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LibraCadabra
Knowflake

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From: Toronto, Canada
Registered: Mar 2006

posted April 06, 2006 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraCadabra     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Everyone, i'm relatively new to both astrology and this site. About 4 months ago i split from my ex. problem is she is with someone else now, but can't really let me go from her heart. As I can't let her out of mine. We had a very, very deep relationship, many ups and downs. I attribute our problems to both of our karmas. But still, we are drawn to each other. My father had a natal chart drawn up for me when i was born...and i only read it recntly. To my amazement, a significant amout of what was written was true. so now i am a believer of astrology, and now i ask for help here. can anyone tell me about my relationship with this girl. I do belive she is one of my Soul Mates or even perhaps my Twin Soul.

ME:
October 16th, 1979.
Mississauga, Canada (basically Toronto)
5:00 pm

HER:
October 16th, 1977
Toronto, Canada
don't know the time.

any help would be appreciated.
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CapGirl
Knowflake

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From: Indianapolis, IN, USA
Registered: Mar 2006

posted April 06, 2006 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapGirl     Edit/Delete Message
I ran your synastry, and looked at it quickly and I can see why it's a significant relationship for both of you. There are alot of moon aspects, and also your planets aspecting her North Node. I found these aspects notable:

Sun Conjunct Pluto
Sun conjunct North Node (strong positive)
Moon conjunct Neptune
Moon trine Mars
Mars trine Neptune
Moon square Saturn (trouble)
Venus conjunct Uranus
Venus conjunct Saturn

Check out cafeastrology.com They have a free compatibility report, and also a great section on synastry-compatibility analysis. Others on here can give you more detailed insight on these aspects. I could have to copy and paste alot in order to be truly accurate, as I'm not advanced or an expert.

But overall, I see alot of potential there and strong ties.

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pixelpixie
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From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005

posted April 11, 2006 12:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
Wow.. same birthdate.... my daughter was born on that date as well,only in 2000, same time zone, I'm a neighbour!

Based upon CapGirl's synopsis, and my studying past, but without looking anything up...
I know the first two aspects there are stunning in powerplays and fated connections.. Pluto is powerful, Sun is powerful seeing as Pluto is a slow moving planet, I think it would be safe to say you each have that aspect within your own natal charts as well.. Sun conjunct Pluto.... so that would modify it's affects, as you are used to the energy interplay... but it would still come up as a powerful tie between you.
Top of my head-
Moon conjunct Neptune. Moon-emotional energy, Neptune also emotional energy, but in a more spiritual sense.... can indicate obsession and a beautiful feeling between you.
Moon trine Mars- emotions and action harmoniously related
Mars trine Neptune is difficult, it's like combining action with dreams and illusion.. or the real world with the mythical.... you would feel conflict, even though it is a positive connection... the energies don't blend together naturally.
Moon square Saturn... even though it is a square, and would feel debiliating at times, seemingly no matter what you do with the energy.. as if it isn't a conscious will, one of you brings the other down by your very nature. But not always..as it can bring stability and a need to stay together ( Saturn being the planet of Karmic connections, binding through good or bad) and while you are repelled, you are attracted, yet to your detriment. Can be overcome, but it will come up at times.... and the fact that you also have Venus conjunct Saturn modifies it somewhat, it lends a more stable prospect to your togethernes, you work well together when you get it together.

Venus conjunct Uranus needs space. It is an attractive aspect, but not a stable one...
you see how the contacts must be balanced.. the binding ones modify the separating ones.
This could be love and attraction at first sight, but also frequent chaos and separation as quick as you got together.... yet you still feel home together once there.
If you choose to recreate your relationship, keep in mind it need not be traditional.. You will be magnetized together/repelled apart... and it's upo to you how to manifest that energy and overcome the negative bits.
Keep in mind that although she has 'moved on', she has indicated she is drawn to you.. and as you two broke up ( right or wrong) they can too. Not all hope is lost
Cafeastrology is a fabulous site!!!!
Check it out!

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LibraCadabra
Knowflake

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From: Toronto, Canada
Registered: Mar 2006

posted April 11, 2006 12:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraCadabra     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you for both of your replies.
I checked out cafeastrology and ran a compatibility for us..and to my amazement a lot of aspects are dead on.

but what i still want to know is...are we soul mates or twin souls or neither...is there any way to tell from the charts?

i can't seem to shake her out of my heart..i can't seem to let go and move on and a lot of what i've read about soul mates/twin souls lies true to our relationship.

any help..

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CapGirl
Knowflake

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From: Indianapolis, IN, USA
Registered: Mar 2006

posted April 11, 2006 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapGirl     Edit/Delete Message
Soulmates have some unique aspects, and there's a section on it in cafeastrology, if you dig under relationships or compatibility/synastry. You have to calculate sun-moon midpoints and look at aspects to the vertex, and it's way over my head. I know the sun-moon conjunction is a strong indicator, at least of marriage and I think soulmates too. You likely have karmic qualities to the relationship, - the venus-pluto aspect, or some others.

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