posted June 21, 2006 03:43 AM         

I am very good at expressing myself and getting it all out, but everytime I try and talk to him, somhow he manages to avoid really answering me. I don't know how he does it.
As time goes by, I feel very worn out by it all. I feel unhappy and that makes me want to find a way to solve all this, but I feel hopelessly tangled up in a web. He just doesn't understand what the problem is. I don't think I can change him.

Is there anything in the planets to signify change; what is happening; what should happen next?

Oh, and by the way- I know he loves me, but he doesn't ever like talking about commitment. He is probably the most faithful man on the planet, so I don't mean in that sense. He just hates conformity.

posted June 26, 2006 08:30 AM         

Hi. I just read about what's been on your mind. I am sorry that I fired so many questions at you in another forum. Now I have learned that you're a Gemini. Umm...according to my limited experiences, Gem girls are usually very private. They appear to others as energetic, exuberent is perhaps a good word, but internally they are constantly tired, because so much is always on their minds. And only few in their lives, generally, can be considered by the Gems to be the ppl who truly understand them, or somewhere near that degree. At the same time, Gems may guard their privacy with much care, or somehow they seem mysterious to others.

Oh oh I feel embarrassed that I may have made you feel your privacy was being invaded. You were implying your significant other is a Sag man? You said you loved him but now you felt tired. Would it be okay if I asked for your own and your Sag lover's Moon, Venus, Mars, and rising signs, so we can perhaps try figure something out and do the best we can? Or any notable aspects/mutual aspects?

But it seems to me that other knowflakes may have been aware that you tend to protect your privacy (for a lot of reasons, avoiding misunderstanding being one of them, I presume?) cautiously. That's perhaps why they didn't say much but wished you luck. If that's the case...

Best of luck...true love is so hard to find

P.S. ListensToTrees, your Moon sign doesn't happen to be Virgo, does it? Just a wild guess...which may give us a clue about...

posted June 26, 2006 08:50 AM         

His Moon is on Virgo, his rising sign is Scorpio. His Venus is in Cancer and conjunct my Mars in our progressive charts, both in retrograde. I was told that this was a strong karmic tie and we both have something to work out. There are also some strong links with Saturn. There is a mixture of good aspects and difficult ones, I would say more or less balanced.

I think I just find it difficult not living near him when we're apart. We can't live together in a small house (even the chart I had done advised against this), but I think it would be great if I find a place near him, can see him whenever but still have my own space....Saggis are too stubborn to change unless they truely want to....firey tempers too! (Not too mention my lunar one!)

I tend to think too much when I'm apart from him, analyse, etc. I wear myself out. Then when I see him, I know without any doubt that I truely love him!!!!!!

I can still do my spiritual searching! My boyfriend searches too, in his own way. He is good at uplifting others. We don't have to be siamese twins to be together.

Love & Moonlight

posted June 27, 2006 07:07 AM         

Uh, I'm confused...first you mentioned that your Sag boyfriend's Venus is in Cancer...then at the end of your post you said that his Venus is in Aquarius?

Also, I personally think his Mars sign and aspect/position is a significant factor to consider when it comes to romantic relationships