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phase 3
Knowflake

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From: sydney, australia
Registered: Aug 2006

posted August 30, 2006 05:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for phase 3     Edit/Delete Message
Hi all,

I recently met an amazing woman (a Scorpio), however I'm currently in a relationship with a lovely Cancer woman (I'm a Leo)

I've told this lovely Scorpio that I'm seeing someone, and she seems OK for the two of us to just be friends.

She was working here in Sydney when I met her, and she has since gone back to the US, and we keep in touch via e-mail and the telephone.

I am certain that there is a strong potential for a love relationship, however at the same time I could never intentionally hurt my girlfriend.

I've never actually been in this kind of situation before, where I'm seeing someone for a long time now, and I meet someone who has just floored me completely !

Has anyone else been in a similar situation ?
What did you do ?

I guess everything happens for a reason -- whatever is meant to happen will happen.

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breakfast on pluto
Knowflake

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posted August 30, 2006 09:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for breakfast on pluto     Edit/Delete Message
as i am scorpio girl;and i had 2 bad experience leo men..scorpios are prided creatures..think twice;what do you want..passion(scorpio) or softness(cancer);rebel(scorpio) or lovely cancer..

think twice..but i can say that there are miracles between a scorpio and leo..like big love story...

take care..

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Dulce Luna
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From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006

posted August 30, 2006 09:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message
I'm gonna quote you because it is so true...

quote:
whatever is meant to happen will happen


I don't know, are you satisfied with your current relationship? Do you want something more? There's so many questions...I guess it depends on what you want.

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The Virgin
Knowflake

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posted August 30, 2006 10:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Virgin     Edit/Delete Message
So many relationships have been broken apart because of chemistry with another. Then in the end everyone ends up alone. (in general) Just something to think about.

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Sun Virgo, moon Pisces, Libra rising,mercury venus 12th house all conjunct, Mars Leo.

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LeoLys
Knowflake

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From: North Florida,
Registered: Nov 2005

posted August 30, 2006 11:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoLys     Edit/Delete Message
i am a leo woman. faced with your decision, i'd probably atleast get to know the scorpio better. They are really super sexy, but they also have a lot of hidden agendas, hidden feelings, etc...whereas a cancer is more sensitive to your pride. i think it comes down to a matter of who can 'feed the need' better. if what you want is sex, it's the scorpio, if what you want is someone who will never turn thier back on you, choose the cancer. like someone else said "weigh the risks".

and remember, when you are fire, what it does to mix with water. sometimes its good, sometimes its very cold.

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Leo Sun
Cappy Moon
Cancer Asc.

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Dulce Luna
Knowflake

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From: The Asylum
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posted August 30, 2006 11:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message
Hey, Cancers are sexy too you know, we just hide it better

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Atlenta
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posted August 30, 2006 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Atlenta     Edit/Delete Message
Hi, I would like to say that..
just ask yourself.. who do you love?

You'll know the answer.

If you enjoy playing relationship games and get yourself trapped in a complicated mess it is up to you.

because if you loved the cancer, and dumped her for the scorpio, getting back with miss cancer would be hard.. disrespect is already involved.

However, if you're unhappy with the cancer, then leave.. but you might find out if it is love or lust for the other.

One more thing, if Ms Scorpio knows you broke up with someone for her, she might think that eventually if you meet someone better you will break with her for that person.. so trust may also not be there.

I'd say usually a person who is genuine about you would stay away and respect your relationship if they knew you were attached.

I met guys I really like and I like them all the more because they were attached and didn't hit on me.

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phase 3
Knowflake

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From: sydney, australia
Registered: Aug 2006

posted September 01, 2006 01:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for phase 3     Edit/Delete Message
Hi all,

Many thanks for all the replies. I actually found it all genuinely helpful.

I sincerely love my Cancer girl, and am very satisfied with our relationship. We have a great harmony together

I know I had a whole lot of confusion due to the chemistry with the Scorpio girl, however it never crossed my mind to dump my lovely Cancer girl.

I dislike playing games and always want things to be genuine.

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I'd say usually a person who is genuine about you would stay away and respect your relationship if they knew you were attached
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So true !

I'm so glad this confusion has passed.

When I look back at my first post, it seems a bit silly to me now...there was no way I'd leave my girlfriend, and also no way I'd ever cheat on her or anyone (never have / never will)

Again, many thanks for all of your insights / thoughts, it's appreciated.

All the best !

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Dulce Luna
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posted September 01, 2006 08:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message
Thats good to hear, good luck with your crab...hehe

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SavageScorpio
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From: Fort Worth, TX. US
Registered: Mar 2005

posted September 01, 2006 10:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SavageScorpio     Edit/Delete Message
I know this is really off-topic but...

Hey, how do you like Sydney? I've always wanted to go to Australia. I think it's interesting that astrology is so big in Australia, compared to other parts of the world. I know there's like a population of like 3 million right? and like 98% of it live in the cities/capital.

What are the people/culture like?

Is it affordable to live?

What's the main "religion" there? Is it more liberal/conservative, and what about the government..

What kinds of jobs are prominent there?

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OzMeg222
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posted September 02, 2006 05:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message
Population of the country is about 21 million. 3 million in melbourne.

Sydney is probably the most expensive place to live here, but I'm not really a fan. I prefer melbourne or brisbane, but especially melbourne. Shouldn't really say any of that though cos I live in the country away from the crowds. Lol.

I've been a few places on this beautiful planet but have never been anywhere with as much space, diversity and spirit as right at home.

I have however, found canadians share similar values, humour and government system to us.

Not sure about the visa situation for work over here, but we have rather low unemployment in most areas. Work is easy to come by.

I can recommend some good films that kinda show what the place is like but can't be bothered writing them right now. Sorry!

If you can come over, do it! I used to live in an area where pretty much every foreign backpacker in the world came to and they all loved my beautiful country.

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