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Topic: communication?????
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scorpiopride Knowflake Posts: 80 From: marysville, wa. Registered: Jun 2006
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posted August 30, 2006 04:28 AM
Hello everyone!I just wanted some advice on where to look in my boyfriends chart to find some info on communication. See I know he loves me but he is very inverted when it comes to communication. We can talk casually on and on forever but when it comes to anything serious or about certain things he clams up and I hit this insta-wall he throws up. It is very stressful for me because I am one of those people that NEEDS to talk about things. Occasionally he has a few drinks and calls me up and tells me things that are bothering him or whatever but other then that it's nothing. He is also very closed lipped about his family and his past. he answers my questions but will only talk about these things if I ask. So ya anyways can someone tell me where I would look for "communication style", if you will, in his chart? IP: Logged |
geminstone Knowflake Posts: 887 From: Golden, CO Registered: Nov 2004
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posted August 30, 2006 05:28 AM
Hi Scorpiopride ~ My own experience with a very similar 'insta-wall' type... look to Mercury. It's very possible it be retrograde, which gives to internalizing the planets focus/energy. Maybe check out the house where Gemini resides, as well as the sign situated in the 3rd (where Gemini rules naturally). Sign and house placement of Mercury with attention to aspects that involve it, are a very good bet in any communication type of investigations... as far as I understand Wish I could give something more, but I have yet to keep the 'insta-wall' company from finding work ... Your frustration,.. I know it too. ~ geminstone IP: Logged |
scorpiopride Knowflake Posts: 80 From: marysville, wa. Registered: Jun 2006
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posted August 31, 2006 02:17 AM
thank you geminstone. That gives me a place to start. I'm glad someone understands my frustration with this. At first I just thought it was because we hadn't been together that long and I didn't want to push him, ya know? But it's later now and he hasn't changed. It drives me crazy cause sometimes I know things are bothering him and he will not talk about it. See he is a gemini and oh boy are his twins apparent to me. I know and love them both but I wish he'd let me know them better. ya know? whenever he feels threatened (for lack of a better word) BAM! that wall goes up and it's end game until he relaxes. anyways thanks again hopefully I'll find some kind of answer to this mystery.IP: Logged |
geminstone Knowflake Posts: 887 From: Golden, CO Registered: Nov 2004
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posted August 31, 2006 11:59 PM
'Threatened',... funny you use that one too The other one I at times use, 'vulnerable'... Either of those 2 fit what my own perception has been, so far. Interesting... I too am a Gemini but, I am more than happy to talk and, I DO have Mercury retrograde... then again, so does my husband and, to boot, his is conjunct Pluto. It's also conjunct my own retrograde Pluto. It's an interesting frustration and, we actually have agreed that this is an area where we definitly hold important lessons for each other. It easily could be the ONE thing we can agree on Hence,... class is in session... well, when 'insta-wall' contracts have not been put into place Anyway, good luck to you... hopefully someone with more understanding of what it is you need to look around for astrologically will catch your string. ~ geminstone IP: Logged | |