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Topic: this darn libra man
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sierra
Knowflake Posts: 3
From: reno,nevada, usa
Registered: Oct 2005
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posted October 17, 2005 01:10 AM
 
Hi everyone... I have been lurking around the boards for some time now and finally got up the courage to post. I have recieved a lot of insight from reading all the posts..thank you. I was hoping that I could get a little more insight with my confusing, frustrating, wonderful relationship with my libra guy. Yesterday I wanted to throw my arms around him and tell him "I love you", today I dont even want to talk to him, tommorrow I will probably want to call the whole thing off, and the day after that I will see him and he will kiss me and my legs will melt. We spend time together and it's wonderful, he is all mine when I am right in front of him, but I swear he barely remembers my name when he is not right there. We have been friends for the last couple of years and a few months ago it became more. I guess really it's the little things that he does or doesnt do that seem to hurt, like if there's an opportunity to see each other even for just a few minuts he ignores it. He can be so cold sometimes when we are not together and just talking on the phone. Is that a usual libra trait? He is always so concerned about everyone else that I just want to scream hey...what about me!? Dont you care how I'm feeling?! I'm scared to trust him with my heart, I'm afraid that he will never really understand what it would mean for me to give my heart to him. Yet, there is a connection to him that I cant explain. I know this will sound kinda strange but I have these memories of him, memories of things that have never happened. I only remember moments, and it's not glimpses of the future, I know they are memories.Told ya it sounded crazy, but I cant explain it. So, any insights to the whole libra/aquarius thing would be so greatly appreciated. I have noticed that most people when asking questions post stuff about their charts but I have never had a chart done so I have no idea about all that stuff. This is the third time I have typed all this up I hope I finally get the courage to hit the submit button. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 1929
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted October 17, 2005 01:51 AM
Submit!
oooooooooh, sounds kinky!
Welcome!My advice is to go to www.astro.com and make up a chart for both of you. You'll need a time of birth too.
They have exploring options as well, so go to it, gal!!! Yeah.. but libra, aries, taurus, aqua, pisces, etc... people are just like that. I mean, even in your own mind.. with your friends, family, work, world.. it's not 'on' all the time.
But those moments when it is makes it worthwhile though......... IP: Logged |
vinita
Knowflake Posts: 102
From: mumbai,maharashtra,india
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted October 17, 2005 03:49 PM
hehe...i can so relate to you...!!!
ya bit librans are really absurd and they hav really weird mood swings...!
and ya that whole "dosen't rmbr my name thing"i used to say the same sentence i swear...but its not like that they rmbr more than u can ever think...see u hav to lay ur cards with librans extra carefully...they are really unpredicatble..and u never know wat turns them off...and those clearing-the-air-talks dont do miracles in this man's case!
so basically...u have to play the chasing game...make him want you!he likes to be kept on his toes...and as lovers and friends they are 2 diff kinda people and...and they settle in more nicely wen they know its for good...and trust me forever is the smallest word in meaning of time...they take to decide ur the one....but baby then u really see stars!!!
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geminstone
Knowflake Posts: 459
From: Golden, CO
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted October 18, 2005 01:08 PM
Oh Sierra!! How very much, I know what you are in!! My Libra just celebrated his 30th birthday yesterday,... half of my life has been with his  .... the end of existance, at times, seems not long enough... then, at times, well..... you know!  ~ geminstone IP: Logged |
sierra
Knowflake Posts: 3
From: reno,nevada, usa
Registered: Oct 2005
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posted October 19, 2005 03:09 AM
I'm so glad it's not all me....thanks for the replys! I have just never been in a relationship with someone like this. He has such a hard time talking about things, so I never know for sure where I stand and I try very hard not to read to much into things. It's kinda like he says one thing but then does another. I'm not so sure that a libra is a good match for aquarius, but boy there are those times when it just feels perfect. Anymore insight to libra men would be greatly appreciated!!IP: Logged |
Lissajane
Knowflake Posts: 23
From: Auckland, NZ
Registered: May 2005
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posted October 19, 2005 09:29 PM
Hi Sierra, my boy has Libra moon and I see alot of similarities here. Wish I could offer some guidance but I'm a bit confused also! Wishing you the best IP: Logged |
sierra
Knowflake Posts: 3
From: reno,nevada, usa
Registered: Oct 2005
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posted October 22, 2005 01:45 AM
yes, confusing is a good word to describe things. There are times when I really think he cares, and then there are times when I'm positive he doesnt. I tried very hard not to read to much into the things he says or does...but darn it..He wrote me this poem. It really touched my heart, all those times when I would mention something about myself and I thought he wasnt listening, he was. But again I'm trying not to read too much into it. I'd like to share the poem and get some feed back. He titled it Broken Doll because of a shirt I have that says that. When I was wearing it he asked what it meant and I said it was because I was a broken doll.Broken Doll Broken doll, your tears of pain
Comes the waterfall, hid by rain
Broken doll, found lighthouse beam
Pray the light will show the seam
Broken doll, your fears surrender
Dawn approaches, time to remember Such a Beautiful doll, those eyes of chameleon
Approachable only, if you’re that one in a million
The look of fine porcelain, to handle with ease
To feel her emotions, is for her only to please
On a pedestal of glass, so fragile yet strong
If you’re found in her favor, live you but long
The hand poised, held out, inviting you to hold
Take her hand, gently, as if polished pure gold She sees a fragile future, yet shares a place in nature
The place in her world, bares a crack, a fracture
Yet she troubles on, for more places to pray
Why her mirrored image, does she unkindly turn away
Look upon her, she will shy as if what you see is dreadful
But what you see is a the Doll, god made and beautiful
In her eyes you can see so much, they sing a love song
Pools of blue are the favored, if not something is wrong Broken doll, your tears of pain
Comes the waterfall, hid by rain
Broken doll, found lighthouse beam
Pray the light will show the seam
Broken doll, your fears surrender
Dawn approaches, time to remember Hidden are her fairy wings, a secret she does not share
Flitter all about helping nature, just out of the lookers glare
Basking in the warmth, she stands in the light of the morning
Each new dawn brings strength, her wings spread adorning
But watch out for her fury and anger, which you will not see
As the angry fire burns, a calm soft persona will she be
Striking out goes against her, pray for her good nature
For if she finds no alternative, there’s no name for this danger In the many depths of a mind so strong, yet very weary
Lurk paths of many directions, many stories that vary
Experiences of a life full of laughter, and of hidden dark pain
The laughter of cherished loved one’s, yet hurt and blood stain
She’s a picture Freud would stumble at, a brain Einstein would love
A dreamer Jung would envy and the tender heart of a white dove
If you prick her finger, she’ll smile and kiss you gently,
Prick her soul, the wicked side, will you see perfectly. Broken doll, your tears of pain
Comes the waterfall, hid by rain
Broken doll, found lighthouse beam
Pray the light will show the seam
Broken doll, your fears surrender
Dawn approaches, time to remember In the entire world this broken doll you will not find
Seek the dawn, there will you see her almost blind
The dark is her playground, in-between she finds fear
Dawns first light beam brings her closer to seeing clear
Vulnerable as she might be, troubled in facts of health
She is a well of things to come, she is pure wealth
This beautiful Doll, this beautiful Broken Doll
I find this Doll wanting, and My Heart wanting her all…
I cried when I read this, but what if I'm feeling more than I should...What if he doesnt realy feel anything in return and this poem was just him being creative. I tried to talk with him about how we feel about each other and it didnt go so well. Do Libra men have a hard time discussing feelings?
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sthenri
Moderator Posts: 3619
From: Generic New England City
Registered: May 2003
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posted October 22, 2005 10:42 AM
Wow, that is a beauty:>I would say that Libra has no trouble expressing himself but it may be few and far between? My ex is a Libra and he is never more touching than when he knows what I feel...see libras can sense your feelings and react without thinking..as soon as one knows what you are going to do it makes an impression. So it feels as if none of the feeling is genuine but it's a hidden defense. Libra moons do this too..show their feelings when they are feeling rejected or sense a strong emotion from another, normally the best is when things are going along smoothy with no drama. Right now my ex is bombarding me with cards, tokens, flowers, magnets with i love you, animated bears, you name it...right now I am considering being his friend again or being close and he picked up on it instantly and starting showing emotion. When we lived together he couldn't ignore me enough, to the point where we had separate bedrooms for two years... so go with your own life and he will follow. Natasha
Taurus/6th house trine Pluto, Jupiter, Uranus
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