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Topic: Realist scorpio woman&idealist aries man..crash..
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neval3000
Knowflake Posts: 164
From: manisa,turkey
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted March 26, 2006 11:11 AM
 
I am at trouble with an aries man..this guy makes me amazing..i never met that one..i knew and heard that they are jealous and l see that they are too much...when we met i felt that there was a crash between us..we fight in mental level...they are so wild i think..and of course we are dating now  ...i really dont know about jealousy over the scorpio,i swear to you i am an angel ..
my asc;sagitt,moon aries..and i have libras in my chart(venus,pluto,saturn,MC..)and my mars is sagitar...
and this man aries sun;moon cancer;asc libra;and venus,mercury,saturn,mars in pisces... i saw that he has heavily under the pisces effect..when he talk;i can see he is aries...egoist,idealist,hard-working...but he likes sprituallity so much..and sometimes he seems to live in not world..i am amazed because i thought always ;they are realist..but he is not... we are an intersting couple )he was so romantic,caring...and of course jealous....he amazed me about his idealism.. what can you say? 1)Are we explode?
2)Are we fall in love(and we are in love)
3)Is this crash long-time?
4)Is it beautiful dream... take care! IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 3407
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted March 27, 2006 02:28 AM
Sounds like a good combination to me, placement wise.
Trines, an opposition, more trines in the big three and other placements....
Plus, there's the excitement you feel.
That means more than anyone can say for you...I am a Scorpio woman married to an Aries man. This will be our seventh year.. lots of ups and downs, life stuff... disillusionment, etc...different approaches to life at a basic level, though there was a lot of magic. Our Moons conjunct def. help out, we are friends above all else and I know there is love always to depend on, lest we forget.
You have great placements together that would solidify a union I believe, in theory.. but once again... it is in the excitement of your post that you will find true validation!  IP: Logged |
freebird
Knowflake Posts: 653
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Registered: Jul 2005
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posted March 27, 2006 03:43 AM
Neval : You seem to be all excited and it's so true about Realist Scorpios and Idealist Aries. They have so much energy. Seven years they are lot. How do you keep them excited esp. Aries Sun with Aries Stellium. I would also like to know what were the problems and how did you work it out.
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neval3000
Knowflake Posts: 164
From: manisa,turkey
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted March 27, 2006 12:15 PM
Thank you for your great thought..pixie you are lucky freebird..he likes an exitement bomb...he always talks about world..i think he loves my ideas(especially my ambitious..).sometimes i am very politic;and you know aries never be poltics,so he crazy about my behave..he always said:'why dont you show your real behaviors..'..that is my secret..and of course;there are so fire when he get mad..i get more mad him so he dont talk much..and of course as i have so many libras;i smile so much...and he dont resist... firstly;i dont so close to him..i did not show my feeling so much;because i dont have emotions to him..but he had and now has so much...but his pisces effects make him so affectione.. take care... IP: Logged |
neval3000
Knowflake Posts: 164
From: manisa,turkey
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted April 03, 2006 02:54 PM
first explode...he is so selfish..if he want talk;if he dont want dont talk..that is too much..yes i am scorpio but i am so sensitive...last night i just wanted to make a jest : i call him in midnight;and said i love you..he said..me too..today is his birthday..i celebrated..and tonight i send him message how are etc..but he is so cold..fine;a few min later i will call you..i sad :dont call me,i will sleep..he said :dont make trip..i am sad..because;he understand me wronlgy ..he is now with his friends..i really want to sleep ...but he undrestand this as 'girl trip'..i am very proud in realitionships...and i said : dont make me general..i want to bee alone now...and he said: if you want to be alone;just be... it was selfish idea..now i shall think...i thought he only want catch when i am run..
upset..and i dont share with my feeling with him..i just don want.. sorry.. take care.. IP: Logged |
freebird
Knowflake Posts: 653
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Registered: Jul 2005
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posted April 04, 2006 12:43 AM
Hey, Neval I understand how you feel but truth is wait for him to respond just don't get all over him. It was his birthday he might also want to be with his friends. Give yourself and wait. Do your own things. Communicate. Don't say I want to be alone. He would think you need space. If he is evolved and matured. He would be able to see your good side. Be there but not always force him or ask for attention. Sometimes man find it to be very difficult and waste of time. Be understanding of his behoavior and yours too. IP: Logged |
neval3000
Knowflake Posts: 164
From: manisa,turkey
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted April 04, 2006 01:09 PM
Freebird...Actually;as i dont want to argue with him and as i dont want an explanation i used that sentence..He did not call me ..i understand and it doesnot matter with me if he was with friends..we are neighbour cities..but he make me general..that sentence make me crazy:dont make trip...i really want to be alone..and i think some space..He limits me but he use such space for himself..he was more jealous than me(i am scorpio..).. IP: Logged |
freebird
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Registered: Jul 2005
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posted April 04, 2006 11:22 PM
I think it can be also that he had some past issues and he is seeing all the woman same. He might have said " Don't make trip"He doesn't understand you and your space thing as much you don't understand his. IP: Logged |
neval3000
Knowflake Posts: 164
From: manisa,turkey
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted April 05, 2006 12:33 PM
i am just sorry..  IP: Logged |
freebird
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posted April 09, 2006 08:33 AM
Don't be sorry. I think maybe you can think out about his needs and you might can talk about yours.IP: Logged |
neval3000
Knowflake Posts: 164
From: manisa,turkey
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted April 09, 2006 12:56 PM
i talked with him today...i thought that;he interested in a woman only who cares him;makes cook;house stafs..etc..like search a mother..i am very surprised...i realized that his moon is cancer...i am not that type..i have always outdoor type..not a home bird...and i am calm today..but i dont know...as we are only friends and not married;these problems are big..but we are in trouble..i the big point is that he said me..:i love you;but i want to change you in some points...and i said :if i love somebody i accept his as what he is..that was bad...if i change i can not happy.. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
Knowflake Posts: 34
From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted April 09, 2006 01:51 PM
I think the fire/water 6-8 pattern can be interesting and difficult at the same time. I know because I'm a cancer and have been involved with many sags before. It can work though.IP: Logged |
freebird
Knowflake Posts: 653
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Registered: Jul 2005
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posted April 10, 2006 12:26 AM
What I don't understand is whether one should change or not. If you can't take their differences how would they take yours. So I think there is lot to got with compromise and learning from each other. I hope it can work out neval for you. IP: Logged |
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