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Topic: Freaking out and completely upset
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GeminiLover75 unregistered
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posted October 28, 2006 12:22 AM
I'm such a spy too! I actually spied on my sister's bf and uncovered his internet porn/sex chatroom addiction... she suspected something strange was going on, so I spied on that b*st*rd, on his computer and in his bills/receipts, til there was no doubt about what he was getting up to. The creep! I do other kinds of secret spying on people too, like uncovering a person's background so I know what I or other people might be up against... I don't do this obsessively, btw, it's just something I naturally do when it's necessary... and I love it! Bwahahaha! I was going to ask you about your bf's moon! I was also going to mention that with his Gem sun and Aquarius ascendant, it's a combination that probably is quite detached at times - with my bf a Gem and his brother an Aqua, I'm familiar with how these boys can sometimes cut themselves off. But it's not usually a big drama. I'm a Sag ascendant, so I tend to talk a lot and make long posts online too! With Sag being opposite Gemini, I have somewhat of an understanding about that - the need to talk, be social, and the whole 'freedom'/'travel' thing. So how are things now with you and your bf? IP: Logged |
BornUnderDioscuri Moderator Posts: 49 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted October 28, 2006 10:31 PM
Oh man i totally know what you mean, i talk non stop all the time and sometimes reveal too much that my scorp moon hates. Like now i have a friend who at first was an enemy and is rather selfish at times. Hes a Pisces Scorp asc Sagg and we just spend 3 hours chatting away and i felt i told him too much...i tend to tell ppl things (which r true) cuz i want them to like me (damn Libra asc) but yea. Spying is the best hobby of mine and is people's psychology. Put the two together and i found 3 out of 4 of my bf's crushes from HS with whom he lost touch (just for myself), based on only what he told me about them, not even a name. But my bf and I are alright. Had this huge fight yesterday over i guess nothing but i still think im right. We talked about it after (we almost broke up, i was actually ready to walk away) and are alright now and got things going, he opened up a bit and we made some progress. THo im not too hopeful its one step up two steps down for us. Hope tho it will be okay if things go like that...yea detached he is, moon in Capricorn too...hates emotions, is often cold and stuff and as a Scorp moon it kills me...Our synastry is very good, our composite is very bad though. I wonder which is more important. Sigh------------------ Sun-Gemini Moon-Scorpio ASC-Libra IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75 unregistered
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posted October 28, 2006 11:47 PM
I know what you mean! Having a Scorpio moon does make it hard to deal with the detachment sometimes... and I think sometimes I come across as too intense for him sometimes because of it. But I'm only doing what's natural to me. This is where knowing about astrology is good because it can remind us that if they're more detached than us, there's not necessarily anything 'wrong', it's just the way they are. Makes it easier to deal with. How strange you had that argument, because last night I had an argument with my bf! I was ready to walk away because of it too... and I brought it up to him this morning and he didn't even remember it being an argument! So I told him how I felt, and he could see my point of view... so he apologised and we shook on it to communicate better about that particular issue... at this stage, where it feels like there's a lot against us (transit-wise), I feel like we achieved one small very positive step in something that's been an issue for a long time. It definitely does feel like a Saturn influence, and as far as I can tell so far, it really is a case of 'work on it now or break up later'. So I'm being positive that we can work on this 'small stuff' bit by bit. And omg, how funny! I do spying about ex's too (for my own interest)! I think it's a type of 'reassuring myself' or something weird like that. Oh and to be honest, I wouldn't worry about a chart being the make or break of anything - it just points out strengths and difficulties. Me and my bf's synastry doesn't look anything special, although there are a lot of Pluto trines between us. And there's a nice mutual Jupiter/Moon conjunction. The composite seems nice, a grand air trine with a kite. What the charts don't really show is how we attract each other in other more unusual ways; like how our 7th houses attracted each of us, similarity of certain placements, etc. From the beginning we knew it wasn't an astrologically "easy" match, but yet we're strongly drawn together (that's probably Pluto) and also experience a lot (and I mean a LOT) of synchronicities and similar interests, sense of humour, etc. So it doesn't all come down to what's obvious in a chart! IP: Logged | |