posted October 11, 2006 02:30 PM         

First, I was Born April 9th, 1983 at 10:21AM in Stephenville, NL, Canada

And the dude in question was born January 22nd, 1962, don't know time, but same location.

I met this guy sadly as his marriage to a Taurus was on the way out. And in the beginning we were absolutely best friends, and he even confided in me that he never talked with anyone like he could talk to me, loved me more than he did his wife, that was was left there was respect becuase of his children - all that.

When the taurus lady finally decided her lover nearby was worth more than he was, she left, and shortly after we began dating.

Then his family and friends got involved - is it normal for an Aquarius man to be controlled by his friends and family? Because I seen it - its ugly. I feel like I'm still fighting off the nasty things they made up about me in the process.

Anyway, it was good at times, bad in others. Looking back on it, it could be my posessiveness that did it, but hey, maybe he shouldnt have been telling me all those things above unless he was actually serious.

Suffice to say, one day I invited him somplace, he declined, I blew, and never spoke to him for 2 months after that because it was simply fustrating.

However, about 2 weeks into it, he's to my friends getting a haircut - something that I told him he should try, but he declined, saying that she didnt cut hair well, a few months before.

I'd go for a spin in car, he'd place himself outside in the yard in front of his garage, for me to notice him.

Then he's to my neibhours, chatting with a co-worker that he never did have contact with since i've known him.

One morning as he was going to work, he stood still in the parking lot staring as I passed in car.

All this considered, I said to hell with it - i needed to get somethign fixed on my car and he's by trade a welder, so I went to talk with him 2 nights ago - and its like NOTHING happened.

The train of conversation kinda went like this -

1. Car
2. My new job and how i was doing
3. Our mutual friend whose going through some problems of his own
4. what have I been up to and "Are you still going with that guy from this place?"

The last one took me completely by surprise becuase it took me 2 minutes to catch on to who he was talking about - this was a person I met and spoke to 3 times over the past 2 months and I drove him home to his place one night - that's it. Apparentely another co-worker had told him he saw me with this guy.

I just think it curious as to why a man who became so distant and said he didn't love me in the end would even care as to who I'm with now - if I was.

posted November 05, 2006 05:37 PM         

Aries girl here with Aquarian guy, too. Actually, I'm 5 days older than you . I see you have a Cancer rising. Mine is Capricorn. Ok, that's not why I replied...
Aquarius men are great! It is my opinion (and experience) they have the most noble heart. What you need to know, though, is that they value 2 things more than anything else in the world: their freedom and their friends. Mess with that and you'll get blown off (yes, even if he loves you). My ex was Aquarius as well and I have several male friends who share the same traits. I know it's difficult for you as an Aries woman (with the Cancer rising - need for security and protection), but with this guy you must not be posessive.
Because they value friendship so much, it's also vital NEVER to criticise his friends (or family!).
It's too bad you don't know his time of birth. Maybe his rising sign would have told you differently.
As for your synastry, I'm not an expert (far from! just having 4 planets in my 9th house as we speak and it's making me crazy about astrology) and I don't have much time cause I have a raport to finish but here goes nothing:
-his Sun falls in your 8th house (it's an indicator of sexual attraction)
-his Moon probably falls in your 3rd (good communication about emotional concerns)
-his Mercury is in your 9th (he stimulates your thoughs on religion, education, philosophy, and travel
-his Venus falls in your 8th (again! sexual attraction, again, seduction and fascination - mostly from your part)
-his Mars falls in your 7th house (sexual attraction you 2 could make a very dynamic couple)
Since we don't know his time of birth, I can't say where your planets fall in his chart and on what level this relationship influenced his.
The aspects are both good and bad. Unfortunately I don't have much time to check them out. But I did notice some aspects that might indicate some sort of karmic relationship:
-his Sun conjunct your Lilith
-his Venus conjunct your Lilith
-his Saturn conjunct your Lilith (these spell KARMIC to me - you had no chance not noticing him - and tight orb)
-his Pluto opposite your Moon (some kind of emotional need from your part, close to obsession with those planets in your 8th house)
-his Pluto opposed your Juno and your MC (still that emotional need and your fascination)
-his North Node trine your Sun (means you can help him on his spiritual path)
-his Chiron conjuncts your Moon
(emotional healing)
-his Lilith opposes your Moon (this relationship might be emotionally painful for him)
-his Psyche conjuncts your IC (along with Pluto - well... it is spiritual and intimate and quite intense...)
I'll return with more details later, if you'd like, altough I'm not sure how accurate my interpretations really are. I have a lot to learn about astrology.
Anyway, about this guy: make up your mind! Don't let your ego get in the way (well, you might be competing here on some level - Mars in the 7th house, conjunct your Pallas...). I can only imagine how you feel and I'm sure not going to tell you what to do. You have to decide for yourself. Just make sure you won't feel sorry about it (kidin'! you can't know that until it's too late...).
Hope everything works out!

Izo