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nannyfish
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posted November 25, 2005 05:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nannyfish     Edit/Delete Message
I just my composite with my Virgo first love for the first time. All these years later and now it all makes sense

Composite Horoscope midpoint method
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Libra 15°04'33 10
Moon Scorpio 01°08'57 11
Mercury Libra 22°16'14 11
Venus Virgo 09°35'10 09
Mars Leo 28°16'33 09
Jupiter Gemini 08°11'04 07
Saturn Sagittarius 26°40'11 01
Uranus Leo 17°59'19 09
Neptune Scorpio 04°51'11 11
Pluto Virgo 04°45'41 09
True Node Aries 12°59'53 04


HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Sagittarius 07°31'16
2nd House Capricorn 09°19'31
3rd House Aquarius 15°02'56
Imum Coeli Pisces 20°00'00
5th House Aries 20°14'45
6th House Taurus 15°29'55
Descendant Gemini 07°31'16
8th House Cancer 09°19'31
9th House Leo 15°02'56
Medium Coeli Virgo 20°00'00
11th House Libra 20°14'45
12th House Scorpio 15°29'55


Sun in the Tenth House

A relationship with composite Sun in the tenth house is likely to be a significant one.

First of all, this position indicates that the two of you have an identity of purpose in your lives together, or at least that you are able to help each other attain the goals you have set for yourselves. Obviously this position is particularly useful for a business or professional relationship, but it is also very important in a personal relationship. If this relationship goes anywhere at all, it will have a strong effect on your life purpose.

Since the tenth is also the house of status, some couples may become excessively concerned with how they look to others while ignoring serious emotional problems that may be destroying the relationship.

Even so, this placement is a good indication of an important relationship, one in which you will find a strong identity of life purpose and direction, which will enable you to work well together.


Sun Conjunct Mercury

The conjunction of composite Sun and Mercury signifies that there will be a great deal of mental activity in this relationship. This aspect is good for verbal communication between you.

You both should be wary of the tendency to intellectualize your emotions rather than deal with them at the gut level.

You have an unusual similarity of thinking, or at least a better than average ability to understand each other's thinking.

Mercury is a planet of travel, not always in the literal sense of the word, but in the metaphorical sense; that is, you like to be continually exposed to new ideas and experiences together.

One of the most positive attributes of this aspect is the ability to be detached from what you are discussing. Because of this detachment you may even be able to talk about your relationship and arrive at understandings that will help you both to get more out of it.


Moon in the Eleventh House

You have a strong feeling of shared goals and objectives in life, which will contribute to your ability to get along with each other. You will spontaneously think of yourselves as a unit rather than as two separate individuals.

You will be fond of company and enjoy sharing good times with others. Many factors in your lives together will support your relationship in a friendly way without any special effort on your part.

In general this is one of the better positions for a personal relationship and should enable you to share both love and friendship.


Moon Conjunct Neptune

With the conjunction of Moon and Neptune in your composite chart, you both should be very careful to understand the true nature of your relationship. It is not necessarily a bad relationship; in fact, it might be extremely beautiful and high-minded.

This aspect signifies the highest evolution of emotional and spiritual idealism. What you both want is a complete union of two souls in a cosmic oneness. The difficulty is that you may think you have achieved this state when you haven't. You must be very careful to find out what the truth is.

On the other hand, you must try not to fall into the trap of making excessive and unrealistic demands on the spiritual quality of your relationship. You both must accept your frail humanity as you try to relate to each other.

If you succeed in striking the balance between these two extremes, you may be able to build an extremely high and spiritual kind of relationship.

It is difficult to make a sexual relationship live up to this Moon-Neptune idealism, but it is worthwhile to try to spiritualize your sexuality without denying its physicalness.


Venus in the Ninth House

With composite Venus in the ninth house, love and affection tend to be intellectual issues that are discussed and pondered over rather than felt.

There is a danger that you may overintellectualize your feelings in this relationship.

However, in compensation, you both examine the nature of your feelings and are more capable than most people of understanding what you mean to each other.

The experience of this relationship may also make both of you see more clearly and become more aware of the world around you. Venus in the ninth house can signify love as an agent of consciousness expansion.


Venus Conjunct Pluto

Venus conjunct Pluto in the composite chart signifies the power of love as a transforming agent. In this relationship, whether it is a friendship or a love affair, you are seeking something more than love in the ordinary sense. Consequently, everything about your being together becomes extremely important.

In a sexual relationship, physical lovemaking is approached with an intensity that can make the experience very powerful and beautiful.

At any rate this is not likely to be a casual relationship. You will be intensely involved with each other. Love can be transformed into a power struggle if one or both of you tries to use the relationship as a tool for manipulating the other. The victim is powerless to do anything about it, and a strange love-hate tension is set up. When such a situation finally explodes, it can be disastrous.

Obviously this is not a relationship to play with. You must enter into it with serious intentions of making something good of it. You will both have great power over each other, so use it well.


Jupiter Opposition Ascendant

This aspect signifies that the two of you have come together as a team for mutual growth. This growth can happen in either or both of two distinct ways.

The first manifestation of the Jupiter energy is on the psychological and spiritual level. Here the position of Jupiter signifies that you will nurture and support each other through all kinds of adversity and that you will share in the high points of each other's life as well. Both of you will grow in awareness and understanding of yourselves and the world. No matter what happens to the relationship, you both will see it as a positive experience.

The second level of manifestation is material. This aspect signifies that your relationship is likely to be quite prosperous.

One of the most fortunate attributes of this relationship is that the two of you will give each other room to breathe. You do not find it necessary to be possessive, because you are basically confident about each other and about your feelings.

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nannyfish
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posted November 25, 2005 06:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nannyfish     Edit/Delete Message
This is the guy I saw walking down the stairs in college and ended up sitting at the same desk as (another thread).

The tragedy is that he was already committed to woman when we met---I didn't know this. A year into our relationship, he moved to another city and got married to the other woman. He told me about it in a letter. Needless to say, I was devastated. But I had to move on--eventually.

We remained friends for years--he sent me a birthday card every year and we talked once a week. 3 years ago, about a year after I had met and fell in love with a new man, he killed himself. His wife wrote me with the news. Weirdest thing was 5 monthes before he killed himself, he came to the town I was living in and we tried to get together, but couldn't. I feel like he was trying see me for the last time.

His death did succeed in f*cking my life for awhile..relationship disaster and things... But I am back from it and better than ever

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sue g
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posted November 25, 2005 06:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
No words could describe how your post made me feel Nannyfish......

Just want to say how much I admire your courage and plutonian strength.....God bless you girl......he must be looking at you now and thinking....Jeez what a woman !!!

Love to you.....

xxx

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Peri
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posted November 25, 2005 06:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message
What a sad story

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nannyfish
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posted November 25, 2005 06:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nannyfish     Edit/Delete Message
This might be all my sag talking, but it all worked out for the best. I am stronger than ever, think fondly about him, far more humble (seriously ) and am thankful for having gone through an experience that shaped my soul and my mind. Not a bad result!

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cancerrg
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posted November 25, 2005 09:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cancerrg     Edit/Delete Message
salute your guts for u could come out of it !

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