posted November 21, 2005 01:48 PM         

when I brought up something he said the other day, where he insinuated himself into boyfriend status, i could almost feel him get off the hook. i said "that was pretty funny you saying that after you read my email where i said we could just be 'friends". he just laughed. also, i reminded him that i have said some pretty deep stuff in emails that he didnt respond to. he just said he isnt good at responding to email. ok.... so, how do i talk to him about deep stuff? i know it's there, but why does he keep me on the surface? how DO you talk to a fish??? as a leo, i am pretty blunt and outgoing, and not the queen of subtle insinuation...

from the reading 2 fish gave me, there was something about maybe he is too close and worries i will criticize...yet, he ADORES discussing fishing or traveling. or old times, old girlfriends...

he leaves tomorrow for his canada trip. wonder if he'll call me from the airport again. i found that to be very hurtful/sweet when he called me from the miami airport just 2 hours away from flying to ecuador. i mean, hello! you are going to see a GIRL and have lots of sex with her...so why you callin ME?

I should ask him for his birth time before he leaves. do a chart on him and see what we have in common.

posted November 22, 2005 09:07 AM         

I am a Scorp and I understand. I have a best friend she is a scorp and sometimes it's difficult to talk to Pisces when they are far and when they say they aren't good at replying e-mails. It's true. They just don't know what to talk.I know when I would be all chatty and would write a really long e-mail what I would get is really short e-mail but if they are your frineds I have found they don't forget birthdays adn any time that they shared with you.

One Pisces guy who is my friend on my birthday just e-mailed me saying that on this day we were at this place and nothing more.
It meant that we had a good time on that day and he is missing that.
Maybe one year back I didn't even cared that we were together and had
romantic night.Now when I see there was something he was trying to say.
I e-mailed him back with emotional and telling him that we had really good night that day and I missed him.

Make your fish comfortable on talking about anything and you wouldn't judge them. I guess some efforts from side would be needed.

They always wait for someone to e-mail them.

Hey...anytime of the day talk about the intense and deep stuff. On phone..on e-mails and I don't think so Fish would ever run away from that.He would listen though he would talk less.They are good listeners.I know it feels that you are talking and he doesn't respond but as long as he is sticking and there he is yours. Even if he is e-mailing you back and forth it means in their sense they like you.

I said "that was pretty funny you saying that after you read my email where i said we could just be 'friends".

He migt have thought that you questioning agin and would have avoid the confrontation by laughing. Just my thought.