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Topic: Two ships passingin the night..
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Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 408
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted October 03, 2005 11:30 AM
 
Have you ever first met someone and the moment you saw each other the attraction was so strong that all you could do was stare at each other you both were lost for words. You approach each other and hi was wall that would come out of either of you all's mouth.
From that point on you see each ther on a one day weekly basis still so intrigued and curious about each other only to just say hi and stare again and again.
Finally after about a month or so of seeing this special person that has some how gotten into your head you both feel like you want to get to know each other. You can tell from day one a real connection could be made here. You reach out for this person and they except, you slightly begin to communicate your excited bc this seems right. they appear to be exctly what you want outwardly any way. All of a sudden a pull back has happen the connection seems to fade they are not reaching like they were at first, if this person is the one it should not be this hard. Finally the truth has been told the one you seemed so connected with is already connected with another, how could this happen this seemed so right, I guess we were only two ships passing in the night... IP: Logged |
DragonflyAries
Knowflake Posts: 31
From: New England
Registered: Sep 2005
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posted October 04, 2005 12:03 AM
Could be the feeling was mutual but the timing was off... I've had that happen before. If they're meant to be part of your life, they'll return, and usually pretty dramatically at that.  IP: Logged |
pisces9
Knowflake Posts: 8
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Registered: Sep 2005
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posted October 04, 2005 12:03 PM
Oh Yes!It happens and its like the MOST beautiful and blessed connection that can happen.But yes, sometimes the timing is off, person is committed already, older/younger to you, circumstances are different etc. But that should not stop us cherishing the fact that such a special connection came into our lives. It happens rarely and it can make u feel totally lost.....i just wanted to keep staring at him....i dont know why, but i knew that he need not have even looked at me but i could just go on and on.... Generally when this happens, one person needs to be grounded if this is not acceptable at the time. Maybe thats what happened... Cherish it... Regards
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Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 408
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted October 04, 2005 12:37 PM
Letting out this big ole sigh...I am glad that someone really understands what I was feeling when I typed this. I was so disappointed when I found out that he was committed to someone else. This was one of those mystical things. But I am selfish and do not want to share so I declined as it was unacceptable for me to do it this way. Even after we agreed that it fould not happen this way I could still feel his thoughts as we still sat next to each other. He was too disappointed but yes timing was bad here and we decided to just keep it friendly. We both walked away from each other like DAMN!!!! Thankyou guys for the responses they did help me.. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 2739
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted October 04, 2005 01:08 PM
OH MY!I have experienced something VERY much like that. In my case, we made eye contact for much longer before I ever did anything about it. We got together briefly. It was beautiful, but she had a boyfriend. I got a hand delivered letter in my mailbox saying how much she felt connected to me, but she couldn't continue because she felt too guilty about her boyfriend. It hurt sooooooooo bad. I made a personal rule for myself as a result of that. I told myself I'd never again get involved with someone who's already in a relationship. I'm a Capricorn, though, so caution may be an increased part of my nature. That all happened when I was 18. Man, that girl was gorgeous with the most pleasing shyness. IP: Logged |
Stargazer
Knowflake Posts: 92
From: Columbus OH USA
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted October 04, 2005 01:09 PM
It is a sense of comfort to know this stuff happens to other people too.Its almost like a wave washing over me.... Thanks Mama Mia for sharing IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 408
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted October 06, 2005 02:05 PM
Bumped for Sue:IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 3416
From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted October 06, 2005 03:12 PM
Thanks for the bump darling.....Oh girl, what can I say.......Aaaarrrggghhhhh......would probably be fitting....oh sh!t, bu**er, f**ck etc etc etc...... Hasnt it happened to a lot of us....usually in my case, in the past, it was ME who was attached.....which felt terrible, as at the time I wasnt with the one who was "the one"......but felt too young and scared to break up with him.....aaaarrrrgggghhhh again.... When I was 17 or 18 I made a gorgeous guy who was older....I held hands with him....walked with him..he was a DJ....I really wanted to go with him, but couldnt move away from the other guy.......wished I had now cos I married him and ended up getting divorced. So MM the burning question is girl....do you still see him and do you have a chance of getting to know him....or will that not happen.......? Love Sue xxx   xxx IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 408
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted October 06, 2005 03:23 PM
Well Sue here is thing I do see him once a week at the gym. I first met him back in April and when I first saw him I was like WOW!!! And to my surprise he had the same look on his face and he spoke to me first and from that point on I was sold. For the first month we just stared at each other and said hi. The past month feelings and things really came out. Last Wednesday I saw him and that was when I told him after he told me that he was married at which I had to pressure him to tell me tht I was not into that, and he said instantly I figured you were not that type of girl. Anyhow he has gotten so into my head. I was just trying to figure out how can I beat this confession and disappointment. He did not show up at the gym last night and I willing to bet my lst $5 he is feeling uneasy about how this has gone down. I hope that he does not continue to feel that way cause I amnot tripping. Earlier today I sent him a lil text just telling him that I missed him at the gym last night and that some one told me tht confession is good for the soul and well temptation is on me and that I am trying to fight the good fight, but the pull is soooo strong. And that I hope that he is handling it better. Cause I felt the disappointmet from both ends. So thats that and after I told him that I felt 90% better. CONFESSIONS OF THE SOUL... hmmmmmm!!! Oh by the way Sue this too had alot to do with the thread my ears are burning.. IP: Logged |
let ther b light
Knowflake Posts: 71
From: bombay, india
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted October 07, 2005 06:50 AM
hey MM!!!!!!i think a lot of us totally u/s wat ur feelin !!!!!!!
trust me, u r not alone.......
i think theres some sort of conspiracy goin on, up in the skies.........it's so darn difficult!!!
but all the best n i hope u make the right decision
love
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sue g
Knowflake Posts: 3416
From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted October 07, 2005 07:50 AM
MMI think you were very honest and fair they way you handled this situation.....and at least you found out he was married sooner than later.... Did he answer your text and I wonder, will he turn up at the gym, next time....what do you think girl.......and...... Did you get to find out his birth details....not a Libra is he LOL !!!
xxx xxx
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Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 408
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted October 07, 2005 09:46 AM
Hey Sue- To answer your ?'s No he did not return my text and at first I thought that he may return to the gym,but to be honest if he does not I am not surprised at all. I felt like I was what keprt him coming to the gym. Intitally he came to the gym to shoot ball but bc of his curiosity for me that kept him coming.Yes he is the Libra/Pisces guy that I have been ranting about here on the the board lately. Infact his B-day is Oct 9th.. IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 3416
From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted October 07, 2005 12:53 PM
Oh I see.....just when typing to you Libra jumped into my mind.....I know a few Libra men......the eternal search after the perfect woman and all that...... Hope things work out well for you girl...... xxx IP: Logged |
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