posted July 30, 2006 12:37 AM         

I think if the Soulmate passes on after you meet them in this life, perhaps you were not meant to be together during this incarnation, so you could both fulfil the Soul Purpose for which you've come. Or, if you still are (assuming they've not passed on, into the 'great beyond'), you might be reunited with them at some later time. This period of not being together is probably meant for each individual to work out individual karma separately.

If you are not to see them again in this life, and there is much longing and there are strong karmic ties to the Soulmate, you will definitely meet again, in the next birth, and if it is meant that way then, you will be together. I think it all depends on what you & the Soulmate have decided you want as Soul lessons for each life; only you two can know for sure.

When you say "soulmate", are you referring to the Primary Soulmate (who I've been talking about), or one of several soulmates we can have, which could include family members or friends?

This is a neat topic, Philbird. What brought on this question (if you feel like sharing)?

posted July 30, 2006 10:51 PM         

Yes, I think I understand what you're saying. Not to sound corny either, but you mean someone who "completes you" in some way, right? A person with whom you can share that companionable silence with, who 'gets' you without all the verbiage. That must have been some connection!!

I'm so sorry for your loss, Philbird!! It must hurt so much!! I'm sure s/he was and is aware you love her & miss her, and that some part of her energy is still around you.

I hope my earlier comments didn't sound too flippant! I'll be thinking of you, sending you healing love to help you get thru this.