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Topic: A piece of the pie
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sthenri
Moderator Posts: 3917
From: Generic New England City
Registered: May 2003
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posted January 08, 2006 06:20 PM
 
Hint, when you want to know if someone is your soulmate. Have a piece of the pie, not the whole thing. Have a bite, a taste, a nibble here and there. You will know if she or he is the one. Trust me.Take Care
Natasha
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zoso
Knowflake Posts: 594
From: Arizona
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 08, 2006 06:27 PM
Yum, yum! But let's say it's cheesecake instead of pie, hmmm????IP: Logged |
marsconjunctmercury
Knowflake Posts: 123
From: United Kindom
Registered: Dec 2005
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posted January 08, 2006 07:14 PM
"Mmmmm.....pie..."
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pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 2722
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted January 09, 2006 01:42 AM
words of wisdom!Homer had some too, but I was talking about our resident STHenri! IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
Knowflake Posts: 725
From:
Registered: Apr 2005
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posted January 09, 2006 01:54 PM
*** But let's say it's cheesecake instead of pie, hmmm? ***
.. add strawberries 'n icecream ..
.. hey .. cheesecake be better than cornish pasty ..i'm going to nibble untill i find a fruity pecan pie ... 
.. i can see it down at the local ... .. " excuse me luv .. but i've heard said that in order to find ones soulmate .. lots of nibbling be required .. so would you mind if I were to .. ? " .. etc .. residential wisdom be a cornerstone of civilisation .. .. and ones' sanity .. IP: Logged |
themysteryclub
Knowflake Posts: 16
From: Narnia
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted January 09, 2006 04:04 PM
Do you mean that one should share the pie with the person in question?Or do you mean that one should have a peice of pie when thinking about the person? thanks! Themysteryclub IP: Logged |
Isolaede
Knowflake Posts: 202
From: Studio City, CA
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted January 09, 2006 06:29 PM
I think Natasha is speaking in a figurative sense. Like try the person out slowly and see if he/she "feels" right. Now my question is... how does one know for sure? Even after tasting those first few nibbles? It was easy to KNOW things when I was young, but now that I’m older and jaded I find it harder to have faith in absolute soulmates. When I was young I “KNEW” for a time that I’d found my soulmate. I dated this man for seven years but it just didn’t work.I do KNOW that when I’m in the arms of the man I’m currently dating I feel utterly safe and at home in a way I’ve never felt before. But there are times when I also feel so far away. When I’m going through one of my Cancerian wet blanket spells, he tends to pull away emotionally and physically and in those moments I fear things won’t work. But I keep reminding myself that even with your “soulmate” there will be moments of vexation and grief. You will still have to learn to dance with one another – you’ll still step on one another’s toes until you figure out the steps. I tend to look at the times my Cancer isn’t there for me emotionally as times where we haven’t learned how to dance with one another. Is it possible for someone that’s loved and lost one “soulmate” already to truly “know” another soulmate again –without any doubts?
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sthenri
Moderator Posts: 3917
From: Generic New England City
Registered: May 2003
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posted January 09, 2006 07:21 PM
Well, I would weigh it out, how many times are there doubts? Was it great at the start or were there always doubts? If it's always been good right from the start the chances are good.Part of is, that if you are nibbling and you feel it's enough, and don't feel the need to dwelve further, it's a good thing. If you feel you must get deeper, then it's not insecurity you are feeling, it's wondering about the future. Don't worry! If it's constant that you feel the nibble is not enough, then it's not fulfilling. When I get a nibble and it's NEVER enough, I know it's time to let go. There has to be a decision made at some point in order to make the other be secure. If he or she feels you are constantly tasting it's an issue right? Taste like it, or don't like it, but don't reach for the intimacy if you are fulfilled. I notice when I reach for my partner out of insecurity, or when I am already happy, just testing it makes him unhappy. Ask him patiently but firmly why he is moving away from you when you reach for him, the answer will be truth at that moment. Does that help?
I got this phrase from a counselor at a teen center who got a lot of girls being pressured for sex with their b/f's and didn't know what to do. They never thought about saying No, so they would say later. My friend said to say, I just want a piece of the pie, not the WHOLE thing because I am happier that way. It's an easier way to say No thanks, I'm full, plus it makes nibbling much sweeter when you are hungry. It's something she would say. She was a bright woman who I miss and she helped a lot of young immature girls including myself:> The first time she told me this I was with my ex b/f and she could tell I wasn't happy with him, shortly after that I realized we were not in love as I was never fulfilled by just being with him. Natasha
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