posted March 15, 2006 06:41 PM         

Being the intelligent, sensitive person you are, I hope my comments are helpful.

First, it has not been my experience that women communicate in a certain way. Just as I have had many extraordinarily chatty, responsible and lovely communicating male friends, I have had equally insensitive elusive ones. Different humans communicate, converse, and bond differently.

Having said that I want to say that the Aries is undoubtedly embarrassed by what occurred. You guys were getting amorous and you pulled away, (entirely your perogative). Did you discuss that incident with her after the fact when you too finally spoke or are the two of you acting as though that did not happen?

One of the things that I find with the two Pisces men who I adore and hold in high esteeem is that although sensitive, when things get sticky with others, they ask so very few questions. Sometimes none! It always amazes me. Instead, both will drive themselves into spiraling black wells of self-doubt, speculations, and tortuous questions but fail to directly ask the person with whom they are having difficulty a thing. Then they get angry/frustrated with the person whom they have batted about in their minds' eyes for hours, days or weeks on end. It just affords so little benefit of the doubt to the other, so little compassion topped off with annoying self-flagellation.

Inevitably both my Pisces always, always
think it is "about them". Surprise it may well not be. I am constantly saying this to both and trust me, they have both touched my heart! (....Maybe she is sick? Maybe he is busy.... Maybe she is sensitive just like you!...)

As for Geminis (Sun and Mercury here) I communicate clearly and often. When I love someone even more so. When I stop, it is because the person is overpowering me or ignoring me or simply not listening. Flakiness is not a factor nor has it ever been --might be the Taurus Venus.

posted March 16, 2006 06:30 PM         

Always love your topics. A couple thoughts come to mind.

I've long thought that there's a certain communicative bond between those of the same element. I always feel like I can talk with both Taureans and Virgos. We all share the same language to some degree. I think that when you speak with different elemental Suns there's a shift in the way you communicate at least if you want to communicate effectively.

posted March 17, 2006 09:34 AM         

There's something very appealing about that venus. I've known an Aquarius with venus in Pisces and an Aries lady.

posted March 22, 2006 03:05 PM         

This has been exacerbated by the fact my last g/f never talked about anything and seemed to put the walls up. So now I just shrug and carry on. You never which way to approach things like this beacuse girls change their approaches all the time and I'm too honest to lie convincingly enough to win them back, I just hope talking about things works, but so far little success.

AG - My man you may have a point! I don't meet many Scorpio or Aquarius girls, but those I do I always get on great with. The instant buddy thing with the latter, and the instant lust thing with the former. Saggies and me are on different wavelengths completely, Libras don't have the passion I require in my experience, and Capricorns, well I just don't know how I feel about them they seem a little "cold". But then I am absolutely drenched with water so that is most likely about me not them in truth.

Mystical Dream - great name- I don't lump all women together, I was just curious as to your version of the communication side of things. What you say is true sometimes, with some girls and sometimes not. Seems mood and circumstacce influence a girls position more than a man's.