posted March 22, 2006 11:23 PM
Sun Sextile Moon The sextile of composite Sun and Moon is a very good indication that the two of you are basically compatible, regardless of the kind of relationship you have. The more personal and intimate the relationship, the more favorable are the effects of this aspect.
The sextile is an aspect of balance, indicating that neither of you will always take the dominant, assertive role. Instead, you will exchange the active and passive roles, and as a result your relationship will be more truly a partnership between equals.
In most cases, communication between you should be good. You will feel an overall intellectual and emotional compatibility as well as a conviction that your views complement your partner's views.
Moon in the Eleventh House 11th hs
You have a strong feeling of shared goals and objectives in life, which will contribute to your ability to get along with each other. You will spontaneously think of yourselves as a unit rather than as two separate individuals.
You will be fond of company and enjoy sharing good times with others. Many factors in your lives together will support your relationship in a friendly way without any special effort on your part.
In general this is one of the better positions for a personal relationship and should enable you to share both love and friendship.
Moon Trine Jupiter
The trine of composite Moon and composite Jupiter will have a good effect upon your relationship in several areas. This aspect denotes that the two of you have a generally good feeling for each other. You feel happy together and enjoy each other's company.
This relationship is likely to have a spiritually and morally uplifting effect upon you; it will make the world look better and will actually help you both understand what the world is all about, in a spirit not of resignation but of positive optimism.
In a marriage, this aspect instills a desire for children and makes it more likely that you will have them.
Moon Trine Mercury
The trine of Mercury and Moon in a composite chart indicates that there is great potential for intellectual and emotional growth through this relationship. It means that you can communicate in a positive way about your feelings and opinions and that your basic philosophies of life are compatible, which reinforces your emotional compatibility.
When a situation arises that requires the two of you to sit down and discuss your problems, you can do so easily and with the proper blend of objectivity and involvement.
As a couple, you are open to new ideas and experiences and consequently enjoy exploring different areas of your lives together. At the same time you are not afraid to express your ideas freely and completely.
With any effort at all, you should be able to exploit the potentials offered by this aspect and to grow tremendously through this relationship.
Venus in the Twelfth House 12th hs
Composite Venus is one of the least difficult planets to have in the twelfth house.
This placement signifies that while you may have strong feelings of affection for each other, you may not be demonstrative about them. Other people may not even be aware of how you feel about each other. The twelfth-house Venus can be a sign of a secret relationship.
Your relationship may be influenced to a considerable degree by unconscious factors in both of you. It may be difficult to understand the dynamics of this relationship. This can be either good or bad, of course, depending on what you do. In any case, you should try to understand what lies behind your relationship.
On the clearly positive side, this placement can help both of you overcome your ego- drives within the relationship. You are able to think of yourselves as a unit and to subordinate your personal interests to your interests as a couple.
Venus Opposition Neptune
The opposition of Neptune and Venus in the composite chart requires that you take great care when you enter into this relationship, whether it is a love affair, friendship, marriage, or whatever. In any of these, your feelings for each other will be very refined and idealized. And there may be a spirituality between you that you have never before encountered.
But the question arises, who are you really in love with? In any love relationship you project elements of your own inner self upon your partner. In a successful relationship, the other person corresponds to the projected image closely enough to make the illusion work. But in some relationships there is little or no correspondence between the image and the real person. Consequently, when this truth is recognized, great disappointment sets in. Unfortunately, the Venus-Neptune opposition is particularly subject to this kind of disappointment.
Do not try to find Salvation with your friend or lover. Be satisfied with a human being in this relationship and look elsewhere for your god.
Venus Trine Pluto
Like all composite Venus-Pluto aspects, the trine produces extremely intense feelings in any kind of relationship. But with this aspect it is perhaps easier to control the energies and still keep the strong points of such a relationship.
In a love relationship between the sexes, you will find it easy to demonstrate your feelings for each other. You will enjoy loving and being loved. The experience will transform you and make your world and your perception of it into something new.
With a Venus-Pluto trine, love has an almost psychotherapeutic effect on you both. Even a friendship with this aspect has a transforming quality.
Sexual love is very important in this relationship. In a marriage, children may assume a greater than usual significance. They are seen as a tie to the future, which somehow ensures that the two of you will never die.
The Venus-Pluto trine confers an intense quality that can bind two people together and give the relationship more than ordinary importance.
Venus Square Jupiter
The square of Venus and Jupiter in the composite chart is one of the easiest squares to deal with. Jupiter and Venus are so compatible that it is almost impossible for their influences to be combined in a negative way. The square is an active aspect; that is, it signifies actions that are taken. In the case of Venus and Jupiter, it suggests that together you will actively seek out pleasure and ease in order to enjoy yourselves and each other's company. You will be fond of beautiful and elegant surroundings and will go to great lengths to acquire them. The only potentially negative attribute of this combination is that elegance, ease, and pleasure can become greater priorities in your relationship than other, more important elements.
Another difficulty that sometimes occurs with this combination is that its very great energy brings together two people who are unsuited to each other.
Nevertheless, you can expect an affectionate and loving relationship, no matter what the original reasons for your coming together. And this affection will hold you together even in times of difficulty.
Mars Trine Ascendant
The trine of composite Mars and Ascendant is a good sign that you are able to express yourselves to each other without having to make compromises. This is a relationship in which the two of you are able to be yourselves and express your egos fully and without reserve in each other's presence. Also, you work well as a team.
This relationship will arouse in the two of you a great deal of physical energy that must find some form of expression. You should not sit around when you are together; instead you should be doing something. If this is a business or professional relationship or if you have other work to do, the energies of Mars will be especially favorable. This relationship signifies that as a couple you will achieve a more perfect self-expression than either of you could experience in relationships with others.
Pluto in the Fourth House 4th hs
The fourth house can be a very important and critical position for Pluto in a composite chart. The actual effects of this can vary considerably. For instance, the fourth house rules the past. Therefore you may find that past circumstances have a stronger than usual conditioning effect on the course of your relationship.
The fourth house rules the deepest levels of the unconscious mind, so the two of you may act out very deep, unconsciously motivated patterns that change the course of your relationship.
In a love relationship or marriage, one or more of your parents may have an unusual degree of influence on the relationship.
The fourth house also rules the home, and in a relationship that has a clearly recognizable home, very powerful forces may be experienced there. The problem is that home should be a place where you can get away from pressure, but with Pluto in the fourth house, home could be the place where pressure is most intense.
Whatever the effect of the fourth-house Pluto, it does provide for resolution of its problems, because it gives you the desire and the ability to get at the depths of your own being.
Mercury Square Pluto
The square of composite Mercury and Pluto poses some challenges to any relationship, the greatest of which is learning to tolerate each other's ideas. This aspect implies intellectual power struggles as each of you tries to impose your own thinking upon the other.
If you can enlarge your own views enough to encompass your partner's, you will have the capacity to truly understand that point of view and include that perception of the truth in your own perception.
Here again, as with the conjunction, the energy may be turned outward, so that the two of you are always trying to influence other people's opinions. Here also there is a danger that you could provoke a damaging response; other people, instinctively fearing domination, might fight back against your ideas.
Saturn Square Pluto
The square of composite Saturn and Pluto creates difficulties. One of you will feel that you are struggling in chains forged by the other, that the relationship is restrictive, and that your natural growth is being inhibited. It is most likely that each of you will affect the other this way at different times.
The energies of the aspect may not be experienced directly, however. The Saturn-Pluto combination seems to have the effect of creating a shortage or lack of something that seems essential, so the two of you will not always have what you want, whether it is material comfort or psychological support.
Please realize, however, that the dynamics of your relationship is the problem, not the other person. In other words, both of you are contributing to the situation.
Such a relationship can face quite unpleasant circumstances, most commonly in the form of increasing emotional coldness and remoteness between you. From there you may get to the point of resisting each other strongly and wanting to break free at all costs. If you want to make it work, you must recognize how you have created this situation.