posted August 11, 2006 03:24 AM         

Birthdates
Mine - 13 June 1968 (10:14)
His - 14 Oct 1965 (14:27)

posted August 14, 2006 11:51 PM         

Someone told me recently that ours is a relationship that is fated, because my sun conjuncts his north node and his sun conjuncts my south node, is there any truth to this?

This person also told me that as my sun is in his 4th house (synastry overlay) that either I would cause disruption to his household, or, would likely move in with him. Which is possible/true or are they both just possibilities?

Also appreciate if you could tell me what the positive signs are between our charts.

posted August 18, 2006 05:15 AM         

You have such a mixture of positive and negative aspect no wonder he keeps coming back to you.

Your suns are trined, your sun is conjunct his Jupiter, his sun squares your moon,
both Mercury's are trined, your mercury is conjunct his Jupiter, his sun trines your Venus, your Venus squares his Uranus-another indicator of the on/off pattern.
your sun trines his mars-strong physical attraction indicator.
your mars is conjunct his Jupiter, his moon is squaring your Jupiter, his sun is in opposition with your Saturn-another difficult aspect.
His moon is conjunct your sun-very positive aspect! although in traditional astrology they prefer it to be male sun-female moon, I think it works well either way.

As far as the fated question about the nodes, I personally believe that Important relationships in our lives often have conjunctions with either node.
Your sun conjunct his north node is an indicator that he has a valuable lesson to teach you, perhaps you should learn to take the initiative, he seems to have the power here-you need to learn to balance it. He may very well be in your life to teach you to rely on yourself more.
You have your north node in Aries, I'm very familiar with this as mine is also.
The North Node in Aries represents a karmic drive to embrace your identity, to make your own decisions and live your own life. The South Node in Libra represents a longing for relationship. The longing is so strong and intense, that you often will try to make the connection by doing the Libra thing, trying to be the person you think your partner wants. This never works. You will find fulfilling relationships only when you embrace your own desires and wants (Aries), take the risk of being your own person, following your impulses. Only then can the right relationship appear.
His sun conjunct your south node in Libra, is a good indicator that he has called the shots in more then one lifetime, it is time for you to learn to take control and decide what you want.

The 4th house question is complex, in can indicate quite a number of things here are a few,
The placement of the Sun in fourth house of a partner's chart suggests that vitality and creative self-expression have a dramatic effect on the other's home and domestic circumstances. This placement often produces an intense interaction at a very deeply emotional or visceral level. In marital relationships, the partner tends to provide a base of operation for the expansion of self-expression. This position promotes a powerful connection. A very basic sense of shared identity is felt between you and your partner. You have a strong desire to protect and defend your partner, and there is a feeling that you will always be in each other's corner. You affect your partner deeply, and your partner is likely to be very sensitive to your actions. Your partner is likely to feel a strong bond, and might feel somewhat dependent on you for emotional support. This is an intimate and personal connection, and it is not always a rational one. In fact, you may stimulate the inner child of your partner, and he or she may not always respond to you in ways that make sense.

I hope this helps some, I'm only an intermediate astrologer.
Blessed Be!
Char