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Mama Mia
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posted November 30, 2005 12:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
What do you do when you feel deep love intense passion for someone and you also feel the flip side of that for that same person. There really is a thin line..

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sue g
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posted November 30, 2005 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
Embrace it......as best you can......

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Isolaede
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posted November 30, 2005 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isolaede     Edit/Delete Message
Yes it truly is a thin line Ė do you and this person share some rather stressful Mars oppositions or squares? Iíve experienced this kind of crazy intense passion / hate flip flop before and personally I found it exhausting. At this point in my life, when I get those crazy vibes I tend to turn tail and run. Iím not saying thatís what you should do but my current partner has taught me that itís possible to have passion AND peace at the same time. I was seriously beginning to doubt it but heís showed me that not every relationship has to be one of extremes and darn it I LIKE it. If you are someone that yearns for serenity Mia, then hold out for it. Donít persist in a relationship that will keep you constantly on edge. Now if you are someone that likes a little spiceÖ hahaÖ then sit back, relax and enjoy the ride! : )

On a side note - I'm not aware of what your current relationship situation is, Mia. If your in a long standing relationship maybe you are just feeling the effects of the Mars/ Mercury in retro? With both of those wacky planets in their current configuration you might be feeling some extremes of emotion, not to mention feel pretty distant from your partner. Just step back, take a look, and ask yourself if this is a passing instance, or a long term trend. Then ask yourself if you LIKE the fire in your relationship? Seriously there's something to be said for mad passionate extremes. Some people thrive on them. I'm far to much of a water/earth baby - I need my peace and serenity.

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sthenri
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posted December 02, 2005 08:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
That thin line is when one person feels the passon and the other does go along for the ride-so to weed out the bad ones, practice your emotional responses-if you see that kind of emotion as past-and he or she gets upset with you-then that person wants the upsets because he or she is bored with their life.

The best way to deal with someone like that is to run in the other direction when or she or he comes near and say that's that-

There is always more passion out there that doesn't come at a price-and when you leave a person like that along, he or she is their own worst enemy.

Good Luck, Mama Mia,
don't be a doormat to your emotions, practice situations.

Natasha

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Lauren
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posted December 04, 2005 12:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lauren     Edit/Delete Message
"The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference". I think thatÔŅĹs very accurate.. hate and love are very similar and you can bounce back and forth between them..

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sthenri
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posted December 06, 2005 01:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
Hate is okay, it's when you feel guilty that it gets bad for you.

Mama Mia if you are being angry it's meant to be. Anger can be very cleansing of all the bad feelings and then when you are done it can feel as if you are ready to start over. When we are mad at our friends, we exhaust ourselves, but then we forgive. So in many cases I have found getting really angry and going with that feeling has been a good experience.

Don't feel guilty whatever you do.

Take care of yourself,
Natasha

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Swerve
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posted December 07, 2005 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Swerve     Edit/Delete Message
Feeling misunderstood can make you feel like you are in a Hell masquerading as Heaven.

I always think being honest is the solution to any misunderstanding. But, you need both parties to be able to do this.

Sometimes the "victim" can appear to the other as the perpetrator.

Compassion and words can be so underrated.
But, of course, it depends on the situation.

Swerve

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