posted February 26, 2006 10:06 AM         

He won't let go and wants to give me his love and life. I believe he wants the fun parts of me because when I am sick or need him he never visits. He says a lot of half truths, such as my son is in town when he just said he's in Hawaii, and my car needs to get fixed. When I meet him, he's with someone else, or has company even though he knew I was coming over.

Then as soon as I leave he calls and wants to talk on the phone or meet me alone again.

I suggested we go somewhere and talk and two months later he got time off work to go to NYC. Now I am not interested anymore because my life has moved on. He stood me up several times telling me I was too argumentative and he wanted to spend time with others. He says I am jealous of his son, and I should be ashamed of it.

I really don't care about his son, it's just that he's not my son. I don't see why he cant' get back together with his ex who lives down the street and he it seems the only thing she doesn't still provide is sex. When I ask him what he has to offer, he says stability, love, but he never stops talking about how I have to put out more and be a good lover to him because he won't put up with that later. I can't even get him to date,

And so he wont' let go.

Anyway I am tempted to email him again but it just continues. He won't stop calling and it's been a year,

Is he a good person or not?