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Topic: Back in Heartbreak Hotel-Aqua broke it off
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sthenri Moderator Posts: 3667 From: Generic New England City Registered: May 2003
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posted October 29, 2005 07:56 PM
Well, knowflakes, I am back to the place I was before in July. The Aquarius/Venus in Pisces broke it off over the phone..seems last week he thought I gave him too much attitude and he feels he is not the right fit for me, he's insecure around me and i don't seem to want him..he didn't sound too upset and asked me not to rub his face in it as he had a party to go to. I know because he had invited me to the party but blew me off to make me call.He's been pretty angry all week but I still got hurt. Truth is no matter what some people are just down with love all together. Natasha Taurus Cancer Moon IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 3151 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted October 30, 2005 01:57 AM
Do you think Fixed Sun with Fixed Sun is a tough combo? I tend to think it is between Cardinal signs.IP: Logged |
nannyfish Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Registered: Aug 2005
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posted October 30, 2005 03:06 AM
Anyone who breaks up with another person over the phone just to avoid going to a party with them should be swept up and thrown out with the rubbish..IMHO. Later duuuuuuuude....8) IP: Logged |
steelrose Knowflake Posts: 596 From: Spain Registered: Sep 2004
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posted October 30, 2005 05:22 AM
I agree, Nanny... Damn cowards!Natasha, darling, it’s good to be angry… It releases all the frustration… letting it rotten inside is much worse… When I’m really sad, when I only want to hide in a dark corner to die, I tend to force myself to be angry. I force myself to cry, I force my voice to be enraged even if I don’t feel like wasting energy… I project it all out, I imagine who hurt me in front of me and direct all that negative energy… It’s not good keeping it inside. My ex used to say I gave him too much attitude, that he felt under constant aggresion… Maybe because he deserved it? Because he was weak and loose with his principles? He really got me mad sometimes. He was a Pisces Moon. Maybe that Pisces Venus of your Aquarius is the key of the question. Feel fortunate. You are worth much more than that, sweetie. You are wise and strong, girl… Too brave and wonderful for such a spineless fishy creature. Chin up. I’m sure that someone very special is waiting for you around the corner.
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ariestiger Knowflake Posts: 844 From: UK Registered: Jan 2004
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posted October 30, 2005 08:29 AM
Watch what you say, I have both (Pisces Moon AND Venus) I reiterated the fact that our relationship was over to my stbx Aqua husband last week - for good reasons, however - won't go into them now - if you want info you can scroll through the Astrology topics. It seems Uranus on the Moon is a bit of a battleground time for relationships. Uranus is in Pisces till I don't know when, probably another 5 or 6 years. Although that's still no excuse for wrong behaviour...to me, Taurus and Aqua don't gel that well in any case - they are just very, very different. AT IP: Logged |
sthenri Moderator Posts: 3667 From: Generic New England City Registered: May 2003
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posted October 30, 2005 12:22 PM
Thanks to both of you, yes I feel the same steelrose, I have to get it out. I will go for a run and then go to a relatives house or where there is little drama.AT, I agree but I still don't know what Aquas want, marriage or a playmate, hard to figure. He seemed to want marriage then his best friend came along and didn't like me, and he's a player, so I figure he wanted to be more like that. Lots of times he would also talk about his ex b/f a Cancer, very sweet and playmate material. Never said no, but he said he couldn't love her. What they hell? I suppose it's true, I am opinionated, but he seemed to like that at first. I personally think he wanted to make his ex jealous and is still in love with her, he's even building a house next door to hers, some competition thing. Watch out AT, you may have mind games to come with g/f's. But they will come and go away quickly. Natasha
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ariestiger Knowflake Posts: 844 From: UK Registered: Jan 2004
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posted October 30, 2005 02:53 PM
Well, my stbx was "married" to his Cancer mother before he met me - for 30 years!!!!! - awful woman - wanted him all to herself - I am not going to go into THAT drama as I will never stop & the story is elsewhere on this site...Aquas are fixed, Cancers are clingy...go figure...it's an odd match, the Aqua looks after the non-emotional needs of the relationship and the Cancer the emotional needs (though neither has a clue about the opposite type of need), and both of them are quite good at "caring" for things (as in catering to an animal or plant's needs). So, in a bizarre way, it works, as a form of coexistence. I say coexistence because apparently (on the surface) there isn't much love there, but there is a kind of devotion - Mr. Aqua used to take my MIL more places than he ever took me, EVEN when we were married, which REALLY p-d me off -his mother used to act all helpless and couldn't drive herself anywhere, and deliberately stayed without a boyfriend and went around in threesomes with other couples...GRRRR. See, I knew this would happen if I started on the subject! And what is this with your Aqua building a house next to his ex?! Christ! Even an Aqua couldn't be so emotionally detached!!! Next time he comes crawling to you, tell him to get stuffed! AT IP: Logged |
sthenri Moderator Posts: 3667 From: Generic New England City Registered: May 2003
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posted October 30, 2005 05:54 PM
Yes she's a Sag,very dominant, and he adores and looks up to her. I think he's hoping she will come back some day.Yes you are right about devotion, people can be devoted and take care of things if they feel there is a reward in it, like watering plants to make into food. It's not very passionate but I am finding there is very little of that in the world that doesn't devolve into fighting. Better to save my passion for work, and devote myself to someone already devoted to others. I am getting the idea that I need a more selfless man-if I took care of the Aqua I was a gem, a charmer, if I was needy, then I was a terrible person, but he paid attention. There was no winning, so I will be his friend. I emailed him and he said bottom line I wasn't lovable enough-as in sexually-he didn't say that but it's implied, but he needs a g/f without emotional needs and who wants to take care of him until he finds out if she is the one or not. I have heard that before, and sure, we will be friendly but nothing more ever and I won't be his ear when he has sob stories. I just know he is eaten up by jealousy of his ex wife, and they sit around having midnight chats about her love life and he holds her hand innocently leading himself on. Aquas are devoted to a cause and she was the perfect mother, so in his eyes that's perfect. I can't compete with that, and I can't be the polar opposite, playmate either. Natasha
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