posted September 12, 2006 10:32 PM         

Maybe I just have a huge fear of rejection! He reckons I ignore him but he ignores me too. I must admit that lately he's been the one doing the calling but thats when he's drunk.

I never have the guts to call him even after he's called me. Its bizarre.

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posted September 13, 2006 03:46 AM           

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"

"Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation"

posted September 13, 2006 09:05 AM         

Lol. Thats the other reason I'm so frustrated with the whole thing cos aren't I supposed to be the mature one?

posted September 13, 2006 09:59 AM         

I remember one time we hung out had a nice time and then a entire week goes by nothing from him and of course I did not call him. I kept getting this strange pull to call him finally I broke down and did so. When I text him and asked him how was his holiday and things he said it was good and asked about mine, immediately he asked when can he see me again. I just saw that he was wanting to see me again but waited until I reached for him. I was like how stupid. We still struggle with this..

posted September 13, 2006 10:14 AM         

When we are together it's intense and so comfortable, physically he makes the moves, kisses and hugs (no sex yet), but if I talk about my feelings for him he withdraws. And one minute he'll answer my texts straight away and the next he completely ignores me for a month at a time - it is so frustrating. Then you spend all this time struggling with yourself about whether or not to initiate the communication - AGH!
I've wondered though if it has anything to do with my Saturn (Gemini) opposite his Mercury (Sag)???

posted September 13, 2006 11:56 PM         

Of course I leave him alone when he's done that but without fail he starts chasing me.

He seems to remind me of myself a lot or maybe thats just wishful thinking. I do know he is very shy, thoughtful and universally loved by everyone who knows him.

Our mutual friends laugh at us both but I don't think its funny. This cat and mouse game has gone on for 8 months now.

Whenever we're together its easy, extremely comfortable and very affectionate. Face to face we never have a problem even if we haven't seen each other for a while and we just bump into each other, we seem to pick up exactly where we left off.

Mama Mia-
Its frustrating isn't it? I know I'm not the most direct person on the planet but how the heck are you supposed to know where you stand with these guys???

And your right the pisces/pisces thing is bizarre. Now I know what it must be like for someone interested in me! LOL

Cat71-
He's always answered my txts but I've stopped contacting him altogether. He rings me but I don't think drunken calls count. We had a huge fight a few weeks ago so I was suprised he rang at all.

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The guy is so confusing! When he rang me last week he was upset cos I keep ignoring him (I don't, we both just kinda seem to wait for the other to make the first move) and kept asking if I regretted being with him. Five minutes later he's telling me that 'everyone' bags me out and he just really wants to stick up for me. Thats silly though cos my best mate told me its just his smart ass mates teasing him. Seemed important to him though which I thought was kinda sweet if somewhat misguided.

I'll see him this weekend and try to catch him when we're both sober. If I have the guts! I'm as bad as him I usually only txt him when I've got dutch courage.

I think maybe I should ring him and catch up on neutral ground (not the pub!), mutual friends are having a bbq sat so if he comes to that it won't be so confrontational.