posted October 30, 2006 12:49 PM         

Good luck and enjoy..

posted October 30, 2006 12:57 PM         

InLoveWithLife,

I actually think it is electronic pixies because my computer does this ALL the time. It also likes to turn off without explaination. It's a little tempermental.

posted January 11, 2007 11:22 AM         

I was looking around the lindaland site today and noticed there is a lot of talk about Cancer men going on. I thought it would be a good time to give you all an update on my relationship with my wonderful Cancer fella. Things are going really well. His family was here for the holidays and we all had a great time. They kept commenting on how happy I make him and how pleased they are that we have found each other.
We spend every available moment together and are more connected than ever. I think we will be taking a trip to Europe this summer and are both really excited about that. He has started talking more and more about children in the near future and I we have decided to move in together. I am just so very happy.

To all of you who are sturggling with your Cancer relationships right now, just remember that there are really wonderful Cancer men out there and true love may be just around the corner.

Best Wishes for the New Year,

posted January 11, 2007 08:44 PM         

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EEEEEEKKKKKK!!!!
Hello all,

Well, apparently being totally honest about my feelings and the note I gave him yesterday was just the thing because we’re not dating, we are becoming a couple! As you all know from the various posts I have made, I have been trying to get together with this really wonderful Cancer Male, but he has been a tough nut to crack. I was relatively certain that he liked me, but I just wasn’t sure. The other day he asked me out and we went bowling, but I still wasn’t sure that it was a “date”. Saturday night we were talking and I just felt compelled to tell him how I felt about him. As it turns out, he has feelings for me too and said that if he saw me dating someone else he would be really jealous but he was unsure if it was a good idea to pursue it because we are neighbors and what if things didn’t work out. We were both really tired when we talked so I wrote him a note about all the things that I really wanted to say—see
“It was soooo a date”. Anyway, he came over last night and we talked about it. He said it was really sweet and he was so flattered. That it made him feel a lot better that I said I had a difficult time with the getting there part of relationships as well. He said he had some things that he wanted to tell me about how he feels, but he wanted to think about them. He also said that he gets anxious because he is afraid he will do the wrong thing and he will not only loose the romantic relationship, but our friendship as well. I told him he wouldn’t do the wrong thing and if he was ever unsure all he had to do was ask and I would never be unkind. I think he felt a lot better about the whole thing and I think the truth is he has been apprehensive because HE is afraid he will do something wrong or I will reject him. It was so sweet! We talked about how serendipitous our meeting was and how he has really had to try and integrate that. We also talked about how neither one of us has really dated much, we just seem to couple and although we didn’t say so definitively, that seems to be what we are doing. Coupling. He is going out of town on Wednesday and will be really busy before he leaves. I told him not to worry about getting to the sharing his feelings part right away; he had a lot to do for this conference. He wants to write it down so his insecurity doesn’t get in the way. Then he invited me to go out of town with him the weekend of the 12th. He provided two options so that we could stay overnight or not depending on my comfort level. Later he talked about another plan for our going to an event this spring. Apparently he has been thinking about us and the future. Yeah!! The whole conversation was just wonderful. He gets this very tender and sweet tone to his voice and he kind of blushes and his shoulders shrug. It’s precious. I think this whole time he has just been afraid and insecure and when I let him know that I wasn’t going to hurt him and was brave enough to open up about my feelings, he felt safe enough to come out of his shell. Thank you all so much for all your help. I am sure I have just made you all crazy with my ramblings about this lovely Cancer, but it has been through the understanding you have provided that I have been able to move this relationship forward. Thanks. I'm just so happy I could cry!

Tinasparkle

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I'm soooo jealous... LOL

I'm only kidding!

I admire you!

I only hope to be in a happy relationship with my ex (a cancer) who is my friend, as you are with yours!!

You inspired me not to give up on him

Thank you sooo much for sharing yor beautiful story!

posted January 11, 2007 09:17 PM         

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Hello all,
I was looking around the lindaland site today and noticed there is a lot of talk about Cancer men going on. I thought it would be a good time to give you all an update on my relationship with my wonderful Cancer fella. Things are going really well. His family was here for the holidays and we all had a great time. They kept commenting on how happy I make him and how pleased they are that we have found each other.
We spend every available moment together and are more connected than ever. I think we will be taking a trip to Europe this summer and are both really excited about that. He has started talking more and more about children in the near future and I we have decided to move in together. I am just so very happy.

To all of you who are sturggling with your Cancer relationships right now, just remember that there are really wonderful Cancer men out there and true love may be just around the corner.

Best Wishes for the New Year,

Tinasparkle

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Oh WOW I'm so happy for you that his family loves you!!!! That is a plus with a cancer!!!! Because for a cancer... family comes first!!!!

You're an inspiration!!!

Thanks again!!!!