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Topic: what would you do?
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Knowflake Posts: 617
From: Meet me in Montauk
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted September 24, 2006 01:22 AM
 
what would you do if a ex showed up out of the blue and said they loved you? (take into account its been years since youve seen each other)------------------
"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit" "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation" -Khalil Gibran IP: Logged |
OzMeg222
Knowflake Posts: 125
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Registered: Jul 2006
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posted September 24, 2006 03:38 AM
Wonder why.And probably tell them where to go. Better they come back into your life another way first, as friends maybe, then see what happens. Impulsiveness like that seems strange to me. Also, people change, I wouldn't know if he loved me now or me however many years ago. IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
Knowflake Posts: 62
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Registered: Aug 2006
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posted September 24, 2006 01:43 PM
I wud never ever go back to him....I guess i am talking about my ex here tho....bcoz after we broke up i realized tht we were just not right for each other.
So if he comes and tells me he loves me, I wud probably give him a stare and tell him tht he's crazy or sth.....IP: Logged |
Cardinalgal
Knowflake Posts: 902
From: Lincoln, UK
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted September 24, 2006 06:40 PM
Depends very much on how I felt/still feel about them. How do you feel and? IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
Knowflake Posts: 1092
From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted September 24, 2006 07:13 PM
Hmmm, it depends....
If he was my EX, knowing that I most likely wouldn't feel the same way, I would not go back to him. He is my "ex" for a reason and he will remain that way.
However, if its an old flame you never know. You may have felt that way the whole time and he just confirmed your feelings. But if you don't feel the same way, you musn't go back and you better be honest with him.
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BlueEyes24
Knowflake Posts: 305
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Registered: Jun 2006
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posted September 24, 2006 10:45 PM
For me personally, I would never go back to one of my exes. #1, I'm completely in love with my boyfriend, and #2, all my exes are exes for a reason. I really truly believe that everything happens for a reason, including separations from people in your life. BUT, if you really do still have feelings for this person, I would say follow your heart. Just remember why you broke up in the first place. IP: Logged |
Stargazer
Knowflake Posts: 715
From: Columbus OH USA
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted September 25, 2006 10:55 AM
I guess it would completely depend on the circumstances of the break-up...
and does he:
Still love you?
realised I love you?
In love with you?
Was he sober? Was it in person?
All these questions come to mind. I would be careful.... "Once bitten, twice shy"------------------
"The only limits are those of vision" IP: Logged |
earthycoco
Knowflake Posts: 6
From: UK
Registered: Aug 2006
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posted September 26, 2006 07:24 AM
Ditto Cardinalgal,It only matters how you feel... If you still care surely it's worth meeting up?? Come on....tell us  Best wishes, Earthycoco IP: Logged |
miss_muffet
Knowflake Posts: 455
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Registered: Mar 2004
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posted September 26, 2006 07:33 AM
If you still love your ex, great! If you don't, tell him to take a hike. Politely, of course.Miss Muffet ------------------
quote:
Age is strictly a case of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.
- by Jack Benny
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breakfast on pluto
Knowflake Posts: 186
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Registered: Apr 2006
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posted September 28, 2006 02:42 PM
he/she is probably alone and looing for someone(no;i ont believe actually this idea;but that can be)
if you know her/him better ;you can understand the reality;is she/he says true..and if you love him/her ;you have miracle babY!like films...find each other...i always want to believe idealism..but life is not like that..and this discourage me sometimes..anyway..take care IP: Logged |
Peri
Knowflake Posts: 1555
From: Kyiv, Ukraine
Registered: Dec 2003
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posted September 28, 2006 04:18 PM
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all my exes are exes for a reason...
I really truly believe that everything happens for a reason, including separations from people in your life...if you really do still have feelings for this person, I would say follow your heart. Just remember why you broke up in the first place
WELL SAID  IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
Knowflake Posts: 4848
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Registered: Feb 2002
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posted September 29, 2006 12:03 AM
"what would you do if an ex showed up out of the blue and said they loved you?"i would figure out what it was inside my ex that prompted him to make such a bold presence. may be for closure, and may be out of guilt? may be to be able to do something different in order to have the courage to pursue something bigger in life. you never know. IP: Logged |
SavageScorpio
Knowflake Posts: 139
From: Fort Worth, TX. US
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted September 29, 2006 03:49 AM
Depends how you feel about the person... if you loved em, that'd be like a dream come true...if not, it'd be like a nightmare.IP: Logged |
themysteryclub
Knowflake Posts: 108
From: caspian's kingdom
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted September 29, 2006 03:39 PM
This has happened to me before, my ex called me after three years to tell me he loved me. I apologized to him for any harm I might have done to him, got his email address but never gave him mine, and that was the end of it. It was made clear by me that the feelings were not reciprocated, but in a very gentle way. I don't think I'll ever see or hear from him again.good luck, like every one else said, follow your heart! TMC  IP: Logged |
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