posted April 07, 2007 01:27 PM              

I didn't need to bump up my other thread- should have read this one first!

Do you think that believing we will meet that person is enough? Don't we need to be ready first?

I had a dream about my Twin Soul or Twin S-elf when I was 9, and thought about finding him all the time. This was before I'd read about soul mates in Linda's books. I use to dream about meeting him every day. It never worked. When I reached my teens, I told myself I had to be real. Then I read Linda's books and it got me hoping again. I believe I have met a few of my soul mates.

Even if we don't have a Twin S-elf, we are ALL connected, though we are closer on our vibrational frequency level to some than others. We're never really alone. We also have Spirit Guides to help us who we cannot see. We all long for something deep down- but what is it? Another person? Another dream to be fulfilled, until our imaginations tire us? God?

Love & light

P.S. I have an open mind. I will believe it when it happens. Then, I will shout about it. Until then, we must put our energy into the tangible, into loving all life which is interconnected. It isn't good to be alone. Human nature wants to share intimacy, and express it in the physical world in which we live. We learn from relationships. I think I need, also, to meditate more in the light of God's energy I felt once as a child.

Love & Light to all

posted April 07, 2007 01:42 PM              

we were all created equally
each pair created in human form
each with a twin. ...

You cannot put all your focus on this,
but you must pray, to save one another,
and when it is time, you shall join...

karma plays alot into this...
so,
it's best to do right, so that this
may be fulfilled....

2012 is not far away, are we going
to change the prophecies...
the warnings, probablitites?

are we going to Listen to Linda,
and what she wrote about?

do not worship idol's!

Our Soul in Heaven
is who we truly are...

this is the world of Illusion

time to Create

Pax et Bonum!

LOve to ALL. ...

posted April 07, 2007 02:39 PM              

Some of us choose the 'Thunderbolt Path' where the soul splits into different pieces to gather more experiences...this is another angle on twin souls and kindred spirits.

We learn from relationships we have. We can share deep love with our soul mate if the connection and communication is strong enough. I don't know if Twin s-elves exist or not, but she said they were RARE.

It is not good to be alone. Human nature wishes to express intimacy in the physical way while we are in the physical world. Do not shut love out, waiting for a phantom love to come and awaken us from our solitude. It will happen when the Time is ready. The forces of Time are too strong to make it happen before then.

posted April 07, 2007 03:15 PM              

Perhaps the obsession I have with Twin S-elves is causing me to not put the right kind of energy/ amount of energy into the relationship.

Perhaps I should have a healthier obsession like reaching out to God and to others.

posted April 07, 2007 03:19 PM              

then it is wrong
you are using them....

no need to be obsessed...

be patient...

I have been alone for 9 years, I am still happy..and productive...

and, when it's time
my twin
will show up

I'm not going to mess that up, by using someone, who is not my True LOve. ...

posted April 07, 2007 03:42 PM              

If you are happy with the mate you are with then yes, you're right, to turn away from that would be a little foolhardy, however I was with a man that I loved for 9 years, he's the father of my child and I think we had lessons to learn together and in a way I still do love him, but when I was with him all those years I KNEW that something was missing and I would look at him sometimes and see a stranger, or lay next to him at night and feel empty and desperately sad, I even found myself looking at him one day and spoke to myself in my head and said "he's just not THE ONE" - it was a terribly sad realisation but it also freed me... I left him soon after.
I have now been alone for almost 8 years - and yes, at times it is hard and incredibly lonely but I get on with being a mother and pursuing a career and have faith, that HE will come. Sometimes, on dark days I waver, (as you would have seen if you read my previous posts) but for the most part my heart HAS to believe - when you've felt completely lonely in the middle of a crowd of people who are your family and friends and love you, that is when you realise your other half is out there feeling the same and waiting for you too...

posted April 07, 2007 03:48 PM              

and yes, then the realization, this is NOT the One...came, and I worked to free mySelf...
from a physially, verbally, mentally abusive husband....

I still LOve him, and Have Forgiven him...
lessons learned. ...

and, Also, I don't expect to convince anyOne,..we all have to go within, and find Our own answers

posted April 07, 2007 05:23 PM              

Lotus, I understand what you are saying, but I think you misunderstood what I meant.

I'm not using anybody- I would not, could not be with someone for any other reason than love. I just know, after reading Gooberz, that he probably isn't my Twin S-elf, though there are times when I feel completely at one with him. Other times we fight, which is why we can't live together and be a 'normal' family. When we don't get on I feel completely alone. Actually, we never get any 'quality time'. Other times, I look at him and feel such adoration for who he is; his soul; his beauty. Thats why I feel he is my soul mate. I don't connect with him spiritually, but I do in other ways. I forgive him for being a complex person; understand the melancholy and cynicism. I am too understanding. If I was able to follow my head instead of my heart then I would have made things in my life far less complicated, believe me!

I know that this is probably too deep for most to grasp or even want to try. Its the placement of Pluto in my chart. I have to ask questions- to ponder things deeply- even the very depths and definitions of love. I want to understand the relation between illusion and reality.

Oh yes, I want to understand the relation between illusion and reality!

"Seek and ye shall find"

love & light to ALL

posted April 07, 2007 05:35 PM              

Still, its human nature to think, to ask questions, to look for answers.....even if he or she does stumble along the way.

posted April 07, 2007 05:35 PM              

here on Earth is the Illusion....
I hope this helps, but this is what I SEE, and am shone, and I know it's different for everyOne, but is all the same basic principle...and the Truth of Our Creation....
ask God questions...
the answers will come, you will be led to the information you need....

posted September 23, 2011 06:10 PM            

still alone, hehe

13 years. ...