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Topic: Soulmate...can you hear me?
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rainbowdreamer
Knowflake Posts: 10
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Registered: Jul 2005
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posted February 08, 2006 03:56 PM
 
I am a Scorpio female who has met a Pisces man I have come to believe is my soulmate. The pages in Linda's Love Signs book seem to have been written just for us as it is all hauntingly accurate, especially the part about how when the two meet he gets lost in cool green water when she is unlike the others--so shallow, and when they gaze into each others eyes for the first time, they both know they have fallen in love. I am sure both of us are more than aware of what has happened.I believe we are both afraid to show how we really feel, maybe mostly because he is married, I am not. Maybe the overwhelming feeling is if this does not work out he will have lost something else on top of a marriage he already had. We met at work and do not see each other anywhere outside of work so it makes it a little difficult for us to express any emotion other than our casual hellos. He has a few times tried but I continue to hold my professional stance, even though I do want him to know there is something there. When he tried to ask me what time I was getting off I just made a polite comment and left it at that. I care more deeply about him than I have anyone else in my life and know there is something to this. I believe that sometimes people make the wrong choices(re: his marriage) and this could be something wonderful for both of us. Years have passed between us, I haven't stopped thinking about him but I have no opportunity to see or talk with him as his career path has moved. Unsure of where it comes from but many times I miss him so much that it does hurt me. Anyone have any ideas about how to express my feelings to him besides prayer? IP: Logged |
lllog
Moderator Posts: 1106
From: Springfield MO
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted February 11, 2006 10:11 PM
You might start by asking yourself what growth you experience because of him. All soulmates are not here for long periods of time, some appear only to allow you the opportunity for inner growth, and then leave. To continue to hang on to the memory, indicates that maybe you didn't grow in awareness and understanding. If you had, you would be able to move on. So ask yourself, what growth have I experienced, because of my experience. Lanny IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross
Knowflake Posts: 1876
From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted February 11, 2006 10:18 PM
Hi rainbowdreamer,I'm sorry to hear how much you miss and think of him. I've kind of been there. I dont know of any means to contact him beside the usual. I think, if there was any lesson,
it is that you might have spoken up
when you had the chance
and told him how you felt. Now, you may have to wait until the next life. But, dont sweat it too much.
Whatever is meant to be, will be. And perhaps a connection you cant even imagine is just around the corner. Romeo was obsessed with Rosalind,
before he met Juliet. 
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purple_scorp
Knowflake Posts: 356
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted February 13, 2006 06:32 PM
Lanny, I've never thought about hanging onto a memory as being a sign that you haven't grown from the experience. That's an interesting point you raise. I'm going to give some more thought to that concept.Something that struck me, rainbowdreamer, as I was reading through your post is the fact that he was married. Sometimes soul mates come into our lives just to check that we are doing okay. You don't have to have a romantic relationship with someone to do this. Perhaps, he saw you were doing fine and felt that he didn't need to play any further part in your life. Think of it like a train. At the station, people get on or off the train. Some people might only ride with you for one or two stops. You may wish to sit next to someone, but you can't as that seat is already taken. You will always have in your heart that you shared some of the journey with them but their destination was not to be the same as yours. with love
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