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pisces9
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posted September 28, 2005 12:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi!!

Didnt know where to address my queries so i thought this would be the perfect place. You all sound extremely helpful and i need help!!

Met a virgo while joining a new workplace. We hit it off real well. After i joined there was no contact and well he wasnt on my mind. Then some work related concern bought us together and i happened to chat with him on telephone since he was in another location.We again hit it off real well and i was low and he kinda lifted my spirits cos he was so humorous.

The very next day, happened to meet him by PURE LUCK in another office building (oh and i thought i was looking really pretty that day ). Funny thing was i had actually thought of going down to his location to get my papers processed and it was strange we met...

The weirdest thing? He was DEADLY serious and there were no jokes, nothing...found that so weird....so i thought he must be crazy and left it at that...

Met the next day at his location due to papers. Again, dead set serious....in fact ignoring me and then asks casually what my plans were for the weekend....i didnt get it and told him i was going out with friends.

Over the next 2 weeks, saw him come over to my location twice and come down to meet me especially. Even sat with me in my cabin and spent 15 mins listening to me chatter and offering to help in case of a problem, esp regarding my papers.But, still so SERIOUS!I wondered where all the laughter had gone?

My papers got stuck at his location and he is in charge of handling them. Thought i should follow up and called him after 2 weeks of his visit. Well he said there was a prob and that i should visit him and then get them corrected and give them back to him.

The day i set off to correct the papers, gave him a call and he asked me what i was doing over the weekend. I said ide go for a movie. He said with whom? I said with family cos i dont have a boyfriend see!

When we met, he was extremely happy and he told me that btw he didnt have any girlfriend either and was looking out.He knew my 'DADS ZODIAC' sign!!!????The color of my dress in my snap and a whole lot of other things. We are both number 27 i.e 9 and we were happy to know. But STUPID ME!!!I was so much in a jovial mood that when he said he was looking for GF's i said i have friends who wr looking for BF's and ill forward their no. to him!!!!!!!aaaaargh! Then he asked me out to lunch....partly joking but i knew he was serious. I declined saying ide already had it. He asked me when i was coming down again and i said sometime maybe.....God am i CRAZY!!!!???

Gave him a call some days later abt submitting corrected papers and he asked me again what i had done on the weekend. Said i had gone for a movie and he said, Oh no!he missed the chance!!!And so i joked and said well he could come along next time and we would see the movie with my mom. I laughed and he didnt.It was a joke!! The next time we met, i had a big smile for him and a handshake. He had again gone back to his shell. He was DEADLY serious....agian. I asked him why he was that way (cos we are of that comfort level)and he looked away and said 'its happened only just now'.I knew what he meant. He asked me lots of questions abt what i did when i got home, how was work, how are people etc.He put aside all his calls, work, friends just to sit with me and chat nothing!!!

I left eventually and did a follow up the next week. He was extremely jovial again and we got along like crazy. He said he wasnt serious at all that day so we could talk. He remembers every bit of conversation we've had. He keeps hinting at that coffee we shld have together.This time i said 'come down'. So he says that coffee at office is bad. I didnt pursue it and tht he was joking again.

The last time i had to give him a call to follow up on my stuff and i was having work at another building (close to his) so i told him that. Well when i finished my work and was abt to enter my vehicle whom do i see running towards me in the rain, shouting my name so he doesnt miss me? Yes it was virgo! I was touched and frankly i dont think i needed him to tell me he liked me.....i knew then. He was so desperate to catch me and for all you know he came there cos he knew i had work there and if not then its one heck of a coincidence.He was again, totally serious and....well, SHY!And supportive.....very sweet...

Last i talked to him on phone, he said i should talk to his boss after which my papers would pull thru and i shouldnt be worried cos itll be fine and theyll take care of it. So now that leaves me with no reason to call him.

All throughout this, i would like to point out that HE has NEVER called me!!!Officially or personally....ever!He has my number and of course my office number but he talks to me only when i call. He never called!!!!!Does he like me, does he not or am i crazy????Its so obvious when he is with me that he likes me but NO FOLLOW UP?What the heck should i think?

Is he just flirting?I mean maybe he just flirts whenever he meets me and then its outa sight outta mind?

Would love some help on this. Please, are all Virgo's like this?

HELP Knowflakes!Cos iam on the verge of cutting this off. Cant stand bad relashionships. Piscean trying to swim upstream.

Thanks!

regards
pisces9

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Mama Mia
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posted September 28, 2005 05:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Welcome my fellow Pisces friend..

Find out his b-day I would like to know his moon sign that may help out a lil more. Virgo guys are attracted to us Pisces women they are our opposite.

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posted September 28, 2005 07:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
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let ther b light
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posted September 29, 2005 03:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message
HEY PISCES 9
considering the no of times hes asked u out n u hav declined, it is no surprise that he did not call u even once..........maybe he does not want to come on too strong and is scared that u might not talk to him or something.........he does seem to really like u. and maybe u shud go out with him if you really lik him. i think that maybe he wanted to go out with you to a place wher he wud not hav distractions, work, people around to answer to and thats probably why he said 'coffee at office is bad'.....nyways all the best.......and keep us posted

love
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pisces9
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posted September 29, 2005 08:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi Mama mia and Randall and thanks for the welcome!!I feel it!!

Mama mia theres no way i could find out his birthdate just yet cos like i said, he hasnt contacted me personally and then i dont have the dbase as well. I will try however. Looks like a piscean moon somehow....v dreamy...

Diya, what you said makes a lot of sense actually. I really dont know what made me decline him so many times when i actually do like him!!Pure crazy.Maybe i should accept but i fear that all this just might be a flirtatious thing and ive been duped!

An update however....talked to him last and he put me on hold (which i hated) cos there were ppl around. When he did talk he told me the status of my papers. I ws cheesed off by then and well he started his jokes again. Said i cld call him 24x7 in case of probs and i said that was a dangerous time to keep cos anyone cld call. So he says well, that timings only for girls and special ones....again thought he was joking, laughed a bit and said goodbye.I think he knew i was not in the mood for jokes. Why does he keep giving these corny hints? What his prob!

Regards
Pisces

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maroon_flower
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posted September 29, 2005 10:11 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi Pisces9 Welcome to lindaland !!!

I can kinda understand a lil of what ur probably feeling .. I too find myself falling for a charming virgo man lately!

Hmm.. perhaps he is feeling a little unsure.. esp since you've refused him like a dozen times! Just kiddin.. I mean, virgoes tend to generally be a lil more cautious.. and perhaps he too is not sure how to take things.. as friends or more.

Why not ask him out for coffee and pastry or something like that. Nothing too heavy..so no undue pressure & you both can get to know each other a lil better and see how things go. After all.. you cant always spend ur time wondering..best to find out and move on in life.

Wishing ya well!

Peace & Love,

Scorp sun/piscean moon.


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let ther b light
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posted September 30, 2005 02:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message
hey pisces9,
i can understand that u declined inspite of wantin to go...........i do it alot myself!!!!!!!!!
i think he is just scared of rejection and its nothin else........thats probably why he tries to joke around and make light of the situation.......maybe u shud reassure him in some way.......drop a subtle hint...then maybe he'll be a little more confident

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GemStar
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posted October 01, 2005 12:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Simply said...

Pisces9...DECIDE what you want...do you want to go out with him or not??

He has given you many, many hints...and you have not moved forward. Do you like him or not?
Do not put the blame on him when it is You who is making things confusing.

What do YOU want? Make up your mind...you are not being fair to him or yourself by being so wishy-washy!!!

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pisces9
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posted October 03, 2005 05:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Knowflakes....An update....

He was last here at my office building and didnt come and even say a hello!!! A colleague of mine said he had seen him and i was terribly surprised and hurt!!Another lady i was talking to said he's a HUGE flirt.....!!!

Do you blame me now for being unsure of going out or establishing contact?! I mean i thought he was a flirt the way he came on the very first day we met and now its confirmed. All those hints??? Just teasing maybe. Seeing if i cld fall and when i didnt fall for it, well, the guys lost interest!!!
Maroon flower, Leatherblight and Gemstar, yeah you guys sound right but iam unable to digest the above!!
How cld a guy who came running outta the rain to say a hello to me, just so he wouldnt miss me, come to my office and not even say a HI?????!!!

Its terribly hurtful....

Thanks!

Regards
pisces

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let ther b light
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posted October 03, 2005 06:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message
if that is the case then please let him be.........and i no its difficult.....but then if u do giv in u might end up gettin more hurt....let him talk to u.......u dont talk to him........and maybe you shud talk to others who no him and get their opinion instead of relying on only one persons point of view..........maybe the lady you spoke to wants him to herself!!!!!!!.......anythings possible.......
on the other hand jus becoz he's a flirt does not mean he cannot REALLY lik u....maybe you r the one fr him.......i think only if you talk to him will u ever findout
love
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pisces9
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posted October 03, 2005 08:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi Letherblight,

and thanks so much for the support. Whats your zodiac btw?

Hmm yeah...i gs time will tell. Im just staying away as of now...things are extremely unclear and like you rightly said, why get further hurt when you can exit before? Moreover, the lady who told me is married and has a kid of her own. The other things ive heard frm ppl are diverse...he's a v conscientous worker, amazing talker etc. I have no doubts on his flirting abilities. Ive seen him surrounded by women. Gs cos he's got a kind of really caring aura and he helps out women which is why theyre all around him. I mean the last time i was sitting with him, one girl actually came and asked him how her hairdo was and he said it was 'bad' and she should change it!!And then he looked at me and smiled. He's v open abt it....

Maybe he does really like me...well then maybe he should try getting in touch, which he never does.His body language is so different when iam around. Kinda really conscious and stuff...How could one stay away from someone one likes? And maybe im not the one?Who knows....

Anyways, time will tell.

Thanks!

Regards
Pisces

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future_uncertain
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posted October 04, 2005 05:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
pisces9... are you still looking for advice?

it sounds like you're both interested but no one wants to be too obvious... an easy thing to happen between a virgo and a pisces.

reading over your posts it sounds like perhaps your evasiveness is causing just as much confusion on his end??? (what i mean is he may be interpreting your actions as such.)

i also talked to an expert on the subject , my own handsome virgo, and he said he's probably being cool toward you because he's at work. do you notice any difference in his behavior when he's alone as opposed to when he's with coworkers?

i've been with my guy for a year and a half and he still acts very cool toward me when he's working.

just some thoughts. good luck!

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let ther b light
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posted October 05, 2005 03:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message
hey pisces 9
ur most welcome.............i'm an aries....

i think wat future uncertain has written makes sense.......and its also possible that he jus is not ready to be serious..........maybe he's jus scared of the comittment
also, a lot of times people do and say things(or in ur case dont say and dont do things).......against their will........wat im tryin to say is that even if he feels lik callin u, speakin to u etc somethin is probably stoppin him.......and i guess u shud understand that coz u ur self declined his offers inspite of wanting to go...........be patient, u'll no pretty soon
all the best
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pisces9
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posted October 05, 2005 06:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Dear Future_uncertain,

Thanks for your post and the opinion of an expert . I know what you are saying is quite right abt me causing the confusion. In my defense i would just say that its all too new and i hardly know him plus the negative feedback, ive been hurt before, and its mainly been on a very joking level and well, i dont want to read too much in between the lines. I mean what if i put my heart on my sleeve and he just says, sorry, he was joking?!!!I dont know when he is serious or not?

mmm....he is extremely friendly with me over the phone (i dont know if anyone is around then) and when we meet he is so different. So conscious and kinda shy and serious....totally not a flirt.He has never acted cool when iam with him, its just that he dosent care when iam not around i gs.

Plus i just found out.....he is my junior not only by designation but by age as well!!!!Dunno if thats stopping him.

Diya, yeah maybe the age factor or the designation factor might be making him have doubts or like you said fear of committment...dont know.

But here's an update...

He called me on my cell yesterday while i was going from one office building to another. The first thing he says is 'Good news'...and i was like 'who's this?' and he said his name and said that my papers had finally pulled through and that he had mailed me regarding that and i should be mailing him back to take this forward. He sounded really professional and i dunno what happened to me but i just left all my defenses for the moment cos firstly i was happy that my papers had been cleared and secondly cos he had called. I went ahead and thanked him profusely, uttered all kinds of gibberish like the world being so cool and trust a number 27 to pull me through etc etc and well also seriously told him a huge thankyou and that he had been really very very sweet abt processing this stuff blah de blah! The guy was kinda obviously taken aback and then i said, hey, dont take all this seriously ok, iam just in a good mood today!Duh!

Funny thing....ive rung him from my cell quite a few times and yesterday he very deliberately told me that he had had a very tough time trying to get my number!!!I know he wanted me to say 'why havent you stored my no. when i called' but well i just said that it was easily available online and i wonder why he had a problem?weird or what....?

Right, so i said ide mail him in a minute abt the papers since i was just enetering office. Was just 2 yards frm my seat and just 2 mins had gone by and he gives me a call saying 'wheres the mail!'.aaaargh!!!I was like, hey listen guy dont you think it takes a girl time to get to her seat?! He was joking i gs and talked a few funny things and put the phone down. Saw my mailbox. Had 2 mails frm him. First one, telling me to call him on his cell and no. was given (he knows i know his cell no!) and the second explaining the process of my papers. Man was this SO urgent! Anyways, i mailed him to take it forward and get an unecessary 'Thank you madam' mail from him.Was it cos he was hurrying me?

Oh and yeah he's supposed to hand over my papers to me and he says well that it wld take time thru internal courier service and so he wld come down and give them to me. Was actually asking whether i could come if i was nearby but then i had already reached the office building. So its gonna be another meeting again......

God! I wonder what the heck this guy will throw up next. Iam seriously otherwise thinking of concentrating on a very sweet cancerian who has been around lately but well the virgo pisces pull is amazing till now...

Thanks guys!Ill keep you updated!

Regards
Pisces

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Isolaede
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posted October 05, 2005 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isolaede     Edit/Delete Message
Hey girl:

I dated a Virgo for seven years and boy oh boy are they wonderful. However, in your case you've all but told this guy you weren't interested in him when you offered to set him up with one of your friends. In the Virgo mind you just told him that you saw him as "just a friend." So naturally he's not going to expose his feelings to you.

In this case I think the ball is in your court. If you really like this guy then YOU need to ask HIM out. Maybe for coffee or a movie. I wouldn’t worry to much about the flirting thing. Of course he’s flirting right now – he’d like to find a girl friend some time in the next decade or so. However, once a Virgo is involved I’ve never known them to be anything but faithful. And I mean the real legitimate kind of faithfulness, not the “Oh I won’t sleep with anyone but I’ll gawk/flirt/etc at will.”

Have courage, my Piscean friend. My gut tells me this guy is a keeper.

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future_uncertain
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posted October 05, 2005 03:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
Right on, Isolaede!

Pisces, I'm glad you found the information helpful.

So... what are you still reading this for????

Pick up the phone already!!!

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pisces9
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posted October 06, 2005 09:42 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi Isolaede,

Wow that was an eye opener! Dunno felt great after reading your posting as well as future_uncertain's. Its just that i havent been very lucky in love in the past and i just need someone to encourage me to go for it. I am extremely suspiscious as you can see and extremely cautious and well i gs it spoils it all.

Anyways, he called again today on my cell....of course professionally, to ask whether i had a certain document from my papers. Told him ide check and well, just before this breif conversation ended he asked me where i was and what i was doing. Basically initiating some conversation. But since i was in a meeting i couldnt talk and well he got it.

Why do i have the feeling that somethings happened.....I mean i think ive said or done something uncosciously thats made him comfy again....he was so sweet on the phone and there was no phony stupid jokes this time. It was just 2 ppl talking.....

Well lets see. depending on my next conversation and level of comfort i might just hint at something....

Thanks you Knowflakes, ure all so sweet and so understanding. Thanks for listening!

Regards
Pisces

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pisces9
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posted October 07, 2005 08:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi Knowflakes,

Just posting here cos im feeling TOTALLY weird....

Just accepted a date with the cancerian i had mentioned...he's so nice...shares his deepest thoughts, is very handsome and adores me....what else does one need...

but...iam still thinking about virgo. I do really like him. Talked to him today abt the papers not being there and he said he would handle it and thats it. No more conversation. He has either totally given up on me, is really hurt or couldnt care less. Heck, why didnt he just ask me out directly without making light of it and getting turned down? Dont know whether we would ever meet up or talk and just yesterday he seemed like such a possibility.Why did i act so DUMB!!!!

Should i be going out with this cancerian. I like him but its not the same as virgo. And virgo will possibly never come back again....

Gosh i know i sound awful but somehow cant bring myself to take the first step now hes being so cool to me. Still cant forget the day he visited here and didnt visit me and blah blah getting all negative.

Just wanted to talk cos you guys seem to understand.

Regards
Pisces

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pisces9
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posted October 10, 2005 10:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi Knowflakes...

Just wanted to say that i think ive wasted my time and thoughts on this guy.

I know exactly the kind of game he is playing here. He dangles a bait and watches if a woman takes it and then withdraws it. He isnt even flirting bcos thats usually quite lighthearted. He makes sure he makes a person 'think' he is serious and dangle them baits and then sit back and relax and let the other person do the worrying.

Oh Gosh, how cld i have been so wrong!Im generally not....

He said he would come down for my papers last and he didnt. I gave him an email today asking for the status and the first question he asks in a professional email is 'how was your weekend?'So how come he coolly forgot abt me all this time or dosent even take the opportunity to meet me or try contacting me if he really does like me?!He was in my office and he didnt even come meet me?!!!Just points to 1 thing iam quite certain.

Well i answered that i had had a v v hectic weekend ( a wink smiley after it) and how was his? And then asked something else professional after this.

The next email he sends he has written only abt the professional question.

I was zapped and humiliated!!!!!!!

And after abt 15 mins he sends another mail saying he had a great weekend at Xyz club.

Wrote back whether he was in the pub saturday and sunday?!!Did he overdo the drinks? And good to know he had a great weekend.

Thats it. he didnt reply after that.

Iam seriously stunned how i could be conned so easily. He has never ever tried to get in touch with me, never done anything but hint and flirt and now the games....i mean theres been everything negative abt this character!Dont think i have any feelings for him anymore.....just a sick feeling that i got involved with such a weirdo!

Feeling hurt as well. Just wanted to share.
Thanks for listening!

Regards
Pisces

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posted October 10, 2005 11:59 AM           Edit/Delete Message
wow... alright, I just got through this whole thread and I've got a couple of things to say.

1. As a Pisces, you should have a natural ability to see the people behind the mask. Unless you have several factors in your chart that shut down the natural Pisces empathic ability. You need to start trusting yourself and what you're own feeling are telling you! A lot of what you said feels "colored" by the opinions of other co-workers... like you've been talking about the situation with the women at work and you've picked up their natural fears.

2. Virgo's are cautious when it comes to matters of the heart. Off the top of my head, I can think of 2 Virgo Suns that I know. One is in her 40s and has never been married (very out going, she's a DJ) and the guy hasn't had a girlfriend in the past year (he's a stand up comedian). There is another strong Virgo placement that I know (5th Mars singleton in Earth square Asc and square Neptune), he's one of the sweetest things that I've met and he hasn't had a girlfriend in 3 years.

Point being, they won't risk their heart unless they are sure... they won't push unless they are sure. You're Virgo isn't sure... he isn't even sure if you're interested or if you're just being a flirt!

Even without the astro charts to confirm it, you two have a soul connection, and from the sounds of it it was a rather deep one in a past life. The soul isn't going to want to open up to the pain that that kind of connection can create without being sure.

As far as the Cancer man, it sounds like you're using him as a pacifier. No offence, there very well may be a connection with him, but it is no where as strong as it is with the Virgo.

Now, it's up to you. If you really want to know what's up with the Virgo, you have to ask him out. He heard that you were going out with the Cancer and assumed that what he was getting from you was wrong. He's closed down because he doesn't want to risk being hurt on something that he has no idea if he is sure on anymore.

Ask him out to lunch. If things get weird, work has put a time limit on it for you... but you need to stop protecting yourself from what might be... if not, you'll never find out.

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Mama Mia
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posted October 10, 2005 12:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Geeeezzzz I know how you feel, kinda of went through the same thing recently. I too felt/feel crazy for taking the bait. I too am Pisces. But he was not a Virgo. Are you sure this guy is not married??? That is married mans game...

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posted October 11, 2005 10:02 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Dear Valkie,

Thanks for those words...

The opinion i had abt him in the beginning and the kind of connection we had was really genuine and sweet. I didnt spoil it, i think his approach was wrong if he was really interested. We were kidding around since the first time we met so how would i know if he seriously wanted to go out with me?

Yeah somehow the past life connection rings true....i never get along so well with people all of a sudden. The comfort levels were amazing....crazy.

And yes, theres no way he could have known abt my going out with cancerian. Cancerians from my ex ex company so no chance of that at all....unless theres some office gossip he's heard.

Oh and yeah well he wrote back again after my mail... since i had written that had he been in the pub sat and sunday and did he overdo the drinks etc? Well he actually said he was in the pub on sat, at home on sun and sun night at a restaurant....wanted to write 'thanks for telling me your schedule' and was quite surprised....why's he telling me this? And where are the jokes?!!!I always put in smileys and try to kid around but he is SO DEADLY serious!!

Ok so i said 'Lucky you!' To which he asks 'Why was he lucky?' (i dont beleive these banal dialogues!!). 'Well cos he had so many places to go to and what was the restaurants name? Didnt know there were any around that area.'. To which he gives me the details(abt the direction!!!!)of the restaurant......

I really CANT beleive it. He's either a total non communicator on email or he's plain weird.Cant beleive i could be attracted to him really!

Mama mia, he is definately not married and he's younger to me.Why's he acting like a ...a...automaton or something??? So odd. I had fallen for him cos he used to make me laugh but he's just not doing that anymore....

I really dont see how i cld ask him out. I feel hes a weirdo, he acts weirder and iam so uncomfortable with him. I wonder why hes even emailing me when he dosent give a damn?U go out with people you have a nice time with not with people who make you feel all weird and crazy and unsure....i really dont see this working out at all.

I somehow have a feeling he's kinda not yet over a past relashionship yet or at least he's still carrying the baggage. A normal man does not react like that....

Regards
Pisces

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posted October 11, 2005 04:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Boy I'm a Virgo/Libra Cusp and my first real long term relationship from like 15 on and off until 33? Boy was he an Insecure Pain in the Ass! He drove me mad!

Now me I have to be Aggressively pursued and I think that's about the only way to get a Virgo, due to the fact that they are so Cautious and don't like to look stupid! They are Avoiders and think too much! They hear and remember everything you say, so gotta watch it, their perception of what you say and how you say it is Keen to their thinking, they are Hyper Sensitive to and preceived rejections!

Once you get them though they are very Faithful, you just gotta get them?

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GemStar
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posted October 11, 2005 07:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message
*edit*

VirgoLibra...your answer sounds more watery in nature....Cancer influence.

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hmmm....sounds like the opposite of the Virgo I met recently, virgolibra69. I'm willing to bet he has a strong Leo influence in his chart. This guy is far from cautious and definitely aggressive. He did tell me he worries about everything though. hehe, what Virgo doesnt?

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