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Topic: I cant be the same
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sweetlibra Knowflake Posts: 960 From: Registered: Oct 2004
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posted February 01, 2006 05:25 AM
After 3 weeks of silence, virgo asked : "Cant you be my same meera?"I can't. something inside me is dead... My mind is too dry for anything to grow now... IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Moderator Posts: 2921 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted February 01, 2006 10:07 AM
It is necessary. I know you'll come out of it, more prepared, more able to receive because you've defined and acted. Good for you. Go ahead and grow. You aren't dry, you're watering your own roots.IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 3843 From: Bisbee, Arizona Registered: May 2002
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posted February 01, 2006 09:16 PM
Ahhh...sweetlibra, Pixie is right, this is the time of reflection. In nature many roots lie dormat during a drought. Once the rains come, the roots will seek the water and the plant / tree will once again be lavish. Give it time honey, it will happen. IP: Logged |
sweetlibra Knowflake Posts: 960 From: Registered: Oct 2004
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posted February 02, 2006 01:18 AM
Thnx Pix U r right, I'm watering my roots now. I am seriously considering to change my career. Something related to public administration. Where I can do something good for the people. It is a tough aim I've set for myself. A long way to go to get somewhere. Good thing is that I have no time for inconsiderate and insensitive men now Awww pidaua No wonder I have all sags around me at this point. I need your wisdom and playfulness I can feel the difference. I am happy to be single for the first time in life IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Moderator Posts: 2921 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted February 02, 2006 01:49 AM
Yeah, you know, I notice a common theme around people, that I can totally relate to.. Growth. Maybe people are always growing, and a common thread runs through, but until you are going through the same thing yourself, sympathy and empathy are shores apart. Now I have empathy.I have redefined relationships the lasy oh I dunno, year(s), it has been the most painful thing I have ever been through, and in doing that ( still) I find nothing that worked before will work anymore.. including work/career... it's like.. now I am opened and different, so to try to fit a blossom into a tiny peat moss cup just defies the laws of reality. And we all must be real. So in a way, growth leads you to new growth, so go ahead and nurture it, with the lessons fresh, and the pain fresh and the joy also fresh. Only good things can come. IP: Logged | |