posted March 14, 2006 11:53 AM         

Yeah right.....

Soul connections are more often than not the most painful and tragic of relationships on Gods earth....even if the two concerned are ready to attempt a union, the chances are that one of them (very often the man) will......R U N ........

Just look at what happened to Romeo and Juliet and Kathy and Heathcliffe.......

posted March 14, 2006 11:58 AM         

Bless you MM......

Brave women we are.....for sure......lets just hope our men appreciate this.....

posted March 14, 2006 02:16 PM         

MaMa Mia, the only advice I can give you is be patient. The feeling you have is both a sign and a reason to not let go. As Sue said, it's not always perfect timing for both parties involved; one may be ready and the other is still evolving. I think this happened to us many times, as we called it quits on several occasions. Something just kept pulling us back together..a cord that could not be broken.

Kudos to you for finding your own path to enlightenment..that sounds so cliche', but I believe here it fits. I just think it is wonderful feeling to have someone to share this new person that you on your way of becoming with. Beauty definately is in the soul.

Patience and unwavering love is what it took for my Virgo to have a breakthrough. It was strange how it occured though because I was having a conversation with someone else about very similar things he and I talk about. He sat speechless through this conversation and later on told me that the idea of me being with someone else killed him. I had no way made him believe that I was with someone else. But I think in that moment, he saw a connection that I had with another person and he became scared that what he and I would be lost. After that conversation, things changed. The light in his eyes became more intense. The softness and tenderness in his voice became more apparent. And his touch, OMG..it sends chills up my spine thinking about it. It became so graceful, emotional, senusal, tender....all this from the thought of losing me.

I definately wouldn't recommend trying to incite some sort of jealousy to get a reaction, not that I think anyone would, but what happened happened naturally; through his own natural thought process and was not something that I was even aware of at the time. I think he saw me sharing something with another person that was familar to him and it became very apparent, very quickly what it meant. He had an epiphany of sorts.

And Sue..I am sure that our men do appreicate our bravery. And BTW I love your posts....you have made me laugh hysterically, cry, think, and feel on many different occasions. I'm glad to see that you are still adding your wise words. I just love your point of view. (I feel like a crazed fan.... Honestly, I'm the least pyschotic person I know. At least that's what the voices in my head tell me.)

You guys are all wonderful and deserve the best. Good luck to you all.

posted March 14, 2006 02:56 PM         

I would never try and make him jealous one that is not my style too I don't have to he is already jealous and bc I can see through him I know he is jealous. He tries to hide his jealousy like he tries to hide his feelings but I know, it was designed this way. But he is a Aquarius and they are the ones that are suppose to know everything about you not the other way around. U mention standing butt naked or feeling that way in front of your Virgo well that is how he feels and so do I. I can handle it he can't..

posted March 14, 2006 03:22 PM         

We've definately been through our share of ups and downs. And what was always hard for me was the fact that he interalized everything. I didn't understand why he couldn't vocalize things to clear the air and make things known so there was no gray areas. But after relaxing a bit and just letting things be at their own pace, I found that was his way of protecting himself. He valued logic over emotion. And when you start leading with your heart, things get confusing especially if feeling externally and internally are a foreign thing. He also had no idea what was going on. So sharing his thoughts were not an option because they were incomplete. He is definately a creature of habit and of structure. He tends to compartmentalize everything, which is ok. But this struck him in a way that I don't think fit into any said package. It confused the hell out of both of us for a while. Now, things are easier.

I don't know much about aquas and the way that they relate. My daughter has tons of aqua in her chart and my venus is in aqua. But I do know they are quite the thinkers, so I'm sure you're sending your aqua friend on quite the head trip.

It's really nice though when they start opening up and you feel that first deep breath together...a sigh of relief. Sharing something so phenomenal is beyond words. I hope someday you have it. Patience is the key. Just be who you are and continue to show that you care...nothing breaks down barries as easily as love does.

posted March 14, 2006 04:35 PM         

I understand the internalizeing thing that they do also. he does that and yes he values logic over emotion as well..I do think that I am going to just relax a lil and let it come to me that is all I can do now. He has put distance in between us big time so I cannot even seduce him.. LOL!!!!But there is a strong connection that we have it is a real strange feeling and I feel it all the time sometimes all day and I know that it is him..

posted March 14, 2006 07:10 PM         

I'd love to keep up to date on things if you have email or messenger. I think it would be neat to know someone to experience similar emotions. Take care of yourself, both physical need and emotional ones. It's all connected.

posted March 15, 2006 09:59 AM         

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