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Plutonian
Knowflake

Posts: 40
From: Singapore
Registered: Sep 2004

posted October 09, 2005 03:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian     Edit/Delete Message
Hi all,

Can somebody tell me about is relationship?
We seem to be so comfortable in each other's presence till recently it turned a little annoying. I found out today that one of his colleague (a female) has been dropping little love notes to him and of course he denied having anything going on with her. I was jus devestated that he's lying. I do not wish to annoy him further but jus want him to be honest to me without having any confrontation. Is there anything to do with my mars in retrograde and opposing my sun sign?

My birthdata
15 November 1976, 3.30pm
Singapore

His Birthdata
12 July 1974, 4.59pm
Singapore

I really appreciate a little help on this please....

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Stargazer
Knowflake

Posts: 104
From: Columbus OH USA
Registered: Aug 2005

posted October 11, 2005 12:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Plutonian!!!! Gotta love those male cancers... I have been married to two!

I guess i'm confused as to the nature of your relationship...? Are you exclusive with this guy? thought you were? or just in the beginning stages?
I would like to know more before posting any thoughts.....

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Plutonian
Knowflake

Posts: 40
From: Singapore
Registered: Sep 2004

posted October 12, 2005 09:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Stargazer!
Actually, I am too... on one hand he's so sweet and caring towards me and had me thinking i'm exclusive, but on the other, using my scorp's intuition, I can sense that he has been seeing someone else (one of his colleagues in the same team as he is).
Being a scorp, am really getting emotional...

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Stargazer
Knowflake

Posts: 104
From: Columbus OH USA
Registered: Aug 2005

posted October 13, 2005 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message
I would go with your gut.... have you met or talked about meeting his family? This is a sure sign that he is more than just playing around...Cancer men like a woman to be sexy.... but he also likes them sweet and quiet.. Winning his heart indubitably requires a delicate balance on shaky ground... As a scorpio, you should be right up his alley... notice i said sweet not nice....ha ha lol...
if he's not being honest..... you will find out... you scorps always do!

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Plutonian
Knowflake

Posts: 40
From: Singapore
Registered: Sep 2004

posted October 13, 2005 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian     Edit/Delete Message
yea... he made sandwiches for me in the morning and left them on my desk at work... he invited me to his place and he cooked. introduced me to his beloved baby brother (26 yrs old, but he loves to call his brother, "my baby brother!") beloved is cos his parents divorced and he hate his mum but has to stay with her, so his brother is all he has... tho he hates his mum but he doesn't show it... he's jus indifferent towards her...

his mum did tell him to stop fooling around and should start seeing someone and settle down... and told him if he isn't serious, he should stay away from me and not be a casanova going around hurting people... he told me he tried staying away from me but couldn't... that's when things were really sweet! but now it seems like he gets annoyed whenever we communicate... after i found the love notes from his team mate, i was really tempted to confront him but i held back...

for the past 2 days, i did some in depth thinking and guess i should try to find a balance... maybe scorps are jus to intense and may have unconsciously caused him to retreat into his shell... maybe i'll try to let go a lil and see how it goes... but it somehow makes me feel insecure. i do not want him to feel that i'm cold and have abandoned him...

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