posted January 24, 2006 06:49 AM         

Is it possible? I never thought that I now 34 could attract a guy even at my age, not talking of this one 8 yrs younger? Funny ha!
We¡¦ve known for 1year 1/2. The first day that we were introduced by my husband (yes married so is he), we did get along fine, just like sister and brother, he liked to hang around with me like a sister to confine in, and I adored him like a caring brother. And I was looking forward to see him at a bar on weekends with my husband and their friends (They¡¦ve known for less then 2 years). I¡¦m the type of Taurus that like hanging around with boys instead of girls, more fun and interesting, so when we¡¦re out at bars the rules for us are equal, and I like this way, no nonsense for being a lady. Last month I was upset with my husband, after he left the bar, I talked with this scorp, I told him a bit about our problems that I hadn¡¦t told anyone¡K¡K.. So the following weekend we¡¦re out at the bar as usual, I felt something unsual about him, he just wasn¡¦t acting the same, we usually sit side by side, but that weekend wherever I sit he would sit across me, than during games, giggles, chats, confusions, his eyes would cross mine and stare for a few seconds, this lasted for the whole night, and I reciprocated. I don¡¦t know why? So, it continued for the several times when we were at the bar and a dinner party. But then, he didn¡¦t appear for 3 weekends(when he know I¡¦d be around, cause weekdays he¡¦d call my husband, days that I¡¦m in), I know he feels something¡¦s wrong and so do I, but this last weekend he came out, and he still sits across and stares occasionly. And that¡¦s all between us. We both know what¡¦s between us, but need not to say a word, and we dare not to move a step forward, at least me Taurus can¡¦t stop thinking of the consequences. It sounds scary to me. But he¡¦s so sweet, and his eyes!

Positions and Data for K:
Sun position is 9 deg. 08 min. of Scorpio
Moon position is 10 deg. 55 min. of Aries
Mercury position is 2 deg. 32 min. of Sagittarius
Venus position is 27 deg. 06 min. of Scorpio
Mars position is 21 deg. 25 min. of Leo
Jupiter position is 5 deg. 53 min. of Virgo
Saturn position is 23 deg. 25 min. of Virgo
Uranus position is 20 deg. 33 min. of Scorpio
Neptune position is 18 deg. 46 min. of Sagittarius
Pluto position is 19 deg. 55 min. of Libra
Asc. position is 23 deg. 21 min. of Capricorn
MC position is 6 deg. 45 min. of Scorpio
2nd cusp position is 29 deg. 01 min. of Aquarius
3rd cusp position is 5 deg. 07 min. of Aries
5th cusp position is 3 deg. 28 min. of Gemini
6th cusp position is 27 deg. 49 min. of Gemini
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 04:00:00
Time Zone: 8 hours East. Lat & Long: 22 N 14 113 E 35

posted January 25, 2006 08:40 AM         

Taurus women can seem prone to age disparities. Many of them look for men much older than they are, but then often find themselves turned around and suddenly drawn to males considerably younger than themselves.

And Scorpios seem to love to go along with it. I've been attracted to older women. And I, like many Scorpios, have a healthy obsession with Taurus women.

And if he's anything like myself, I'm sure his Venus in Scorpio does even more to amplify his pull towards you.

There was also a topic that started here a while back that had to do with the beauty of Venus in Pisces women.

All things considered, I have no doubt that he is very attracted to you.

And the extra-marital thing makes it feel forbidden, and Taurus and Scorpio can be about as masochistic as the zodiac gets. What is your marriage like? Any idea what his is like?

posted January 25, 2006 08:58 AM         

Wow, that all sounds pretty wild.

Opposed Suns, opposed Ascendants and a conjunct fiery Aries Moon could really be disastrous in the long run.

posted January 25, 2006 09:35 AM         

.. that user ID is just Asking for .. 'silly cow' ..
no offense on that .. but 'silly bull' .. in my case ..
don't quite have the ring to it .. (:-))

there are a fair ammount of synastry connections
to make you feel at home in each others company ..
ie. if you feel like bro and sis ..

.. the synastry explains the attraction ..
.. you can find 'synastry' info thru the astrology forum ..
.. the gals are always on about it ..
(ooo .. his mars conjoins my whatever .. are we fated lovers? .. etc etc )
.. so plenty of info to be had there ..
.. think there's a recent thread on the subject ..

don't be like a puppet on a string to the astro energies ..
(Generaly speaking that is .. not commenting on yer scenario )

posted January 25, 2006 09:48 AM         

your Saturn placement
**Saturn position is 22 deg. 49 min. of Taurus**

a note to think about re your scenario with hubby
and young attraction ............

posted January 25, 2006 10:16 AM         

transiting Pluto is now 25.42 Sag.
that is a few degrees off squaring your natal Venus ..
that is a BIG transit ..

i can see your attraction 'overtaking' you somehow ..
it will probably (i.e. your 'love' emotions ) intensify ..
expect to experience 'intensity' in both love and hate ..

research .. "transiting Pluto square to natal Venus" ..
as it will be effecting you untill at least Dec 2008 ..
that is when it reaches exact .. square to your natal Venus

don't forget .. Venus is ruler of Taurus ...
be careful of what or whom you desire ..
stay in control .....

and with tPluto and tSaturn in the picture ..
Do watch that good old Taurean Temper

some :
***Astro Help***
http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/A.F.L.G.html

good for 'aspect' information .. maybe transits as well .. : http://www.cafeastrology.com
http://astro.com http://www.aquarianage.org http://astrologyweekly.com/learn-astrology http://www.horoscope-x-files.com http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com http://www.astrology-numerology.com/astrology.html

try 'looking' at your chart thru this site: http://www.geocities.com/wilsontctc
http://www.isleofavalon.co.uk/edu/archive/ephem/ea-index.html
http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_transits_e.htm http://www.san.beck.org/Astro.html#1

posted January 25, 2006 10:38 AM         

also .. take into consideration ..

transiting Chiron has been squaring your Sun
since May 2005 ...
it has now passed 'exact' .. but .. will return
to within 1 degree in Sept. 2006

think how you have felt since last May ...

Chiron transits .. can .. lead to feeling as
if one is on the shelf .. so to speak ..
probably easily hurt on the emotional front
its not an easy transit to get thru ..

And .. it has been effecting your Sun ..
anything that hits the natal Sun usualy
is felt at the very core of ones being ..

CHIRON in astrology ... info ..
http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_chiron_e.htm
http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_wounding_e.htm
http://www.martinlass.com/healhand.htm
http://www.martinlass.com/chiron.htm

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( from another. post) : ... regarding Transits .. as in short explanation ..

.. the planets .. as they move arround the zodiac circle, make 'aspects' to the planetary positions set at the time of birth (i.e. the birth chart ) .. .. .. 'aspects' .. are the geometric angles separating the planets around the zodiac .. so transiting aspects are just like the ones found within the chart ( conjunctions, squares, oppositions, trines, sextiles .. etc ) and as the transiting planet moves .. so does the angle change to any given natal planet or placement .. or in other words the transit aspect 'builds up' .. then 'eases off' .. over time ..

transits of mars , mercury, venus are relatively short .. a few days .. extended if the planet in question goes retrograde .. those are sometimes known as the 'Personal' planets .. or 'Inner planets'

the transits of the 'outer' planets be somewhat different .. Jupiter, Saturn, Neptune, Uranus and Pluto move relatively slow .. Jupiter has a 12 yr cycle (cycle .. as in once around the zodiac circle ) .. Saturn 28 yr .. Neptune 110yrs .. Uranus about 80 yrs .. and lilltle ol' Pluto .. a couple of hundred yrs or so .. .. .. .. it be the Outer planets .. in particular when they aspect a Personal placement/planet .. that seem to give folk the hardest or best of times ( in terms of astrological transits and ppl reactions to same )

posted January 25, 2006 10:59 AM         

.. just noticed China in the id box ....
was trying to figure some of neat typing accidents ...
i.e. some of the letters come out strange here

just wondered if the chinese astrology gives you much info ..

anyhow .. get to understand your chart and transits ...
re your scenario .. u may want to look at hubbies chart as well ..
... the past transits as well ... mainly the OUTER planets ..
(post birth data if u want .. i.e. not the list .. takes hours
to figure those lists .. placing every planet on the wheel )

given the astro scenario .. i don't think your situation
is going to go away ... in a hurry .. it will probably intensify ..

that is how YOU might see it .. as in the transits are like colored lens ..
to a pair of eyeglasses ...

anyhow .. i've a feeling there will be more posts on the scenario
given the timespan of the transits ...

explanation at 'silly cow' amusement rating .. here ...
in england .. it's a street slang term .. as in 'not very polite to a lady'
basicly it translates into 'silly woman' ...
it is a term heard not too often .....
it gets worse in australia .. there ..
the slang term "the old lady".. can refer to ones 'mother or wife or girlfriend' ...
usualy heard amongnst men .. after a number of beers .. (:-))

posted January 25, 2006 11:11 AM         

I am a Scorpio too and I think Scorpios get along pretty well with Taureans.Whatever you have mentioned like he was staring and looking and all. It makes me feel that's how the relationship between Taurus and Scorpios are.Age would be number and well as I am not very good at reading charts there would be more advice coming up on this forum.

BTW Just wondering if you are in china and Chinese or a Foreigner????

Ni hao !!!! Xin nian huai le !!!!

posted January 25, 2006 11:26 AM         

ok .. i've copied those dates .... thanx ..

i've already got a local gals' chart done ..
she is from Harbin ....
so i will use that as 'place' for now ...
untill an update .. that is

posted January 25, 2006 11:43 AM         

Well I'm not chinese but born here in Macau, somewhere next to Hong Kong.

They're both chinese, and we're all born here.

Hong Kong is a place that used to being govern by british an Macau used to be govern by the portuguese, but both places are returned to China, in 1997 and 1999.

posted January 26, 2006 06:07 AM         

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... One of the best ways to recognize the spiritual dimension of Taurus is to look at the relationship between Taurus and its opposite sign, Scorpio. Opposite zodiac signs might seem totally different, because on a superficial level they are, but at their center, polar signs have the same core. I call Taurus/Scorpio the Axis of "True Being." Technically, Taurus and Scorpio are feminine and fixed signs. One way to describe the purpose of this axis, then, is to go within (feminine) with determination and persistence (fixed), as deeply as one can go. Taurus and Scorpio can be about cutting out the distractions, and "just being" with ourselves and others; when we do this for ourselves we often discover aspects of ourselves that have been hidden, and which need our healing awareness.

One purpose of both Taurus and Scorpio, then, is to meet all aspects of oneself completely and compassionately, like a sitting bull (See note 1, below). A mutual shadow of Taurus and Scorpio (and therefore all of us, since the twelve signs are within us all) is the desire to run away from our deepest emotions by seeking to control things external to us, or to distract ourselves with various addictions. The 2nd House in Vedic astrology, for example, can actually be associated with food and drug addictions. In addition to food, drink, and drug addictions, we also have addictions to spending money, making money, doing, TV, movies, computers, the internet, information, thinking, thrill-seeking, traveling, fame, external validation, romantic relationships, friendships, and sex. None of these things are bad; it is compulsively seeking these things, which distracts us from our deeper selves, which is bad. Taurus and Scorpio face the need to be with, in other words to love, all of oneself so that one can be loving and present for others....

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posted January 31, 2006 05:47 AM         

WHy do you question if a man 8 years younger or even a man your age would find you attractive??? Your age counts for a wealth of experience..