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posted January 13, 2006 04:54 AM         

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Sorry for invading this beautiful place with my sensitive emotions. I need an outlet. I can't show my vulnerability anywhere else but here.
I am often passed off as rude because of my detached nature. They dont know how deep I feel. How deep I get hurt.

My heart is cut and bleeding... This time by a Virgo. By his lies to get me. I went half way and then got struck in sticky lies... He hid some important info from me which would have repelled me long ago.

Now wants to be "friends with benefits" and I am not ready. Im sorry boy I hurted you but I wanted to dishearten you from contacting me again

My Gemini friend said "Why dont you take a break from loving these men. Every time I talk with you, you are stressed out. Its like one man toss your heart to another man and it goes on. Don't you have self respect? I am worried for you. Take a break and think twice before believing any guy again"

Wise words.. I need to take a break. I need time for these wounds to cure before letting anyone open them again.

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From: CT,USA
Registered: Nov 2004

posted January 13, 2006 06:16 AM         

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hey sweet libra.Im a libra too with lots of scorpio so I understand what you're talking about.Everytime I fall in love,I know its just gonna end up like last time...so i avoid doing anything about the way i feel (might be my venus virgo 29 degrees) and i try to not fall in love.But somehow I always start drifting back into a relationship.Then when it doesnt work out,I am devastated,I feel like a failure and I promise to myself that ill never date again!Its a big cycle...
But yeah I agree taking some time off would do alot of great things for you.Ive always found the most spiritually enlightening times were when I was single and not looking.Spend a little more time with Nature.Its gotten me through a lot of hard times..just sitting with the trees.

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From: New York, USA
Registered: Feb 2005

posted January 13, 2006 09:29 AM         

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Sweet Libra and the big liza ~~

I too am a Libra. I agree with your Gem friend you need to give your self some time to heal in between these relationships. If you're like me in not living in hollywood with lots of $$$$, you can't just pick yourself up and move on (from a libra perspective). If I had lots of $$$ I wouldn't care if I was hurt at the moment cause I'd say hey f*ck I'm rich. Eventually the Libra in me would want another relationship. It's a freakin cycle man. Sorry for rambling on...but the best thing you can do is just give yourself some time. Take care of you first and before you enter into another relationship go slow. I know because I just got burnt too by male libra no less. Love sucks sometimes...but it's better to have loved than not at all.

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posted January 13, 2006 11:01 AM         

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O

please feel free
to bleed away

sweet libra

time will
heal

and you
will feel

somewhat
better

soon

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From: London
Registered: Nov 2002

posted January 13, 2006 02:35 PM         

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I'm kind of here at the moment too.

I have decided that I will make sure I am evaluating people properly before getting involved.

I have had a tendency to not bother for a while, get lonely and then jump at the chance of a connection without testing it thoroughly.

I found this page where you can set yourself a screening test for all potential partners, and this can change as you do, so that you are aiming in the right direction for what you are truly looking for.

Here's the link:
http://www.loveadvice.com/ARTICLES/WISHLIST.HTM

Good luck sweet libra

Swerve

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From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005

posted January 14, 2006 01:58 PM         

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This place has bandages and wound cleaning words... also occasionally some colloidal silver!

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posted January 17, 2006 06:00 AM         

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feeling better now. Thank God,I am too busy to think about him..

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