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Topic: capricornmen/leowomen(zoso or anyone?)
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ecerbii
Knowflake Posts: 5
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Registered: Apr 2006
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posted May 28, 2006 06:19 PM
 
I have known this male for over ten yrs we have nothing in common outside the bedroom I knew this early on and decided to myself to end it.He doesn't seem to see it that way.He won't let me go he continues to want to pull me into a undefined relationship and I continue to walk away. he tells me we'll have children together and get married. we both have none.or spouses. When I tell people that I believe he loves me but does not like me they think I am crazy I say it to say that we have never gotten along everything ends in an argument.When in each other's company ther's hardly a conversation. this has been this way for years. I met him when we were teenagers (18/19) we lost touch a couple of times but he managed to always find me. As a teen we may have been what we thought was "in love"but I saw it that way as a teen and left alone he is still holding on to it and me WHY!!what does it take for them to accept no and what makes themm wash their hands with you? In the past I'd been there for him but he's NEVER been there for me he sees and is able to identify me being there for him but not him there for me .emotionally finacally, or otherwise but clearly admits to having being able to support me at all even in the death of a loved one in my family. worst of all does not seem to mind not knowing my family only wait for me to invite him over I refuse to since he has only taken the iniative once since I have known him And yet this man brought marriage up to me a month ago and having children (we both have none or spouses or ex spouses How Do I get him out of my life after telling him There's nothing for us what is his persistance about?IP: Logged |
zoso
Knowflake Posts: 672
From: Death Valley USA
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted May 28, 2006 07:47 PM
Hey, I see my name!!Cappy man huh? I guess all that earth can become suffocating for fire signs. I don't know about your guy, but I'm best friends with my Cap ex and we get along great. I think it's because it's steady and long-lasting which might appease their Saturnian side. Maybe you can try a friendship with this guy and see if he becomes less desperate?? His persistance might be because he has set you as his goal...Cappys don't give up too easily on their goals and the thought of failure is really not an option. Also, they like to finish what they start and if you have history together, they will take that seriously. What are your other placements? IP: Logged |
ecerbii
Knowflake Posts: 5
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Registered: Apr 2006
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posted May 29, 2006 12:46 AM
Zoso I saw your response to a topic when you stated their behavior and the light came on about this cap I am dealing with everything you said was true I just never put it together. I did try to be friends with this cap but the the way he appears to be needy is hard and it makes me go in the opposite direction. He doesn't want me to know him yet he wants me around. I am the sixteenth of aug and he is the nineteenth of january everything is a secret about him but it seems only to me SOO I say why want me around? I do know of two other girlfriends that lived with him but it took a very long time for him to admit they lived with him and were his girlfriends to me it was worst than pulling teeth. even thought both ended up moving out of his place. We have never had a defined relationship so what was the big deal.? when I tell him I no longer want to be friends the idiot in him surfaces It is really hard to continue to love him the way I once didIP: Logged |
zoso
Knowflake Posts: 672
From: Death Valley USA
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted May 29, 2006 03:52 AM
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it was worst than pulling teeth
 What interesting wordage considering Capricorn rules the knees, bones, and . . .teeth! See? You're tapped into the Cappy already! j/k Post your other aspects (Venus Mars Merc and such) and maybe wilsontc will drop a line  IP: Logged |
ecerbii
Knowflake Posts: 5
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Registered: Apr 2006
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posted May 30, 2006 12:18 AM
I do not know that information my time of birth is 11:43am I do not know the caps time of birth Can you tell me how to obtain that info and I'll work on it?( the mar venus etc...)IP: Logged |
zoso
Knowflake Posts: 672
From: Death Valley USA
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted May 30, 2006 09:47 PM
You can go to astro.com and under the "charts" selection, go to extented charts. I think you'll need to make profiles for both people. You can use noon for his birthtime, but remember that the angles won't be correct and the moon sign could be different. Under the extended chart selection, choose a synastry chart instead of a natal. Good Luck! IP: Logged |
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