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Topic: Somebody please help....
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InLoveWithLife
Knowflake Posts: 50
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Registered: Aug 2006
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posted September 09, 2006 07:28 PM
 
Hi,
sorry to start another thread on cancerian males. but i am reeeeally confused this time. I dont even know how to explain it. Its not about him, its about US.....sometimes i feel tht he is the guy i had been waiting for all my life....so caring and warm. And sometimes I get just soooo....well, scared....it seems like he is another of those selfish, unemotional commitment-phobic jerks.Can somebody plzzzzzzz hv a look at my chart and his and help me. I am asking for help with the charts bcoz somehow I get the feeling today tht all tht i had thought till now was just my imagination. how can one hv such conflicting views abt someone. i am afraid anything i tell abt him might just be a figment of my stupid imagination. I tried doing a short compatibility report on cafeastrology.com, and it shows up a very conflicting analysis. I hv never been this confused in my life. I dont even feel like talking about what happened today and i am the first one to 'talk things out'. The worst problem is tht i am sooo attracted to this guy. and he is a good friend. and still today makes me feel tht i dont knw him at all !! Anyways, any help on this is much appreciated. I know all my birth data, but only his bday and year. so here it goes: Me: 16th January, 1981, 5:30 p.m. Lucknow, India
Him: 23rd June 1983 I wish I cud cry but the tears won't come.... IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
Knowflake Posts: 50
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Registered: Aug 2006
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posted September 09, 2006 07:36 PM
I take soooo long usually to open up to guys. And today i thought i wud really open up to him (after almost one year or friendship). But i am feeling really shattered right now.IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
Knowflake Posts: 1341
From: England
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted September 10, 2006 12:46 PM
Oh, poor you,  I hope the situation gets better for you soon.
Well, unfortunately I can't compare your charts since he doesn't have a birth time, but I checked the rest of his chart and he's got a Sagittarian Moon which explains a lot. Don't get me wrong, I love them but that's the problem! haha Sag Moon men are notorious flitty flirts. They're fairly changeable and hard to get hold of which could account for the change from his other Cancerian nature. I'm not sure, cos I'm not an expert, but I think he has a stellium in Sag with his Moon, Uranus and Jupiter. At a guess I'd think Uranus would increase changeability and Jupiter would make him want to indulge in fun all the time.... not sure. Also, his chart seems to have all the planets split on either side fo the chart which would indicate a see saw personality. It would help if you got the birth time as well.
Don't really have time to look more now, but I hope that explains him a bit  IP: Logged |
Taurus80
Knowflake Posts: 350
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Registered: May 2005
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posted September 10, 2006 12:50 PM
hope you feel better soon InLoveWithLife.. hugs..take it one day at a time much love~ IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
Knowflake Posts: 50
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posted September 10, 2006 03:51 PM
Thanks a lot MNF and Taurus80
this guy has really got me. He can read me like a book, but he himself is really hard to predict. He is able to manipulate the conversation in whtever direction he wants. He is able to see thru anything I say...as in what i really mean, and why i said wht i said. He makes me laugh and he makes me cry.
Somehow yday i got the feeling tht he is really selfish and cold. He usually comes across as a very nice guy. But yday he himself admittted tht he is nice to ppl bcoz its 'useful'. And tht really shook me to the core. I am really scared of getting hurt.
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Sharon49
Knowflake Posts: 12
From: Bastrop, La, USA
Registered: Aug 2006
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posted September 10, 2006 07:39 PM
Hello my friend, lets get it established that you are a Capricorn woman and he is a cusp Gemine/Cancer- Cancer man. Normally this could be a good union, but what you are feeling may outweigh the logics. No one really knows the intent of anothers heart, but if he is not really mature, this may all be a sheild he has put up. Most Cancers or MOONChildren are good people. They tend to be very easy to get their feelings hurt, but may not stop twice to hurt your. With you being an earth sign, you should mix with him fairly well. Don't let him continue to hurt you. Lay it out on the table for him. Tell him how you feel, but that you will not be another notch on his belt. Once he sees that you are for real, he may change his attitude completely and make a good mate. Just remember that he is really quiet unsecure and tries to act like he is a HE-Man and deep down he is really running scared. You would be a good mate for him and could make his life a lot richer by far than some other signs would. He would be lucky to have you and once he gets straighted out, He may be just right for you. You must hold your ground though and let him know he can't walk over you!------------------
A true Virgo! IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
Knowflake Posts: 50
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Registered: Aug 2006
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posted September 12, 2006 01:55 PM
You are absolutely right Sharon !
Well, I have gotten mad at him in the past, whn his sarcastic sense of humor hurt me a couple of times. Each time he was genuinely sorry and has acted quite sensitively whr joking is concerned frm then on.
But now the problem is his hot-and-cold behaviour. One day he will look directly into my eyes with tht silly sentimental smile. Next time he will avoid alleye-contact and act very cool,detached and practical.IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
Knowflake Posts: 50
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Registered: Aug 2006
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posted September 16, 2006 02:27 AM
Hi,I am kind of at the end of the rope today. cant explain what happened, but gives me a feeling tht he either likes me but is not ready to go ahead, OR, tht he has never really looked at me like tht, and never will. I managed to get his birth time though 23rd June, 4:27 pm, India
Not sure about the place though....somewhere in Kerela....does it make too much of a difference? My birthdata....
16th Jan, 5:30 pm, Lucknow, India Any kind of help would be appreciated. Can anyone tell if we will get together? (can tht be told by the transits or sth....). Today I got the feeling tht he is 'the one'. and today my heart broke for the n'th time. Can't tell wht turmoil I am going through. It always always happens with me. Just when I begin to realize tht i am falling in love, it wud turn out tht the guy is not interested in me. Is there something wrong with me or sth ? I guess I should give up all of hope of ever being loved. IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
Knowflake Posts: 50
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Registered: Aug 2006
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posted September 16, 2006 10:36 AM
Ok, i think i know the city too....Me: 16th January, 1981, 5:30 p.m. Lucknow, India
Him: 23rd June 1983, 4:27 p.m, Cannanore, India Once again, any kind of help with this is deeply appreciated Thanks folks, InLove IP: Logged | |
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