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Topic: Crush on a Libra man!
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ScarlettSoul Knowflake Posts: 18 From: Registered: Apr 2006
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posted April 17, 2006 03:10 AM
Hello everyone!I'm an Aries woman, and I have suddenly found myself with a big fat crush on a LIBRA man. The first few times I was around him, it was he who did all the flirting. I was not impressed. Suddenly, something shifted and I have found myself quite enamored, and boy... do I ever have the hots for him!!! This does not happen frequently for me. So it's something I am curious about investigating. Only now, I feel I have given him all the "signals" I know how to, and things are going no where but flirting. UGH! Is this a Libra thing? I know they are flirty... but jeez. Is it a case of "he's just not that into you"? I guess what I am asking... if anyone knows... how does one attract a Libra man? Will he be obvious in letting you know he likes you? Or does he like the girl to make the first real move? Do they play games? Did I read him all wrong? Or is there more than meets the eye? IP: Logged |
Green Fairy Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Registered: Feb 2006
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posted April 17, 2006 10:01 AM
Why would you wanna destroy your life? lol j/k I have yet to understand why Libras are considered a sign of balance and harmony when they seem to be pretty much imbalanced and with a tendency to create emotional havoc. Do you know his other placements?It'd quite helpful because i don't wanna judge him based solely on his sun sign.Stereotypically,Libras as air signs are extremely communicative,flirty,fickle and flightly (and many other words starting with an 'f' lol ) IP: Logged |
Nihilive Knowflake Posts: 90 From: Dearborn Heights, MI, USA Registered: Feb 2006
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posted April 17, 2006 12:28 PM
Libras... run.Let them deal with eachother. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Moderator Posts: 3461 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted April 17, 2006 12:31 PM
"The Opposite Effect"That explains the attraction, though it is unusual for you to develop crushes.... The other placements will further explain. Have fun! IP: Logged |
ScarlettSoul Knowflake Posts: 18 From: Registered: Apr 2006
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posted April 18, 2006 12:31 AM
Green Fairy & Nihilive... now I'm scared!!! Are Libra men notoriously bad news???I unfortunatly do not know his other placements just yet... I have to find a subtle way to ask him. (Dang!) PixelPixie - I thought the "opposite" thing might be the reason for the attraction. I really don't know him all that well yet, but it was one of those things where he made an impact on me from the getgo. Not necessarily in a romantic way at first, but it has become that. It's true I don't have many crushes. I just like this guy and I don't know quite why...
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pixelpixie Moderator Posts: 3461 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted April 18, 2006 03:37 PM
I understand.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Moderator Posts: 3461 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted April 18, 2006 03:41 PM
I want to mention as well... I LOVE Libras!!! I could name so many whom I adore, women and men..... I don't know why a sign can get such a bad rap.... I know so many who enrich my life and i adore them. They are good people, as anyone can be... don't be disheartened by what you hear, and enjoy the connection. Everyone can have a bad connection or a bad experience to anyone.. that shouldn't indicate a sign as a whole being bad news.IP: Logged |
ScarlettSoul Knowflake Posts: 18 From: Registered: Apr 2006
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posted April 18, 2006 10:22 PM
Pixelpixie - I so agree. I used to be prejudiced of Aquarian men... but it's important to remember that people are people, astrology is a good guideline for one's tendencies, but we must remember not to assign qualities to people before we really know the person. Thanks for your thoughts! IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Knowflake Posts: 4691 From: Registered: Feb 2002
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posted April 18, 2006 11:12 PM
My boyfriend is a Libra, and I'm an Aries. I feel lucky to be with such a sweetie. He can be tough, yet is most of the time a fair person. He has a lot of qualities I admire and I know we can learn a lot from each other. The chemistry between us has always been very personal and close (Venus conjunct Pluto in synastry). He has an emotional empathy with me and it is very comfortable. As a true Libra, he is a very social bee He is extroverted and I am introverted. He likes being lively and likes to talk. He's really good at connecting with people and is very casual interpersonally.When we first started going out, he communicated very clearly that he liked me very, very much. I didn't sense any of the Libra indecisiveness with regard to that and being asked to be his girlfriend. IP: Logged |