 11 and is interpreted in house 12.
Saturn Capricorn 13°49'02 06/7 direct
Saturn is technically near the end of house 6 and is interpreted in house 7.
Uranus Capricorn 05°19'56 06 stationary (R)
Neptune Capricorn 12°22'57 06/7 stationary (R)
Neptune is technically near the end of house 6 and is interpreted in house 7.
Pluto Scorpio 14°25'22 05 retrograde
True Node Pisces 03°43'51 09 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Cancer 14°27'23
2nd House Leo 01°30'04
3rd House Leo 21°06'25
Imum Coeli Virgo 16°51'50
5th House Libra 23°00'45
6th House Sagittarius 07°07'59
Descendant Capricorn 14°27'23
8th House Aquarius 01°30'04
9th House Aquarius 21°06'25
Medium Coeli Pisces 16°51'50
11th House Aries 23°00'45
12th House Gemini 07°07'59
Major aspects
Sun Conjunction Mercury 7°27
Sun Conjunction Venus 1°38
Sun Sextile Mars 2°27
Sun Square Saturn 7°37
Sun Square Ascendant 6°59
Moon Sextile Mercury 3°14
Moon Opposition Uranus 3°13
Mercury Conjunction Venus 5°49
Venus Sextile Mars 4°05
Jupiter Quincunx Uranus 0°07
Saturn Conjunction Neptune 1°26
Saturn Sextile Pluto 0°36
Saturn Opposition Ascendant 0°38
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°02
Neptune Opposition Ascendant 2°04
Pluto Trine Ascendant 0°02

IS THERE ANY POSSIBILITY THAT YOU ARE WRONG?
I DISAGREE WITH YOU!!! (just aries)

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Valkie
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posted September 23, 2005 11:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Valkie     Edit/Delete Message
Honestly, If you're not willing to reach out and communicate, there isn't anything you can do.

He does have a Pisces Moon, so odds are he is picking up on the emotions that you're throwing out there.

But, all the vibrations in the world aren't going to do anything if you don't talk. I know it's hard for a Cancer Asc... I have a Cancer Asc. I keep quiet and watch, even when I pick up 'vibes' from someone. Those vibes don't go away... and you'll never know what those vibes mean if you don't talk. The Cancer shyness doesn't go away either, you just have to learn when to listen to it and when to ignore it.

You need to tap into your Leo side... granted you don't have any planets in Leo, but you do have that 10th/11th house Sun.

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sue g
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posted September 25, 2005 03:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
I agree with Valike......if you dont reach out......dont try, you never will know......

Good luck

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SparklingSag
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posted September 25, 2005 12:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message
I agree - talk to him. I recently mis -read the signals with someone and if I hadn't of spoken to him I would still be thinking something that wasn't possible.

be brave!

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iAmThat
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posted September 26, 2005 09:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for iAmThat     Edit/Delete Message
H Lady,
I just read the first post. I gather that he is scorp. If he really likes you he will not hesistate to tell you how he feels. Scorps are definitely not shy in such matters


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Lady331
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posted September 26, 2005 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lady331     Edit/Delete Message
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iAmThat
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posted September 27, 2005 12:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for iAmThat     Edit/Delete Message

Not sure of that. Your moons are very compatible. Looks like the two of you go pretty well along in understanding each others moods often telephatically.

This guy also has some overlap of Saggi. Is he born in latter part of November? Did you find him adventurous? Did he leave home at age of 10

Ha ha ha..not trying to generalize. But his core is scorpio.. Be careful of not ever hurting his emotions. He would strike back when you least expect.


I am not a pro. My sis is Scorp and Mom an Aries. I have experienced the vibes that goes between them

Also the ascendant sign is important as well. You have failed to mention that.


The secret to win a Scorps heart is to make him feel needed. Make him feel important in your lifes decisions.


Heres a very good site that does compatibility. I highly recommend it. It used to be free. Not sure about now :
www.topsynergy.com

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Lady331
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posted September 27, 2005 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lady331     Edit/Delete Message
What if I tell him how I feel about him?

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Mystic Gemini
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posted September 27, 2005 04:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Gemini     Edit/Delete Message
Don't do that. Hang out with him first and get to know him better.


Do not reveal feelings right away.

Ask him if he'd like to go see a movie or eat.


Get to know eachother betetr first.


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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

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(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start

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iAmThat
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posted September 28, 2005 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for iAmThat     Edit/Delete Message
Lady,
Did you try that web site?...They take 3-5 days to prepare a report. Was is free?
When I did mine it was free.

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Loggerhead
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posted October 01, 2005 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loggerhead     Edit/Delete Message
iAmThat -- I tried topsynergy. It didn't take days, just a few minutes. And it was completely wrong, IMHO! I put in my and my husband's data, and the results were just ridiculous.

Did you feel your report was accurate?
Also, it seems when you give your email address, you created an account that only works with YOU and someone else. In other words, you can't input date of 2 other people and get a report for them. I found that disconcerting, and I think they should mention that on their site.

What was your experience like?

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Lady331
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posted October 03, 2005 12:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lady331     Edit/Delete Message
That's true!
Every little thing Loggerhead says is true!

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