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Topic: My so sad Scorpion
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Sirona
Knowflake Posts: 3
From: Oregon
Registered: Dec 2005
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posted December 11, 2005 05:22 PM
 
My husband is really stressed out. In the last few years things have gone really really wrong for us and we are at our breaking point. Right now I am out of work due to my quickly degenerating health and am uninsurable so all his income is going to my doctors and our storage we had to leave half way across the country. We are currently living with his parents with nothing but our clothing and it is really drainning him to be in this environment. He is really hurting himself by holding on to all this stress and I can find no relief for him. I am very concerned. Does anyone know how to destress a Scorpio? I really need some help for him!IP: Logged |
Swerve
Knowflake Posts: 343
From: London
Registered: Nov 2002
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posted December 11, 2005 05:30 PM
Gently lead him to place where he discovers "himself" the true plight of his personal situation. Guide him to stare his fears in the face. This should galvanise his self-defense mechanisms and bring about a revolution within him.It will be stormy at first as the realisation of what he has become sets in. He has lost touch with his own powers of regeneration and transformation, but they are as natural to him as breathing. You know him best. Figure out what will motivate him to start this journey. But never let him know you were solely responsible. That will make him feel weak and powerless and he may come to unfairly resent you for it. You must have a faultless strategy to get this intitiated. But then watch the grey lizard metamorph into an Eagle. He will do the rest himself, and he won't stop until its done, especially with your unwavering support behind him and him knowing that. He has the power within him to drag you from the Pit into the skies. Good luck, and its nice to see you love him so much to have the courage to ask such a thing. Swerve IP: Logged |
sthenri
Moderator Posts: 3807
From: Generic New England City
Registered: May 2003
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posted December 14, 2005 07:12 AM
Sirona, I am sorry to hear this about your situation. What is your chart like, and what kind of support are you two getting?Hugs,
Natasha
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nannyfish
Knowflake Posts: 188
From: England
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted December 14, 2005 08:00 AM
I don't know about other Scorps, but when I get into one of those moods, the very best thing for me is to get outside. Feel freedom for a few hours. Look at nature and think. Also, it might help if you remind your Scorp about all the things he's good at because he might be feeling like a total failure right now. A little reminder of his good qualities could help alot. Good luck. IP: Logged |
Sirona
Knowflake Posts: 3
From: Oregon
Registered: Dec 2005
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posted December 14, 2005 02:05 PM
I have not had my chart done. Right now we are waiting for his job to promote him so we can be a little more stable and I start manupulations to improve my health on the 20th. I am not looking forward to them because they are quite painful. Also I'm speaking with another naturopath about injections that will also be rather painful, I believe. I am not able to work and due to family hardships there is not a lot of help for us monetarily but lots of good thoughts. We also face alot of resistance because I have never done well healthwise and am burdening his family right now. It is hard to move right now because we don't have the means but I must make it happen soon for we will not be welcome much longer. I am seeking a sit down job with no labor involved. I have no experience and it proves to be a difficult job to find. My husband is not happy I am looking he is greatly worried about my health getting worst but I feel I have no other choice. It is this that I cannot change that stresses him so. We have good friends that try to put a smile on our face but it is so hard right now to be happy. I am a Sag so I think I am fairing better than my husband I just wish I could share my feelings with him to take away the worry. I know in time it will all turn out, it always has before, but he feels time is running out to get organized. Time does run to fast but I have always found a way before. Thank you all for your replies. He means the world to me and to see him this upset about things I can't help destroys me. My poor gray lizard is learning to be an eagle but he has had such set backs in life he does not believe in himself anymore. I need to find how to let him look through my eyes to see the wonderful person he is. Thank you again for your support and good thoughts. IP: Logged |
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