posted August 20, 2006 06:41 AM         

It's nice to be a member of such a large group I've been interested in astrology for quite some time now and I have a
question to the group. My boyfriend and I have been together for over three years now (we live in seperate homes) and we
have a caring and affectionate relationship. But, when the issue of
children comes up, he is strictly against having a child and each
time we've talked about it he says he doesn't want the responsibility and that he's happy this way. We end up in tears and
drop the topic. My question is about the placement of Saturn in his natal fifth house. Having saerched about this particular placement, I strongly suspect this is the main reason why he is against kids so much. The ruler of his fifth house, Uranus, is also in direct opposition to Saturn in the fifth. His Chiron is also scarily close to Saturn, although it falls in his sixth house. Does this placement
mean he'll never want to or be able to have kids or even if he does, they'll be unhealthy? His chart has a wonderful water grand trine, his moon is in Cancer in the tenth house, so I believe he would make
a wonderful dad. However, it may not even happen, as we are both pretty past our most fertile years. Could anyone help me with this question pls? Here is our birth info:

R (male) 20 September 1965, 8.10 AM, Surrey, ENGLAND
E (female)22 May 1968, 7:15 AM Ankara, TURKEY