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Topic: Cancer man _ they're so popular lately!
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willowing3
Knowflake Posts: 3
From: crazyville, md
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted September 28, 2006 11:53 AM
 
posted September 28, 2006 11:51 AM
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Longtime reader, first time poster here. I value you all for your insights...
Yet another Cancer man question...they seem to be rather popular these days.
Anyway, I am pisces Sun/Gemini Moon he is Cancer Sun/Scorpio moon (gulp). Oh yeah and he is 11 years my junior. I have been friends with the family for years and never thought more of him than family. Then after some grumbling from him about how I never hang later with the guys....well this past April he ended up coming up to my house late one night and we hooked up. Now a little background, I had just left an 8 year relationship in dec and we had bantered about 'friends with benefits' and he told me that if there was anyone he felt comfortable doing that with it was me...well a few weeks later it was in fact me. I also found out that he has been attracted to me ever since we met when he was 16. NOw, I shake my head at the age difference too (I'm 35, albeit young in heart) and he is an old cancerous 24, so I never think of the age thing when we're together..only when my gemini moon brain is overanalyzing....
So, now fast forward to September. We have hooked up regularly (at least every week) since then...as one might guess with the pisces/cancer thing...our connection is tremendous...sexually and in the non spoken variety. However, I have fallen head over heals (against my rather strong pisces will) and I don't know what to do....of course I am a huge wuss, and don't want to rock any boats by sharing my feelings with him...and I know being a cancer/scorp he has huge fears of expressing his huge feelings. It's like my gut tells me that he feels the same way about me...ie riduculously in love.....but the evil voice in my head says...no, you're old, he just likes the booty call. But it is never like a booty call, it is loving and spiritual...but my nagging fears are still there.....because he just won't tell me how he feels about us, and durn it I know, I'm a wuss too.So, guess a long winded expo to a short question...from what I have read, Cancers do not tread lightly in matters of love...that booty calls are rare because their deep emotional natures don't allow for shallow superficial encounters....anyone have thoughts on that...?
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OzMeg222
Knowflake Posts: 123
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Registered: Jul 2006
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posted September 29, 2006 06:24 AM
Sucks to be a shy pisces female! Especially with the most perfect crab-man in your life. I actually replied to this thread in the other forum too, lol.I have a similar thing going on, I'm even too scared to ask my best friend (who's married to his best friend) if he is interested. My situation was slightly different, he kept asking me out one night, I kept saying no only because I thought he was drunk and is absolutely gorgeous (hello pisces insecurities!) but later on that night I hooked up with him. Whole next morning we were chatty and he was very frendly, warm and 'selling himself' as the perfect boyfriend. I didn't know whether he was just paying lip-service or not so when I said goodbye I just said see ya and drove off, nothing else. I was kinda confused too cos there was a pisces-boy in the picture at the time who I'd been friends with benefits with for 8 months. If you've read any of my other posts you'll know about that one! I don't know what to do now. If I can get the balls in the next hour or so I'll ring my friend and ask her straight out. Good luck with your crab man, it sounds like he's yours if you want him. I know you're probably as bad as me and don't know where to go so I'm just gonna tell you to do what I should do (but probably won't, lol) just talk to him, make it more like a date leave out the sex (if you can control yourself!) and see what happens. IP: Logged | |
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