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Topic: Messing up Relationships...
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double trouble gemini
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posted June 08, 2006 05:46 PM
 
here i am confused once again...
heres a short brief of what im going through,
my x bf was an aqua,i broke up with him because i admit i was too possessive and wanted him all for myself..(to think i could hold down an aqua for too long was the most silly mistake i could have ever made!)
after break up i still couldnt let go of him and wanted us to be friends.
friendship was going fine ...untill..
now the problem starts again... im too possessive in friendship as well!!...
i demand my time with him and cant take no for an answer... so we started having the same arguments again, i know its me,im messing up everything! but i cant change my nature.. everything is black or white to me, i want 100% of something or 100% of nothing at all! i think i hav blown up my friendship with the aqua as well.. i just cant stand being in a relationship that wont give me back the time and love i invested in it.
my close friendship circle had zeroed down to non! simply because i break free if i dont see others giving me back the same amount of time,interest,attention that im looking for.
i am scared of my own possessiveness it gets the best of me,being possessive also makes me jealous,depressed,insecure and nervous in close relationships.
it is getting impossible to find a guy or a friend who would match up to my expectations i usually end up hurting myself..
i have a few questions i would appreciate if anyone could answer..
doest anyone else feel sooo possessive that they just want to kill the other person for spending ur time with someone else?..
is it really just me or am i wasting my time being round the wrong kind of people?
what aspects in ones chart shows this kind of nature?IP: Logged |
writesomething
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posted June 08, 2006 06:00 PM
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double trouble gemini
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posted June 09, 2006 04:24 AM
hi writesomething
i never knew u were like this too...
i have spent 8 years with aqua who else can best know them inside out...
i have tried everything with him being lovers,friends,strangers,enemies...he has tried to change a lot too ....but nothing worked because aqua is a fixed sign and they are too strong headed in their own ways to change for anyboby espicaly for a lover..anyway today is another day that i have given him a final warning to end our friendship... you see i am so lonely and want to spend the evening with him but he has made plans with his friends! as usual!
yes u are right he demands love in friendship.... i see no aqua man can be friends with a girl without wanting love... but i dont have such double standards that i become a lover when he wants a lover and i get lost when he wants to be with his friends.... i hate this attitude!
o writesomething
i wish v find the right people in life... because i know the love that i have to give is deadly...100% of myself as u said it mind body and soul.
there is nothing that i wish for more than a love so deep that i lose myself in it.do u know what placements is a persons chart indicates this?
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double trouble gemini
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posted June 09, 2006 04:31 AM
scorpio was very close to what i wanted except for the dishonesty part.
scorpio men can be very unfaithfull and dishonest ... i have gone throught it and dont wish to have a relationship with a scorpio again, he would flirt with all the women in his life, at work in the neighbourhood.. everywhere.. just like my dad.. scorpio men are not trustworthy.. he left me feeling like an ugly duck!IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted June 09, 2006 07:29 AM
Sorry to read these things ladies.....I hope life eases for you soon...  I too am an all or nothing woman and very intense.....but I am just beginning to realise how difficult it is for the men. We must be a nightmare, especially for Aquas..... So it may be a good thing to step back sometimes and maybe try and look at it thro their eyes. I was with an Aqua guy for 8 years and my present man has Aqua moon.....both have the same things in common as far as the emotional thing go.....I am tooo much for them, too intense and full on..... but...the relationships are never boring, or taking the other for granted or knowing what is coming next.... What can a girl do...I suppose all we can do it be ourselves, but at the same time try and gain an understanding into the man's viewpoint and behaviour too!!  IP: Logged |
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