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Topic: Weird behaviour for a cancer?
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OzMeg222 Knowflake Posts: 333 From: Registered: Jul 2006
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posted October 22, 2006 05:26 AM
Ok so there cancer-guy and I were having a huge conversation about everything. He was doing most of the talking, spilling his guts about his family dramas and ex dramas and heaps of personal stuff.So I ask him if he's 20 or 21. He got all funny and mumbled 20, then said he's 21 in a few months. I asked him when his birthday was and he mumbled he didn't know, then said he was adopted. I gave him a funny, bemused look but left it alone. That was a strange fib and I'm wondering whether he got funny cos I said last time I saw him he was too young for me. I can't for the life of me come up with any other reason for him not telling me his birthday, I know he's a cancer so that makes him not long turned 20. Has anyone else come across such bizarre behaviour from a cancer man??? IP: Logged |
themysteryclub Knowflake Posts: 220 From: United States of America Registered: Nov 2005
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posted October 22, 2006 04:22 PM
well keep in mind that cancers are moody!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (I know I am, and sometimes I act really weird around other people just because I am feeling uncomfortable, and I say weird things because I am so tense and uncomfortable) I wouldn't worry about it. if you want to get to the bottom of the situation, then just spend more time with him so you can experience all of his moods, and then you will get the overall picture of what is going on with him. As a cancer with a cancer moon I often wish people would spend more time with me so they can see all of my sides-the good, unusual, and everything else in-between good luck, mysteryclub IP: Logged |
OzMeg222 Knowflake Posts: 333 From: Registered: Jul 2006
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posted October 22, 2006 05:50 PM
Thanks for that! I kinda got a bit paranoid he just flat out didn't wanna tell me for some weird reason. But the only reason I could think of was he was a bit awkward cos he knows how much older than him I am, and thats not a bad reason, its cute.I've seen a few of his moods; happy and chatty, deeply sharing, flirty, tired and grumpy, shy and awkward, caring. It'll be interesting to see what else comes up. IP: Logged |
themysteryclub Knowflake Posts: 220 From: United States of America Registered: Nov 2005
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posted October 22, 2006 07:49 PM
lol, yes, I'm sure it will be interesting My guess is that your correct in thinking he just is uncomfortable about the age difference. I used to have a little phobia about how young I was when all of my friends were so much older. I don't care so much now, but I used to feel really tense about it. He will probably come to a point where he realizes that the people that really matter won't care a bit how old he is. IP: Logged |
Juno Knowflake Posts: 92 From: UK Registered: Jan 2006
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posted October 22, 2006 07:59 PM
sometimes I've noted some cancerians seem to make things more complicated ...its the hard shell factor they try not to risk too much for fear of being hurt....IP: Logged |
OzMeg222 Knowflake Posts: 333 From: Registered: Jul 2006
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posted October 22, 2006 09:33 PM
Well I don't care how old he is! I think maturity level is more important than physical age. His best mate is my best mates husband and he's 34. He confides in cancer-guy (he's also cancer btw) about problems with his wife and life in general. I'm just annoyed he didn't give me his birthday cos I'm just dying to take a look at the synastry! Lol! I've had a rough look and it looks good so far but I can't get the moon, mercury or asc and his venus is either leo or virgo. The rest looks nice though. He's got me really intrigued. I'll just have to see though cos if he was after sex I won't be hearing from him again cos I didn't 'put out'. He didn't really try though which was nice. I'm no good at chasing so if he wants me he's gonna have to ring me again.IP: Logged |
and Knowflake Posts: 1133 From: Meet me in Montauk Registered: Jun 2006
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posted October 22, 2006 10:07 PM
Cancer men are so strange.... i dont know what to make of them... im learning...------------------ "WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit" "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation" -Khalil Gibran IP: Logged |
OzMeg222 Knowflake Posts: 333 From: Registered: Jul 2006
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posted October 22, 2006 11:06 PM
I think it must be water sign men in general. My ex was a leo sun, aries moon and aries asc; there was never any doubt about where I stood with him. He chased me hardcore and moved in with me before I could catch my breath. It was a very smothering and unhealthy relationship. I like this 'getting to know you' stage, but I'm so unbelievably insecure I don't know where I stand! So I guess what everyone is saying is I shouldn't worry that he was coy about telling me his birthday when he was telling me heaps of other personal stuff? IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Knowflake Posts: 1402 From: The Asylum Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 23, 2006 09:55 AM
Yeah, watermen are definitely the incognito-behind-the-scenes kind of guys but us watergirls are even worse so I guess the joke's on us. Even though my guy has a sag stellium and a air venus (I have one too), it took us two years to get together.(I'm not advising anyone to wait that long....every situation is different.)Yeah, don't worry it though....I too think he lied because of the age difference; he may be a little insecure about being young and/or younger than you but that should be no big deal. IP: Logged |
OzMeg222 Knowflake Posts: 333 From: Registered: Jul 2006
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posted October 25, 2006 01:58 AM
A little update-My best friend saw cancer-guy last night. I asked casually if he was annoyed he didn't get his booty call when he came over on the weekend. She said he knew before he came over it was out of the question, she told him herself. This was after she'd already text me saying he was probably looking for action. Wish she would've let me know I was paranoid all night! It made my day. She asked if he stayed and where he slept, I didn't say much just that it took ages before he cuddled up to me. Interesting. Sigh. IP: Logged |
GypsyDancer1221 Knowflake Posts: 6 From: Charlotte, NC, USA Registered: Oct 2006
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posted November 10, 2006 10:15 PM
I'm a Cancer, too, so yes, we can be this moody and eccentric, if you will, but I'd check for Scorpio in the chart. They do like keeping things to themselves, especially if they feel that it will help them. One of my old Scorpio friends lied to me about his NAME. I asked what his middle name was and he refused to tell me, then later when I wasn't talking to him (for some reason; I never stopped talking to him long) he wrote out "Jack David Martin *******" and I asked, "Is that your full name?" and he said it was, but then later I found out he'd lied. It's strange, but that's something I'd check for. Hope it helped. Be safe! ~CocoIP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Knowflake Posts: 1402 From: The Asylum Registered: Mar 2006
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posted November 10, 2006 10:27 PM
Actually, cancers are secretive too, along with scorpios. IP: Logged |
aqua inferno Knowflake Posts: 49 From: body‘s in the office, brain’s in the sky Registered: Oct 2006
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posted November 14, 2006 05:20 PM
quote: I've seen a few of his moods; happy and chatty, deeply sharing, flirty, tired and grumpy, shy and awkward, caring. It'll be interesting to see what else comes up.
They’re just way too cute I used to keep a diary of my Cancer and his moods as the Moon goes from sign to sign - weird I know, but it was insightful ------------------ aka WaterNymph pisces/virgo/pisces/aquarius/aries/aries - member of the sun sign reject club - but still loved *hopes* IP: Logged |