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sdg1844
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From: New York, NY, USA
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posted November 27, 2005 04:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sdg1844     Edit/Delete Message

Hey Knowflakes:

Have you ever found yourself loving someone and connecting w/them on so many incredible levels and yet when the 2 of you come together in a relationship, you ultimately implode?!

I had a relationship like this and we adored each other, but I tell you the fights, arguments, love and passion became so intense that we had nowhere to go but down!

Anyone feel me on this one? :sigh::

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Before you speak, ask yourself, is it kind, is it necessary, is it true, does it improve on the silence?
-Sai Baba

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Jools
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posted November 28, 2005 07:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jools     Edit/Delete Message
Do you and him have mars oppose sun in your charts? I blame that. The energy is so intense that the slightest comment can ignite into a brawl, when really what is needed is a "private moment" together. If you know what I mean.

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sdg1844
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posted November 28, 2005 06:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sdg1844     Edit/Delete Message

LOL....hysterical. there was a Mars/Venus conjunction, a sun pluto square one way and a sun/pluto trine the other.

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Before you speak, ask yourself, is it kind, is it necessary, is it true, does it improve on the silence?
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sthenri
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posted November 29, 2005 01:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
sdg, the pluto square is one I am familiar with and it will give a lot of intensity and arguments to the relationship. There is mainly competition that has to be dealt with, that is one person has to be less selfish and give in to the other. There may be matters of work, or recognition for one bothering the other. Being close day to day really helps rather than bottling up all the emotions once in a while.

Mundane activities are good for you two.
I have this aspect with my mother, of all people so I know it's hard.
She and I only do not fight when we live close together and I submit to seeing her or calling her on scheduled basis. She has to have that control. She can also drive me to tears or anger in about five minutes so we both must respect each other.

If one is not respecting the other than it's best to negotiate some physical space, but still communicate and stay in touch.

It's childish to fight that way but it's really just an intense energy that both of you want to use and access at the same time. It's as if you are joint owners of a house and want to decorate your way. One has to give in to the other and be secure that his or her time will come.

There are rewards, you two could build a house together, start a business, motivate each other physically.

Natasha
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sdg1844
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posted November 29, 2005 07:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sdg1844     Edit/Delete Message

Natasha - Thanks for sharing with me. Luckily this relationship is past tense and we've both moved on. The level of immaturity was certainly high and that's one of the reasons it had to go.

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Before you speak, ask yourself, is it kind, is it necessary, is it true, does it improve on the silence?
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sue g
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posted November 29, 2005 08:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
Love way always VERY bad for my health until I met my Virgo man.....sixteen years ago.

Oh dear I almost let it ruin me a times I did...but looking back it was something I had to go thro....and fortunately I survived it without too many cuts and bruises (figuratively speaking)....

And now....its a lot easier.....but at times...I am still my OWN worst enemy.....I blame my intense and passionate birthchart for that of course.....hahahahahha....

xxx

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sdg1844
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posted November 29, 2005 01:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sdg1844     Edit/Delete Message

Sue - I hear ya! There are certain ppl who can push your buttons more than others and he was it. I tricked myself into believeing that I was this "reasonable" woman. LOL

He made me realize that I'm not really. LOL

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Before you speak, ask yourself, is it kind, is it necessary, is it true, does it improve on the silence?
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pixelpixie
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posted November 29, 2005 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
Maybe it is my Capricorn Moon in the sixth..
When I am uncertain, when I have issues and unsettledness with love, I get sick. Physically sick.
If I can't make up my mind, I know I am in for headaches, stomachaches, body aches, sore throats...
It really quite sucks.
I hate having the power to hurt, myself and others.
Vacation time.

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