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Topic: another difficult pairing
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themysteryclub
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From: United States of America
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted September 30, 2006 04:16 AM
 
It seems that this is definently one of the spots to try and figure out how to reconcile the differences between some sun signs. So I was wondering: any one have any experiences between a Cancer woman and a Leo man? I would be glad to hear about it  Thanks! TMC IP: Logged |
Anita41
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From: Norway
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted September 30, 2006 07:10 AM
I know a cancer man living together with a leo woman for many years,
and he is very patient about her strong temper and high activity.
I think the cancer feels protected with her strong personality and will power,
definatly the dominant person in the relationship...but he is so calm and thats exactly what she needs.
I cant picture myself her as a leo together with another fire sign,
it would be explosive and drive her nuts.
I think the leo temper is most healthy together with someone airy or watery since it calms them and have alot more patience then they do.
Another thing I notice about them is that his clinginess and need of her, well,
she likes to feel needed and I guess it's because she feels she can be in charge and do this and that for him.
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Dulce Luna
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From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted September 30, 2006 08:28 AM
Arrrgh, Leo men (and women). I had a relationship with one....bad news. Not only did he lie alot, but he was pompous about it too!  I, as a cancer, find them difficult to get along with. I have no patience for them even with my fire mars (they seem to set it off oh-so-often).I remember one girl that I was in highschool with. Our last names were close in the alphabet so we had homeroom together for four years and starting sophmore year, we even had classes togehter. I don't know what the f*ck her problem was but she was always trying to start sh#t with me.  Then she would go and say that my moodiness was "hard for her to deal with" (Then don't acknowledge me! Its as simple as that). And she was soooo friggin pretentious, her and friends claiming CapeVerdian when it was obvious that they weren't. Her last name was the first giveaway,she didn't eat like us as Cape Verdians eat like the rest of us Africans- she's was too Americanized. She knows virtually nothing about Cape Verde. And it got sickening to me when she finally decided to be nice to me senior year, I knew it was an act but I just couldn't figure out why. Thats my take on leos, hope you found a good one.  *And I put the wrong smiley at the top of my page...its supposed to be this :/ IP: Logged |
themysteryclub
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From: United States of America
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted September 30, 2006 05:50 PM
lol, two totally different takes! I myself usually don't get into it with leo women (I am a cancer woman) because I find them a little annoying...though I do have a few leo friend. i think this might work more for me because I have both mars and venus in Leo. But I try to avoid leo men at all costs, but I've never been in an intimate relationship with one...until now. And it is driving me NUTS! So more input is definently encouraged. Thanks guys!TMC  IP: Logged |
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posted September 30, 2006 11:51 PM
My first real BF/relationship was with a Leo. Friends?=Fine. Deep long lasting relationship?=Forget about it.------------------
"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit" "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation" -Khalil Gibran IP: Logged |
lovely*
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posted October 01, 2006 02:08 AM
I've never known a Leo to lie. Nope nevah.IP: Logged |
teaologist
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posted October 01, 2006 01:51 PM
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teaologist
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posted October 01, 2006 01:58 PM
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themysteryclub
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From: United States of America
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posted October 01, 2006 05:42 PM
Well I am enthusiastic about the positive responses...but so far this relationship has been very strained! It seems like a very on-again off-again sort of thing. In fact, we didn't speak for two years! Simply because he didn't call and I was afraid of appearing too clingy so I didn't call either. He seems different from other leo's in that, the more time I spend with him, the more distant and non-commital he is. And then when I distance myself from him, after a while he starts being warm and affectionate again and eager to be around me. Trying to figure this one out...I obviously care enough about him that I think the relationship is worth the effort to try and make it work, but we will just have to see!TMC IP: Logged |
Anita41
Knowflake Posts: 157
From: Norway
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted October 02, 2006 12:06 PM
TMC,
If you are playing these mind games with eachother, going warm then cold,
then its not so much a matter of signs, really
I think everyone does this more or less.
You say he distance himself when you have been close for a while, that sucks.
Also if you didnt talk for 2 years because of misunderstandings, I have been through that, and my advice to you is to just forget about him and focus on yourself.
I doubt he will change or ever make any progress if its already been 2 years with no contact hehe..
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themysteryclub
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From: United States of America
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted October 02, 2006 11:20 PM
Anita 41- we didn't talk for two years, but now we are back in contact and seeing eachother regularily (last night we went to the movies). I had given up a long time ago about the relationship and truely never expected to ever see him again. But then out of the blue we made contact again. I didn't expect what an intensly joyful moment it would be when we saw eachother again, but it was just that, and now it certain events have set the relationship back in motion again, and it feels like it is out of our hands. I think one of the big lessons I am learning from this whole experience is too love myself unconditionally, and always put myself first, so that I am able to risk opening myself up to others. But your right, I should put myself first, always This relationship feels extremely karmic, so maybe I could take this topic a step further and some of you could give me some of your input about our synestry. This info in limited because I don't want to give out too much birth information, but maybe some of you can tell me what you think: Me:
Asc-Sagittarius
Sun-Cancer
Moon-Cancer
Mercury-Gemini
Venus-Leo
Mars-Leo
Jupiter-Gemini
Saturn-Capricorn
Neptune-Capricorn
Uranus-Capricorn
Pluto-Scorpio
NNode: Aquarius Him:
Asc-Sagittarius
Sun-Leo
Moon-Gemini
Mercury-Leo
Venus-Cancer
Mars-Aries
Jupiter-Gemini
Saturn-Sagittarius
Neptune-Capricorn
Uranus-Sagittarius
Pluto-Scorpio
NNode-Pisces From my limited understanding of Astrology I have surmised that our relationship is an intense mixture of good and bad. We also have extremely similar planetary house placement...like we both have scorpio in the eleventh, venus sun and moon in the eigth, and saturn neptune and uranus in the first. Not sure if this is good or bad. thank a lot! TMC IP: Logged |
Anita41
Knowflake Posts: 157
From: Norway
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted October 03, 2006 11:28 AM
TMC, I think I know what you mean when you say it feels like a karmic relationship.
That many weird things happens beyond our control and you feel a strong pull inside that you cant get rid of.
Which also makes you start working with yourself to make it work on the next level with the guy.Looks like you have great synastry with those same signs.
His venus in cancer on your sun and moon, and your venus in leo on his sun and mercury.
Both have sag ascendant.
And his moon in gemini on your mercury. Good luck
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themysteryclub
Knowflake Posts: 320
From: United States of America
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted October 03, 2006 02:56 PM
Anita41, Thank you! IP: Logged |
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