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Scorpio Chick
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posted June 24, 2006 12:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpio Chick     Edit/Delete Message
Hello all. I love this website and just want to say I enjoy it a lot!

I'm a 27 year old mother of one, and have recently started going to college. I know I have a tough row to hoe, but I know I will reap the rewards one day.

I've been single for about a year now, just working on myself and rearranging my life, and I've found it hard to juggle my son, school and a boyfriend. Recently I've met another Scorpio, and well, my Libra moon is really starting to show! I feel like I can't juggle it all, and I just want to break up with him.

The kicker is that he's got his smack together, kind, and sexy, and really into me. He's chased me for a long time. At times, I feel like I really adore him, and at others he really turns me off. I think that's more my Sun though, with the extremes, lol.

What say you about Scorpio men?

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pixelpixie
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From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005

posted June 24, 2006 01:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
He 'seems' perfect, but you don't feel it?
Libra Moon influence perhaps...but it may not work out for simple chemistry reasons.

What are your birth details.. and his.. maybe you have some negative aspects that are highlighted through interactions or even transits?

Maybe you are simply too busy right now to take it seriously.. more power to you.
Good luck to you and welcome!

* and GOOD ON YOU!!! to go back to school and be a strong guiding force for your child! Kudos!

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marsconjunctmercury
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posted June 24, 2006 03:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for marsconjunctmercury     Edit/Delete Message
I've had this before. I've had girls like the guy you describe, and only seen their merits long after i've given them away to someone else. I've done it countless times. I found i couldn't 'juggle' them at the time due to family / emotional problems and just turned my back on them because i didn't feel i could 'pull it off'. Despite what i percieved to be holding me back, the girls were still totally into me, which is a god given opportunity i wasn't brave enough maybe, to capatalise on. Now i've been on my own for ages, don't really go out socialising, and can't find a girlfriend. What a difference!
I've prayed for it to change on occasion and then i get another seemingly good opportunity, but something in my psyche and the way my life has been STILL holds me back. I hope it's not like this forever. I've got alot to give the right girl. But i think i'm at the stage where she's going to have to almost jump on me, because i've pretty much gone into my shell and mostly hibernate from all my friends.

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sthenri
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From: Generic New England City
Registered: May 2003

posted June 24, 2006 11:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
I knew a mars conjunct mercury with just the same character traits, when I was unavailable he would chase, when I had it together he could care less. Now he is with someone I introduced him to. He couldn't bother to give any love and support to her either as he promptly started looking around.

I don't understand why I would ever want to chase a guy now, I look for support first, attraction second.

For the poster, I would say that it's impossible to juggle all that and have a boyfriend unless he is supportive of your life now. There is no use pretending that you are going to get it together some day, and be like him. you need a man like you to relate to you. He sounds a bit cold to your situation and needs to communicate with you more to relieve you of your day to day pressures.

Then when your life is less complicated you two can get more serious. I have been through many boyfriends who seemed together and were impatient but I was direct in telling them what I needed-more support, less demands.

A taurus sun can't stand the chase and wants the domesticated life to be beautiful already. I can relate very strongly to libra moons-and someone who is perfect sometimes is holding back from getting truly emotionally involved.

Get someone who is 100% into making your life easier so you two can be domesticated.

Good luck,
Natasha
Taurus/Cancer Moon

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