posted October 05, 2005 01:05 PM         

And welcome to LL....

I can only speak from my own experiences (which at this stage are colourful and interesting).

I believe you can be with the "one" and still connect on a soul level with MANY others. I feel if you dont, it can, at times, maybe slow down the growth process.

I have been with my man for 16 years and havent been untrue to him, but have been presented with a challenge or two...I think its a matter of gaining understanding and then knowing how to act. If you know why you are pulled...it can be half the battle, so to speak.

Do you feel its a test of your present relationship and are you worried that you may be tempted to stray....

If you wanna talk further I would be happy to listen and support, if I can.....you see....its one of my favourite subjects.....
L O V E........and all its challenges

posted October 05, 2005 01:08 PM         

You are absolutely not crazy. However, a soul connection does not a potential mate make. Many times I think the soul connections we feel with people are karmatic. Karma, as we know can be both good and bad. I’ve shared soul connections with so many people, some of them three times my age, some women, some studley hot young men my age. Men I’d never consider being in a relationship with. I would advise that you take a real close look at your current love and ask yourself if he fulfills you. If you can say that he makes you feel safe, at home, at peace, and satisfies the desires of your soul. If he does then look at this new connection as nothing more than someone you share karma with – someone meant to teach you something. Don’t let your imagination try to take it beyond that point. If your current guy is a keeper, then hold onto him. Good men are rare these days, and real, lasting love is not to be trifled with.

*hugs*

posted October 16, 2005 03:21 PM         

Do you love your boyfriend ?

posted October 19, 2005 10:51 AM         

When you are in the early onset of a new relationship, you will never look at another guy and say "Hey, I have a soul mate connection with this other guy." Your attention is focused on the guy you are seeing... you feel elevated and happy, not caring for other people around you.

But when your current relationship is getting stagnant and not completely satisfying you anymore, your subconscious start to look outside and you see other people, and other potential relationships.

Maybe I am a sceptic... but in my opinion, when you start to see other people as potential soul mates, it is the start of the end of your current one.