posted October 20, 2006 05:53 PM              

i guess i AM quite impatient...whn the gemini side takes over as it did today

well i asked him for a movie...he was like 'hmmm...i'll see....i hv some work...not decided yet' ...gosh !!
so i told him right away 'i know u will say no'. he was like no no, its just tht i hvn't decided rite now, i will tell u later. i told him to give over. he does this...he has this thing abt schedules....if he has made some plan for the day, he is really mulish abt it. finally he was like 'actually i really want to get this work done today'. now the stubborn ass tht i am, i went ahead and asked him ki wht plans he has for tomorrow. its a major festival for we indians tomorrow. and i told him i'll be cooking and there will be sweets he said he wud come tomorrow. and heaven forbid if he doesnt !!

posted October 20, 2006 08:14 PM              

P.S. My "date" with the Cancer went so very well. I know yours will too.

posted October 22, 2006 05:43 PM              

Last night I told my Cancer guy that I fancy him and as it turns out he knew that and he fancies me too. So I say, tell him! I bet he likes you too.

Best

posted October 22, 2006 11:08 PM              

today we talked for 2 hours on the phone....somehow i started to tell him stories from my past. he really wanted to know more. in return he told me a few stories of his own, but still just funny ones.

but i think tht today we were not talking as friends. we were talking abt relationships. he was not verryyy open....just got some hints as to how he feels. i am not sure whr it is heading, towards heartbreak or towards a relnship, but we r getting somewhere.

I think i need a lot of more talking like this before we can get to the heart of things. i am very scared, at the same time i want to go on and see whr it leads us.

i dont think thr r going to be any 'dates' for us....either we decide to get involved, or we part ways....

posted October 23, 2006 12:46 PM              

yeah , i got your mail inlove and replied back today from office itself !

posted October 23, 2006 12:52 PM              

overboard in waht sense ?
do u mean , your calling him twice or regularly , i dont think he would ever show that he is dilikeing it or something .
they are too polite for it be it men or women .
and thats why it becomes difficult to say whether the person is really interested or not bcos they never act pricey or something .

posted October 24, 2006 11:28 AM              

Ooooohh! He really likes you, trust me. My fella was just like that and look where we are today. He finally worked up the nerve to touch me last night. I think that's what the "I'm afraid I'll do something wrong" was about. He touched me on the arm and I could tell he really didn't want to leave even though we were both just freezing.He asked me about my earrings and made small talk. Finally in that sweet, bashful voice he gets he said "could I give you a little hug?" and hugged me before I had even finished answering. It was so sweet.
It sounds to me like this fellow really likes you and is perhaps just afraid to say so.

posted October 24, 2006 01:38 PM              

I think so too....just tht i get confused every now and then. tht is mostly because thr's a mismatch between wht he does, and wht he says. All his actions make me think tht he likes me. But he keeps saying stuff like he is not into dating, doesn't want to have a gf bcoz it takes time and effort. That's wht gets me confused.

But the more i think about that 2 hr call, the more i get convinced tht he likes me. Nobody would talk to someone for 2hrs if they have work to do !

posted October 25, 2006 06:35 AM              

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ummm .......the answer is yes and no . reasoning being cancers are big flirts , they dont usually get caught bcos they normally maintain class (intheir own minds ) and thats what the differnece between camncers and gems . they wont talk to any and everyone but if they are out of their shell , you can't stop them .

at the same time , if he is talking to u , that in a way means you are someone that he gives special value to .

posted October 25, 2006 08:49 AM              

that's the whole point...there is no 'everyone'. As in, no other girls. And he himself admitted tht he is not tht comfortable talking to girls. And most girls he just finds plain irritating. So I was like, do i irritate you...and he said 'of course not, otherwise i wudn't be talking to u'.

posted October 26, 2006 08:50 AM              

his jupiter is in sagittarius (so is his moon).
I will think about what you said. What I can say is that he is very different with me than with anyone else. He is very formal and polite with other girls. With me: Well, there was this phase when he would be teasing me for no reason at all....provoking me, u cud even say flirting. Now he has become gentler. He acts caring, listens to all my stories real attentively, offers advice, sometimes even acts a little possesive. Like if i tell him that someone didn't behave nicely towards me, he would kinda become biased against them. And suddenly begin to find them irritating. It has become kind of understood between us that we talk every other day, if not more. And of course when you talk to someone that much, then after a while you talk about yourself, your beliefs, your values, your childhood experiences....stuff like that.

What do you think ?

posted October 27, 2006 12:11 PM              

:::Well, there was this phase when he would be teasing me for no reason at all....provoking me, u cud even say flirting.:::

oh i told , you they are big flirts once they are comfortable with the person .
all this ofcourse means , he like s being with you , feels very very comfortable .

one sure shot way to understand would be ofcourse his shyness apart from check out how he reacts if you make an overt signal that let him knows you like him , something like - you sing very well (btw, i am very good bathroom singer ) or you have a great choice .
cancerian like all this flattery but that also arises a kind of suspicion so if he likes you he would appreciate all this flattery cos they dont normally suspect or give more benefit of doubt the people that they love or like ( they ofcourse have a very cautious nature but take a fact they like flattery ) but incase he doesn't he would simply keep silent or you could read from his face that he isn't very very cool with your comment .
again even in his silence , one thing that needs to be marked if he is smiling - incase he is , it might be positive but incase he doesn't believe in your praise he will have a question mark on his face or not much of a reaction that is to tell you i am very respecting of you but iam not much interested in you .
if he is cool , that in his mind means he is being accepted thats why all this flattery from the other side , they take it as acceptance .
cancers are normally very intutive though i am not , so if an idiot like me can guess the others motive i am sure your cancer would be too .
and all this from my own exp. , so all this might go wrong too

you know his combination of sag moon is quite confusing cos sags are completly in how they react to these situations .