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Knowflake

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From: Canada
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posted April 18, 2006 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message
I don't think that there have been more people involved in unrequited love situations lately, but I think I have been noticing them simply because my poor little heart has suffered some breakage itself. (Ahhhhh...the worst ever...curses Saturn Return!)

Therefore I am passing along a book that has personally helped me to begin to deal with my feelers being crushed and here it is:

Zen and the Art of Falling in Love
Brenda Shoshanna, PH.D

I read it last year and recently dragged it out for a re-read and I'm super glad I did.

So if you're feeling a tad aggressive toward the universe while still managing to cling to your faith that everything happens for a reason, I recommend this book to YOU!

Love


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ScarlettSoul
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posted April 18, 2006 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScarlettSoul     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks, Love!

The book sounds interesting. I think most of us have suffered thru the pain of unrequited love... I like to think it adds character!

What specifically does this book address about unrequited love???

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Love
Knowflake

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posted April 19, 2006 03:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message
Well, it deals with all aspects of love, but it was helpful to me since I am currently sitting in the unrequited aisle in the supermarket of love. It really just talks about how we all approach love and whether our actions are inspired by love or attachment and how to be in a relationship that is truly love based versus being in one that is about control...etc. etc.

Highly recommended for anyone and everyone.

Love

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Stargazer
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posted April 21, 2006 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message
"unrequited aisle in the supermarket of love"

I know this store well

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Knowflake

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posted April 21, 2006 04:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message
Yes, and don't you find that inevitably all the produce has mysteriously gone bad? LOL

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hippichick
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posted May 29, 2006 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
Love

Thank you to responding to my query on Swerve's thread as to this book. I have begun to read it again and the first words of the second chapter (where I stopped) was exactly what I need to hear at this time in my life. Being less than 2 weeks out of yet another failed attempt at "Love" I was feeling very hopeless.

The kind of love that this book speaks of is the kind of love I preach, just not able to practice

I originally sought out the book upon reading this thread.

Thank you,

Terri

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writesomething
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posted May 29, 2006 10:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message
sounds interesting, i will defintely check it out

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aka Shop22much.

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Knowflake

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posted May 31, 2006 02:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message
Hippichick ~

Yes, I really found that although reading the book made me cringe sometimes, since I preach it too but do not always follow my own advice, it was a very good reminder for me.

Love

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luvly girl
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From: australia
Registered: May 2006

posted May 31, 2006 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for luvly girl     Edit/Delete Message
hey have heard of this book, have heard all great things about it, will definatly check it out.

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