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Topic: Thin line between love and hate..
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Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 1937
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted November 30, 2005 12:52 PM
 
What do you do when you feel deep love intense passion for someone and you also feel the flip side of that for that same person. There really is a thin line.. IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8591
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted November 30, 2005 01:59 PM
Embrace it......as best you can......  xxx IP: Logged |
Isolaede
Knowflake Posts: 330
From: Studio City, CA
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted November 30, 2005 03:25 PM
Yes it truly is a thin line – do you and this person share some rather stressful Mars oppositions or squares? I’ve experienced this kind of crazy intense passion / hate flip flop before and personally I found it exhausting. At this point in my life, when I get those crazy vibes I tend to turn tail and run. I’m not saying that’s what you should do but my current partner has taught me that it’s possible to have passion AND peace at the same time. I was seriously beginning to doubt it but he’s showed me that not every relationship has to be one of extremes and darn it I LIKE it. If you are someone that yearns for serenity Mia, then hold out for it. Don’t persist in a relationship that will keep you constantly on edge. Now if you are someone that likes a little spice… haha… then sit back, relax and enjoy the ride! : ) On a side note - I'm not aware of what your current relationship situation is, Mia. If your in a long standing relationship maybe you are just feeling the effects of the Mars/ Mercury in retro? With both of those wacky planets in their current configuration you might be feeling some extremes of emotion, not to mention feel pretty distant from your partner. Just step back, take a look, and ask yourself if this is a passing instance, or a long term trend. Then ask yourself if you LIKE the fire in your relationship? Seriously there's something to be said for mad passionate extremes. Some people thrive on them. I'm far to much of a water/earth baby - I need my peace and serenity.  IP: Logged |
sthenri
Moderator Posts: 4452
From: Generic New England City
Registered: May 2003
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posted December 02, 2005 08:50 AM
That thin line is when one person feels the passon and the other does go along for the ride-so to weed out the bad ones, practice your emotional responses-if you see that kind of emotion as past-and he or she gets upset with you-then that person wants the upsets because he or she is bored with their life.The best way to deal with someone like that is to run in the other direction when or she or he comes near and say that's that- There is always more passion out there that doesn't come at a price-and when you leave a person like that along, he or she is their own worst enemy. Good Luck, Mama Mia,
don't be a doormat to your emotions, practice situations. Natasha
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Lauren
Knowflake Posts: 1158
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Registered: Aug 2005
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posted December 04, 2005 12:04 AM
"The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference". I think that�s very accurate.. hate and love are very similar and you can bounce back and forth between them..IP: Logged |
sthenri
Moderator Posts: 4452
From: Generic New England City
Registered: May 2003
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posted December 06, 2005 01:18 AM
Hate is okay, it's when you feel guilty that it gets bad for you.Mama Mia if you are being angry it's meant to be. Anger can be very cleansing of all the bad feelings and then when you are done it can feel as if you are ready to start over. When we are mad at our friends, we exhaust ourselves, but then we forgive. So in many cases I have found getting really angry and going with that feeling has been a good experience. Don't feel guilty whatever you do. Take care of yourself,
Natasha
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Swerve
Knowflake Posts: 1191
From: London
Registered: Nov 2002
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posted December 07, 2005 02:57 PM
Feeling misunderstood can make you feel like you are in a Hell masquerading as Heaven.I always think being honest is the solution to any misunderstanding. But, you need both parties to be able to do this. Sometimes the "victim" can appear to the other as the perpetrator. Compassion and words can be so underrated.
But, of course, it depends on the situation. Swerve IP: Logged |
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