posted June 28, 2006 06:05 PM         

my BFF, a male Gem has that placement but 20deg away, not aspecting. he is always setting his gorgeous eyes on someone new.

He is also very sexual and poweful with gem in the 8th sun, merc, venus & mars stellium and 1st house scorp moon, so maybe that is influencing him more so than the venus/mars.

posted June 28, 2006 06:16 PM         

My gemini venus is a air singleton in the 5th house that definitely does NOT harmonize with rest of my personality. Especially since I have a virgo moon. I don't do small talk, and my outgoing side comes out only at parties or with intimates.My Close ones don't believe it when others tell them I'm shy.

posted June 28, 2006 07:57 PM         

we both have something in common and that is the ability to detach very quickly. hmm.. we both have sun conj moon..

there are so many variables here. i'm just speaking from my own experience. there's always a contrary view.

dulce, you must be a cancer, right?

posted June 28, 2006 11:16 PM         

You are not a passionate person in the normal sense. Your sexual contacts are made with enthusiasm but not much fire. You are a bright spark but no glowing ember. The earthy, emotional Venus is at a disadvantage in the airy, heady, intellectual atmosphere of Gemini. Here she loses much of her physical warmth and devotional power. Instead of judging and valuing experience through the feelings, she rationalizes. This is the sign of intellect, the world of thought, reason and cold logic. The loving Venus lives here in the mind and very little in the body.

You are a mental lover. You engage in affairs for the idea of love and are frequently disappointed. You dream up images and situations that people can't measure up to and circumstances won't allow. You idealize your attractions. You work yourself into a mental state of desire that is electrifying but short-lived. You can't maintain a passionate relationship for long- your love affairs have to be continually revitalized by the power of your imagination, for your energy is of restless, nervous origin and lives off the conflict and contract of ideas.

You understand love- you can write about it, talk about it with extraordinary insight- but you don't feel love to the depths of its wonderful profundity as ordinary long-suffering and tormented lovers do. You experience a fleeting, superficial sensation. At times, you are even intensely jealous. But always it is an attachment of the mind, and it wanes as soon as you know the person sufficiently or a substitute new source of knowledge is available.

You enjoy having admirers and you usually manage to attract quite a few at a time. You are extremely interesting and amusing company. You can debate just about any subject. Venus gives you the artistic verve and panache to impress the most sophisticated audiences.

She refines your mind, makes it lyrical, poetical, imaginative. You can detach yourself from the human scene in a way others can’t. As a writer, actor, or entertainer reporting or miming the weaknesses and absurdities of the passing parade, you are peerless.

You enjoy attention and diversity. You love to flirt. Because your emotional anchors are short-tied and seldom get hooked on the bottom, you are capable of keeping several love affairs going at once. Though these dalliances often cause you a fair amount of trouble, you revel in the fun, excitement and danger of multiple affairs and slip in and out of romantic snares with a will o’ the wisp dexterity. You don’t really fancy the obligations of married life. If you do marry, you often marry twice. Rarely do you find the man or woman you are looking for, but by one of the foibles of human nature that you can lampoon so amusingly, you insist on fidelity in your romantic entourage. Venus in Gemini people love to have a harem of vivacious and intelligent men or women whom they can visit or call up at any hour of the day or night.

You entice the opposite sex in an indefinably subtle way with suggestion of promise, a floating seductiveness, and aura of refined and mysterious intimacy that when reached for, just isn’t there. You delight. You disappoint. You delight again.

You are fond of traveling. You don’t like hard physical work or the seamy side of life. You are attracted to quasi-artistic occupations where you can demonstrate your talents for original ideas and invention. Music, drama, teaching and writing also appeal, but sometimes you are hampered by a lack of formal education due to restlessness in your youth.

The Venus in Gemini woman has a rather material outlook where love is concerned. She is likely to use her wits and sex appeal to extract money and gifts from her beguiled admirers.

This combination gives a flair for trickery in both the male and the female, and an adroitness at providing remarkably plausible cover stories.

posted June 29, 2006 04:20 AM         

Not sure how this expesses itself. I do love communication, I have very good hands

I do like a bit of verbal jousting or an edge to the romance.

Its in my 7th House too!

posted June 30, 2006 06:06 AM         

What does it do for you?

posted July 01, 2006 09:33 AM         

Sometimes it can mean a good cook or someone who is close to nature, also loves companionship and talking, and electronic gadgets.

Mars in Gemini, loves to have the weekend sewn up with lots of activities, prefers city to country and is very close to family or makes others family.

Doesn't like to be attached unless there is a purity/commitment thing, at least the person has to be someone to bring home to Mother.

Mars in Air is not as physically expressive as Mars in Earth or Fire.

As a double fire mars, I need more hand holding but the sweet nothings help.

posted July 01, 2006 11:39 AM         

Once I know you, I laugh, smile and do all the funny Gem things, but flighty? Not this Gem. I do take my relationships w/my family and friends very seriously (Cancer Moon in the 11th).

posted July 03, 2006 04:24 AM         

In fact sometimes it means I can almost counter-act my Scorpio Moon and think through my intensity, which is frustrating when I can see a girl reacting to it without giving me the benefit of the doubt.

I've noticed that people are always very combatative with me, I have to be on my guard a lot. Seems I bring the fight out of them. This can be used to inspire or just drive me nuts with having to fight so many fights all the time!

And Natasha, I am VERY physically affectionate - VERY. But that probable has more to do with my other placements (Mercury & Venus in the 2nd?).

I like intellectual, spiritual and physical stimulation all at the same time. Some call me fussy.

posted July 03, 2006 04:38 AM         

I can't rationalize my emotions,i don't like flirting,i'd never use my charms for profit and
i don't want my weekend full of activities.I don't change (and don't wanna) partners every now and then and so on...

(10th house Venus)

posted July 05, 2006 10:31 PM         

Thanks for your answers!

posted July 07, 2006 06:00 PM         

But if anything, being fickle is rather opposed to being rational.

Regardless, "Rationalizing vs Emotionalizing" has nothing to do with fickleness. Consider Gemini and Pisces- One rationalizes, one emotionalizes; both are fickle.