posted September 15, 2006 01:28 PM         

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"

"Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation"

posted September 15, 2006 01:35 PM         

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"

"Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation"

posted September 16, 2006 05:35 AM         

Arent you Pisces and he Aqua.....did you find that a very challenging combination?

So do you think you will ever be able to finish it for good?

posted September 18, 2006 09:57 AM         

You have to get sick and tired..Im there!!!

posted September 18, 2006 11:20 PM         

Matters of the heart.

What draws people together, I will never pretend to know. But I do know that I will ALWAYS follow my heart, good and bad and looking back have never regretted doing so.

We are drawn together for a reason, or, most probably many reasons. I try not to question too much anymore, just go with the flow and try not to hurt anyone as I go along.

Sending Peace, Love and Light

Terri

posted September 19, 2006 06:47 AM         

I know just how magnetic those Aqua men can be as you know and so I can understand just how fed up you must be to have come to the decision to end it.

posted September 19, 2006 11:56 AM         

He is too afraid of what we are as a couple and he is a control freak but in a very subtle way and if he cannot control his own emotions and feelings he keeps things in an uproar and I hate that I like balance, I can go deep and its too bad he can't. He has baggage too of a relationship a woman hurt him badly and I think he felt the way about her that he feels about me and he hates that in a sense bc that gives me control so he thinks. Ido not care about control balance and peace is my thing. I like to know what is attracting me to a person like this after all that we have gone through..I want to know is there a lesson that I am not getting thats why I keep attracting him vise versa. At some point the light will come on. It is either meant to be or not..

posted September 19, 2006 05:00 PM         

I stated putting Astrology aside, cause it has been addressed in this topic. But I would be willing to place a bet that if one were to do a composite of our button pushers and ourselves and ourselves and an individual who does not push our buttons, things would look way different. Astrology, for me is a tool to help with evaluation of energy.

I have given up looking for the lessons, therein, could drive my self crazy doing that--have driven myself crazy doing that! I believe one may never know the lessons at hand and who is to say, maybe we are not even supposed to in each and every interaction/situation. If a lesson comes to me, I am thankaful and learn from it, but I am not looking anymore. Kind of like my view on relationships now, open, but not looking.

I too must have peace, but I believe peace is attained in many ways, balance of my soul being one of them. There have been individuals that have come my way, who have given me peace, even through tormenting me, cause in the end I knew I followed my heart and I did what I had to do...hence peace.

I have really taken to take one day at a time, even each moment at a time. Am so tired of wondering, worrying what is next. I believe we can not change the past and the future is ever-changing, so all we really have is the now.

I ask for the help of the Divine and dive in for yet another day.

Peace........

T

posted September 19, 2006 05:32 PM         

Ppl handle things differently I know, but when I end things or the end of things have come I am gonna know what happen why it happen and if it was a bad ending do what I must so that it does not happen again, that is why I like to know my lessons. I have always been this way and so far outside of this I have landed safely and peacefully on my feet, and as time goes I will with this also...

posted September 19, 2006 05:36 PM         

I had a dilemma a while back with my ex Cancer, crazy, psycho guy. I thought there were lessons to be learned so I tried to sitck it out, as friends, and deal with my biggest button pusher.

Then I stumbled onto Fayte's post on Univ Codes (I think) about "getting off the karmic payback wheel.

O, what food for thought!

I jumped off and ran!!!!

Take care

posted September 19, 2006 05:54 PM         

I read somewhere that our greatest teachers are our biggest button pushers, and that is a time when looking for lessons was driving me crazy!!

It was then that I really learned that the lesson itself was in not knowing the lesson--I think! Or, maybe sometimes it is just best to let it all go.

posted September 19, 2006 06:00 PM         

LOL!!! If I was in that situation and crazy I would have flipped it on him and started acting just as stupid as he was. He would have seemed like the sane one and I was crazy, that would have ended that. Its good to mirror a looney sometimes..LOL!! LOL!!

posted September 19, 2006 09:07 PM         

Now, there is no growth, because you two are not a harmonious we. Sometimes two people cannot grow together, often they fight and are not together mentally and emotionally, or one challenges the other too much. one person maybe from a different culture and wants things to stay the same.

Does your guy do okay on his own or does he need to be a couple all the time? Does he lean on you too much to fix the relationship?

Natasha
Taurus/Cancer

posted September 20, 2006 01:11 PM         

First off let me just say that I am not in pain, I was frustrated but not pain. I know that relationships are about growth and things to that nature that is why I enjoy them so much. What I was/am frustrated with is being dizzy going around and around in a circle with him, it has gotten old to me and just feel like I do not want to do it anymore.

There is no anger on animosity between he and I and infact I will see him prolly tonight in the gym. As long as he keeps his hands to himself we are ok. It is just one of those things were you just let it go. That is where I am with this.

I am moving on...And unlike alot of other times when I thought it was the end, I am ok with it this time...