posted September 29, 2005 07:03 PM
For example, here are some very harmonious factors I like to see in comparing two people's birthcharts for marriage:
Sun conjunct Moon;
Sun trine or sextile Sun;
Moon conjunct Mercury, Venus or Jupiter;
Sun conjunct Ascendant;
Venus conjunct, sextile, or trine Mars;
Venus conjunct Jupiter or Neptune;
Mars conjunct or trine Jupiter;
Sun in the other's 4th, 1st, or 3rd house.
Any one aspect by itself is not sufficient to predict a lasting harmonious relationship, but if several of these are present it points to a strong attraction that may last, if there are not severely stressful aspects. Here are some dis-harmonious factors I do not like to see in the charts of two people attempting a long-term relationship:
Saturn conjunct any of the personal planets - Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, or Ascendant: Here the Saturn person tends to squash, oppress, invalidate, or attempt to control the person with the personal planets.
Uranus opposite any of the personal planets, which tends to raise intense issues of will and freedom.
These aspects are so severe as to be "deal-killers," even though it may take a while for the aspects to play out. When they do show up, they tend to be all-consuming. However, spirituality, therapy, maturity, and giving each other a lot of space and respect can do wonders to turn battles into opportunities.
http://www.astrologynow.com/relation.htm
- My Jupiter also conjuncts his Venus.
and that's it.
His venus and mercury are in my 4th house so hopefully that's good also.
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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra
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Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start
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posted September 29, 2005 07:03 PM