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Topic: Scorp girl mesmerised by sulky cancer man
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luvscorp
Knowflake Posts: 14
From: United Kingdom
Registered: Sep 2005
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posted September 27, 2005 05:06 AM
 
Anyone have any idea what goes on with the sulkiness of the cancerian man? One minute they r full on and promising u the world, next they r no where to be found - then the process starts all over again........... the confusing bit is when they return again, that act like nothing happened......... 
 don't get me wrong - i know it is worth the wait but how do u manage the moodiness and disappearing act ? what makes them disappear? The weird thing is he keeps coming back - for what? Get the feeling that he just needs reassurance that i am there, then disappears again. Has been going on for months now. IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 3016
From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted September 27, 2005 08:01 AM
I know we are supposed to be compatible with Cancers, us Scorpios, but I feel the water element between these two signs can be overwhelming at times......if you are both on a downer at the same time......its is hard to lift the other up......can be like drowning.....I like cancers very much, I identify....but at times....I havent the patience.....maybe its what I see in myself......its too extreme I suppose. Oh I think it is becasue my chart is mainly water. I think if the Scorp had maybe air sign influences like Aqua moon, it would work better........... Two Cancer men that I know have Aries asc (like me) and they are seen by most as very self absorbed......lovely guys but very focused on me..me..me....and they both look for mother figures in the partner... I suppose it depends on what floats your boat girl !!!  Good luck xxx IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 3016
From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted September 27, 2005 08:05 AM
.....are you happy for him to keep disappearing on you like that.....you being a Scorpio woman and all would probably put loyalty high on your list......are you not getting a bit peed off with him doing this.......  Isnt that what children do...come back to the mother for reassurance.....how old is this man....if you dont mind me asking? xxx IP: Logged |
luvscorp
Knowflake Posts: 14
From: United Kingdom
Registered: Sep 2005
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posted September 27, 2005 11:28 AM
He is just lovely ....... but yes it does drive me a bit mad with the 'one minute there and another gone' scenario. Just wish some firm ground could be found of friendship even ......... is it worth waiting for tho' - that is the question? Must be frank - i have been very aloof with him at times ........ but am incredibly peed off with him and I think he knows it so he might be hoping time will calm me down. But being a true scorpio it only makes matters worse. He is 33 , I am 31. Just can't understand why he doesn't just move on or say cheers or s'thing ......... instead of this limbo situation ..... When he does contact me again I have an instinct to just ignore it as he seems to do ........ & then reply when it suits me about 3 weeks later, as he does. Sad thing is I am going away for 3 months from Dec and might all be too late by then. have u been in a simlar sit'n? tks for the advice and comments  IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 3016
From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted September 27, 2005 12:26 PM
Anytime girl, you are welcome......love to chat especially about love Oh yeah I was with a man who messed me around and played head games.....unreliable and weak actually...but guess what I did......married him.......LOL......yeah I was always a fool for love!!! It is as though somewhere deep down I expected to be messed around - and you know what I have known a few Scorp women like this. very loyal honest etc, and yet they take a lot of sh!t from their blokes....... Now it is different...I am 46, married for the third time and as my karma would have it with a guy that NEVER lets me down.....I really think if you start as you mean to go on.....people around you realise you deserve to be respected.... However, I am so aware of the desire for another who treats me badly......its just a matter of breaking the pattern isnt it....cos you know what girl........YOU DESERVE TO BE TREATED WELL xxx IP: Logged |
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