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Topic: Marriage Material???
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Gem-Sag Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Halifax, Canada Registered: Mar 2006
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posted April 11, 2006 10:40 PM
Hi all, Another question (surprise ) Honestly - am I marriage material - or even one of those long term committed relationships...I am sure that everyone has potential to have a long term relationship with someone out there and it is certainly easier for some people than for others. But I feel like I got the short end of the stick here, in my experience and looking at my chart. I know I'm relativley young, but in my experience more than 1-2 weeks is the longest I can hold on without something going worng (for whatever reason). Deep down in there somewhere, I really want to have a close long term relationship...but I guess I need some advice! It seems like everytime I look at my chart I see something new about why it will be hard for me to have a bf or I'll have one when I'm older or something. 5th house saturn, its conj mars, sun and venus opposition moon, venus in 12 etc. I find it hard for me to open up to someone, tell them what I feel and/or for me to commit. I wonder if my yod to mercury has something to do about this? Astrological advice or advice in general would be awesome! I finally got the courage to ask this-it's my sad spot Thanks for reading and possibly responding, DOB: June 13/84 6:56 am halifax, canada http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=achart_pegfilelKFmrR-u1139755608.7482.8364.gif&res=100&va= IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Moderator Posts: 3461 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted April 11, 2006 11:10 PM
(OOOOoh, 69 posts!!!) I have posted this before..... http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/individual-love-horoscopes. html Do keep in mind that you can overcome anything. You're too young to worry anyway, go have fun! Every experience sets you up for the next.... when you are ready, you'll know.. obviously, if you'd found someone worth it, nothing would go wonky in the truest sense... IP: Logged |
Gem-Sag Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Halifax, Canada Registered: Mar 2006
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posted April 11, 2006 11:43 PM
hi pixelpixie, Funny you notice how many posts I had! Right, so I do realize I'm rather young. And at the time, I'm defenety having fun if I meet someone new. Heck my moon is in Sagittarius- I'm usually up for fun, The big problem is I feel REALLY empty after it doesn't work out. This is even true for possible relationships that I cut off myself before they atart. Or even when they atart of with that "venus-uranus" tpye of intensity - they die off just as quick - these ones really hurt, I find it hard to talk about this, it always makes me upset. I defenetly have been through much worse in other areas of my life and hasnt seemed to affect me as much. Maybe it's just a long-term transit of something I'm just fustrated, need to vent gem-sagIP: Logged |
martian Knowflake Posts: 11 From: sacramento Registered: Mar 2006
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posted April 12, 2006 01:42 AM
i dont have much advice for your question, just a reccomendation.<is that how you spell that< anyhow, there is a good book called "Heaven Knows What" by Grant Lewi. I think it will help you a little bit cause it helped me. Look it up! Im trying to add to my posting numbers here at Lindaland in addition to helping out.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Moderator Posts: 3461 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted April 12, 2006 01:05 PM
Oh, I only noticed the posts and commented on the number because I am a fourteen year old boy in the body of a woman. My sense of humour, that is....... 69..... um.... never mind... *tries not to giggle*I ......like the sign for Cancer, is all.... IP: Logged |
Gem-Sag Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Halifax, Canada Registered: Mar 2006
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posted April 12, 2006 01:19 PM
pixelpixie, don't worry, my mars in scorpio in the 5th house picked that up rather quickly lol
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pixelpixie Moderator Posts: 3461 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted April 12, 2006 10:36 PM
Well, good. IP: Logged |
sdg1844 Knowflake Posts: 164 From: New York, NY, USA Registered: Jun 2005
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posted April 14, 2006 01:38 PM
I wish I had some advice for you. I have too many squares between my Sun, Mars and Venus to Uranus and Pluto to give out relationship advice. You have a long way to go. Don't give up! Trite, but true. Wishing you good luck, Simone ------------------ Before you speak, ask yourself, is it kind, is it necessary, is it true, does it improve on the silence? -Sai Baba IP: Logged |
purple_scorp Knowflake Posts: 384 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2004
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posted April 19, 2006 12:39 AM
Hey Gem-Sag,everybody, no matter what age, will go through the same grieving process when they lose something that was important to them. The rate at which we heal is governed by our outlook on life and our experience. What struck me about your post was a kind of desperate need to find someone to provide for you something that you do not think that you can provide for yoursElf. Before you can have a good relationship, you need to be happy within yoursElf. I'm not saying that you're not happy.....but I do get the feeling that you are trying to plug a hole (no pun intended). There's a really good book called "Secrets about life that every woman should know". It's written by Barbara De Angelis and it outlines a lot of interesting information that I think you could really benefit you at this time. She has a few other books, one about secrets about men.....so don't get it confused. I think it's the secrets about life you need right now. One of the most thought-provoking things she discusses is that when we are in love with someone, it is our own love that we feel, not the love from the other person. By being in a relationship, we actually have someone to shine this love on, so we give oursElves permission to love, so to speak. When we are alone, we feel silly shining our love as there seems to be no recipient. So we feel we need another person to be able to create this experience. But Barbara argues that as it is our own love, we should be able to shine it regardless of whether we are in a relationship or not. And logically then, it follows that when we come out of a relationship, the love is not gone. How can it be? It was ours to start with, and we still have it. We just no longer have that other person to shine it on. So, work on yoursElf a little (on your soul) to prepare yoursElf for the best ride of your life.....then it will come. with love purple_scorp IP: Logged | |